Isehlukaniso - imiphumela engemihle (ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso njengoba esonto, ukucindezeleka ngokwengqondo ingane)

Umshado elihlakaniphile okusungulile umphakathi. Ngokusho imithetho yobuKristu zemizwa yangempela bazalwa ngqo emshadweni. umkhaya oqinile - ngiphephile empilweni izinkinga vicissitudes. Izwe linenkinga, izinkinga emsebenzini, ubugebengu emgwaqweni ... Indlu bomdabu, abantu bomdabu - yilokho uyohlale ngithole amazwi afanele bungaduduza futhi ukunikeza uthando. Kodwa hhayi ubuhlobo nenzuzo njalo uyaqhubeka isikhathi eside, usuku olulodwa, ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene ukuze kwehlele kuyisikhathi esibucayi, lapho ukwesekwa okudingekayo nomunye.

Kuyinto esimweni esinzima, abaningi bakuthola akukho okunye kodwa hlukanisani ubudlelwane. Isehlukaniso kusukela iphuzu ngokwengqondo buka, ziyasibona ukuba abantu abaningi, futhi uma umndeni unezingane - ke iyacindezela isibili ngisho izinyane. Ngaphezu ukwehluleka ngokomzwelo, ukudabuka of ubudlelwano akuhileli itheyiphu zomthetho obomvu, ukudala izinkinga ezinkulu ukuqaliswa izindima sabazali. Ngokuvamile ngemva kwesehlukaniso izingane ukuhlala ekunakekeleni kukamama, okuyinto waziphatha imfundo yabo - kuyise kudingeka bakhokhe nesondlo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi amadoda ibalekele ukukhokhelwa kwanoma yikuphi izinzuzo. Ngokomthetho angikwazi ukubalekela - ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso njengoba esonto ngeke kusadingeka ukhokhe ngaphambi ingane yobudala.

Nejoka abazali - ukuqinisekisa lekusasa eliqhakazile izingane zabo ezincane zehluleka ukwanelisa izidingo zabo zansuku zonke. Umastende unelungelo lokuthathwa njengomsulwa befuna inkokhelo lokukhokha komunye oyedwa njalo ngenyanga ngisho enkantolo. Ngaphansi imithetho nesondlo 1 ingane ¼ wengeniso ingqikithi ephathini, ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso for ingane yesibili - 1/3 ye-inzuzo kanye 50% yamaholo izingane wesithathu futhi okwalandela. usayizi kokuqukethwe zingandiswa noma kwehle ukwahlulela, kuye ngokuthi isimo sezimali kanye nezinye izimo ezifanele lomkhokhi, into esemqoka bavuselwe isamba (st.103SK) wayengekho ngaphansi kuka osungulwe ngokomthetho.

Material kufanele ivalwe kulezi zimo ezilandelayo: kokufa Umamukeli ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso noma lomkhokhi, ukuqedwa kwenkontileka ngesivumelwano yizinhlangothi zombili, kwesikhathi yesivumelwano, ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni engu-18, yokufuna abantwana bakwa umthamo elisemthethweni (umshado, Ukukhululwa). Uma umzali ngamunye ahlale ophethe izingane, bese ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso njengoba esonto ikhokhelwa ephathini ungcono komunye umuntu. Ngokungangabazeki, ingxabano kwezomthetho kanye nempahla ngesehlukaniso - kuba yingxenye ebalulekile yimuphi amacala ezehlukaniso, lapho kukhona izingane.

Uma abangane bomshado ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga ngokuthula sizongena kusengaphambili yonke imininingwane - inqubo kuyoba isikhathi esincane esiningi futhi ubuhlungu. Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile lapho izingane abadala netrudnosposobnymi futhi edinga ukunakekelwa kwabazali, ukunakekelwa (abantu abakhubazekile, abantu umhlalaphansi). 85SK Isihloko washo ngokucacile ukuthi kulokhu abazali anesibopho ukunikeza usizo, nesondlo izingane omdala e isamba esingaphansi ubuncane ukudla. Ngisho noma umzali kuphambuka nokukhokhwa ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso, ingane omdala angaya enkantolo ukuze alulame izikweletu uma:

· Ingane Ikhutshaziwe;

· Akukho sivumelwano kokuqukethwe alimentary;

· Umuntu udinga usizo.

Kulokhu, inkantolo uqoka ukukhokha ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso njengoba esonto, ukuthatha ezinye umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama ku-akhawunti. Futhi, inkantolo uyakucabangela zonke izinhlobo engenayo: ngisho noma imali lokukhokha komunye oyedwa sika incane, namanje ukhishwa ukunikeza abadala nezingane zikhutshaziwe.

Isehlukaniso abazali ngoba ingane kuyinto ukucindezeleka kakhulu ngokomqondo, ngokuvamile ngenxa yalesi simo ezinganeni avele izakhiwo zezifo ezahlukene, okuyinto kufanele aphathwe nguchwepheshe, kungenjalo kungaba nemiphumela ebuhlungu.

I izimo zihluke, kodwa, nokho, njalo udinga ukuthola imibono yabanye futhi izixazululo zezinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma izingane zikhula emndenini. Abazali bobabili banesibopho izingane zabo futhi kufanele kumile ke ubuntu agcwele futhi ukukhokha ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso njengoba esonto, uma bengahlali ndawonye. Ngakho umthetho uthi.