Ukuziphelela, I-Psychology
Kufanele ukwenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele ukwenze
Yini okufanele uyenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze? Ngokuvamile wonke umuntu, mhlawumbe ongavamile, kodwa kunezinsuku ukuthi akukho lutho okumele lube khona. Yiqiniso, kubantu bentengiselwano nabantu abamatasa, le nkinga iyamangalisa futhi imomotheka ebusweni, njengoba usuku lwabo ludwetshwe njalo ngomzuzu futhi akukho isikhathi esanele sokuphila komuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke, lesi sihloko sizinikezelwe kulabo bantu abazithola besesimweni sokuphazamiseka ngenxa yokuthi akukho lutho okufanele bakwenze, futhi kulabo abangakwazi ukucabanga ibhizinisi elithakazelisayo ukuze basebenzise isikhathi sabo sokuzilibazisa ngenjabulo nangenjabulo.
Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze? Okokuqala, kungani wena namuhla ungacabangi ngempilo yakho futhi uzinike isikhathi kubathandekayo bakho. Phindela emuva ku-salon beauty bese ubhalisela ukunqunywa kwezinwele, inkambo yokusikhipha umzimba kanye nobuso, izinqubo zezimonyo, ukugcoba umzimba, ukuhamba ngezinyawo futhi uzenzele umuzwa wenjabulo, ukuphumula. Emva kwakho konke, uzovuma ukuthi ngenxa yokuphikisana okuqhubekayo, impilo nezinkinga zomuntu siqu, asivami ukuvumela ukuba singene ezweni lezinjabulo. Ngaphambili, lapho kungekho lutho, kwakungumkhuba omuhle kuwo wonke amantombazane ukuba alungise okuthile okumnandi nokuqala, okuyinto evame ukungena ngesikhathi. Ngakho-ke, namuhla unethuba eliyingqayizivele lokufaka umcabango wakho bese uhlola isidlo esithile esingavamile noma ubhaka, uthi, into engavamile futhi eyingqayizivele. Futhi kubalandeli ukuba bahlale eduze nesitofu, ukuzijabulisa okumangalisayo (futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, okuwusizo) kuyoba ukulungiswa kwemikhiqizo eqeda ukuphela kweviki lonke kubathandekayo babo nezihlobo zabo. Isibonelo, ukondla amadokhumende, amadombolo, iklabishi imiqulu, upheke ama-pancake ngokugxila, inyama enqotshwayo yezinsika. Le mikhiqizo engapheli kahle igcinwe efrijini, bese kuthi, uma isikhathi samahhala sizoba sesikhashana, kuzodingeka upheke noma ufune izitsha ezibalulwe ngenhla.
Kanti nalabo abangenalutho ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula bangabheka ngokukhethekile izimbali zabo zangaphakathi, okungafinyeleleki ngaso sonke isikhathi izandla. Phela, lezi zitshalo nezindlu ezinhle zidinga ukunakwa okukhethekile nokucophelela. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ungawafaka embizeni entsha, ushintshe inhlabathi, ugeze amaqabunga bese ukhululekile othulini. Thenga futhi uhlobise izimbali zakho ozithandayo ngezindwangu ezimangalisayo nezingavamile ngendlela yamavolontiza, izintethe, namatshe amaningi anemibala. Lokhu kuzosiza hhayi nje ukushintsha ukuklanywa kwekamelo lakho kancane, kodwa futhi kuzophakamisa isimo sengqondo. Noma kungani ungenzi ukuhlanza okukhulu endlini? Geza amafasitela, uphonsa izinto ezindala nezingadingekile, unake i-crystal ngokukhululekile, ukhulule izingubo zakho ezingubo ezingadingekile, wenze uhlaka oluncane endlini, uhlanze ngokucophelela lawo makamelo lapho ukuhlanza kuvame ukushesha futhi kungavamile - ukugezela, indlu yangasese, ikhishi. Yini okufanele uyenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze futhi ungafuni ukusebenza kakhulu? Bese ufunde incwadi enhle yokuqonda noma yothando, ongazange ube nayo isikhathi esanele, noma ubheke ifilimu endala, enomusa.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze? Futhi kungani ungacabangi ngokuthola ukuzilibazisa okuphakade? Ngakho, isibonelo, zibuze umbuzo: "Ngingathanda ukwenzani ukuze ngikujabulise?" Ngokusekelwe impendulo yalo mbuzo, ungase ube nokuzilibazisa okunjalo njengokumiswa okuphambene, ukudweba ngeglasi, ukubopha, ukuthunga izinsimbi noma amaphuphu amahle, ukwenza imidlalo, ukuvakashela echibini, ukuthatha izithombe, ukuqoqa izinto ezihlukahlukene nezinto. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakho samahhala ngenzuzo, kufanele ufunde ukuthi ungayichitha impilo yakho ngeze, kepha ukwenza okuletha injabulo nenjabulo. Jabulela!
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