Imincintiswano enhle yokugubha owesifazane noma indoda

Kuze kube manje, kuyathandwa kakhulu ukuhlukanisa noma yikuphi ukugubha ngenhlelo yokuzijabulisa engeke ikuvumele nje ukuba ujabule nomphefumulo wakho futhi ungalali ngaphandle kokulinda ukuphela, kodwa futhi ukukhumbula iholidi isikhathi eside. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kulabo bantu emngceleni lapho usuku olubalulekile empilweni luyisikhumbuzo. Kulesi simo, kufanele uzame ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umsunguli weholidini lokugcina iholidi lalihlotshaniswa nemizwelo emihle nezinkumbulo ezimnandi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukunakekelwa lokhu kusengaphambili futhi ulungiselele umcimbi ozayo, ngakho ungakhohlwa ukufika ngama-toasts apholile, ukuhalalisela kanye nemincintiswano emnandi yosuku lokugcina, olungavumeli noma ubani ukuba acabange nganoma yini enye ngaphandle kweholide okwesibili.

"Qagela ... isilwane"

Lena umdlalo omnandi kakhulu ozokwenza wonke umuntu ahleke ngenhliziyo yonke. Umngane ucela isimenywa esiteji futhi amtshele ukuthi unethuba elihle lokuqagela isilwane. Ngemuva kwalokhu, kubalulekile ukuvula umhlanganyeli ehholo bese ubonisa izivakashi isithombe ngeenkanyezi ezidumile ze-movie noma osombusazwe. Umdlali kufanele abuze imibuzo eholayo ehholo, isibonelo, "Ingabe unamahlumela?" Noma "Uyakudla, izimpukane noma inyama?". Ngikholelwa, kuzoba kubi kakhulu, lapho umlindi ekhombisa isithombe noNicola Baskov, futhi lowo ohlanganyele uzobuza ihholo imibuzo efanayo.

"Ukuhlola okunamandla"

Yimiphi imincintiswano emnandi yokugubha usuku lokugubha umkhosi okuzofaneleka? Yebo, "hlola ukuhlolwa". Lapho zonke izivakashi zidla kahle futhi ziphuza kahle, ungazijabulisa kancane. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kuqala ulungiselele isilinganiso samadijithi angu-40. Futhi "40" kufanele ibe ngaphansi. Ngakho, umethuli kufanele alethe abantu abambalwa esiteji. Buza ukuba bame ngeminyango yabo esikalini bese begoba phezu kwamakhanda abo. Nika ipeni ngalinye ngesandla. Vumela ngalesi simo ababambiqhaza bazame ukufinyelela ezingeni eliphezulu futhi bafake uphawu. Lokhu kuyoba yinkomba yokukhathazeka kwakhe. Imincintiswano emihle yokugubha usuku lokungabi nalutho "kungcono ukuchitha nabantu abambalwa abadakiwe kakhulu.

"Ukuncoma okuningi, okuningi"

Imincintiswano enhle yeJubbe yowesifazane kufanele ithwale ngokwazo hhayi amahlaya kuphela, kodwa futhi ihlanganyele yothando. Mema bonke abaya kulo mkhosi ukuthi bahlanganyele kulo mdlalo omnandi. Ngamunye wabo kufanele abizwe ngokuvumelana nokwazisa kweJubane. Noma ubani oqala zaponetsya, uyaphuma. Inombolo yeziphakamiso ezinikeziwe kuncike eminyakeni emingaki yecala lomkhosi. Isibonelo, imincintiswano yamahlekisayo yokukhumbula iminyaka engu-55 yowesifazane kufanele ibe nokuncoma okungenani okungama-55, 65 - okungenani angu-65, njll. Kodwa uma amadoda engafuneki ukuyeka, akeke aqhubeke, ngoba uma owesifazane ezwa kakhulu Amazwi amahle, futhi ngisho namadoda ahlukene.

«Mimicry usizo»

Ukusungula imincintiswano emnandi yesikhumbuzo sakho senze umqondo ongenakulinganiswa kulabo abahambile kanye nakwezinye izimpikiswano, kufaka phakathi kuzo izihloko ezithakazelisayo. Isibonelo, thatha ibhokisi lokufanisa nentambo encane. Mema abantu abambalwa ukuthi bahlanganyele. Usebenzisa intambo, faka ibhokisi ekhaleni lomdlali ngamunye. Ukubandakanya ubuso, abahlanganyeli kufanele basuse "imfanelo ecasulayo" emakhaleni abo. Noma ubani owenza ngokushesha uzowina.

"Izingoma ezingavamile"

Nakhu omunye umdlalo ongayisebenzisa uma ufuna imincintiswano yamaJuba. Lungiselela umdlalo izinto eziningana, isibonelo, i-mop, i-pan, ibhakede, ibhokisi, njll Ukubamba iqhaza, mema abantu abambalwa. Isihloko sesifundo ngasinye esilungisiwe sibhalwe ephepheni elihlukile. Umhlanganyeli kumele (ngaphandle kokubuka) athathe iqabunga bese efunda igama lento. Emva kwalokho, umculo uvuliwe futhi isidlali kufanele sidansa ngalesi sihloko. Kuhle kakhulu uma umuntu othile ojulile edansa ngesilwane noma esikhwameni.

"Ngaphandle komngane noma kuphi"

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi imincintiswano emihle yeJubane iyasebenza. Omunye wabo "Ngaphandle komngane noma kuphi". Kwabamenywa abaningana ababili ukuba babambe iqhaza. Iqembu ngalinye kufanele liboshwe ngezindophi, futhi ukuze babuyele komunye nomunye. Umethuli kufanele afinyelele iJubane bese ebuza: "Ufuna ukudayisa uhlobo luni lomdanso?" Iqembu lokuzalwa kufanele likhethe ukuthi yiliphi iqembu elizodansa. Kuyinto emnandi kakhulu lapho abahlanganyeli bebopha omunye umdanso "Kazachok" noma rock'n'roll.

"Ngidakiwe noma angidakiwe ..."

Ungalahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwabo nokuncintisana kokuphuza okujabulisayo kulokhu lokugubha usuku. Isibonelo, kungenzeka ukuthi ulungiselele futhi ubhale phansi ephepheni amagama asebenzayo kanzima ("nge-vertex kabusha", "i-lilac-eyed unpromising", "okunzima ukukusho," "ukuqondisa, ukuqondisa, hhayi ukukhipha," njll). Yilapho isivakashi "esithokozile" esivela khona.

"Ukudideka"

Ngaso sonke isikhathi ezinjabulweni zezivakashi imincintiswano yemidlalo yokugubha usuku (iminyaka engu-55 owesifazane nomuntu noma 25 - hhayi okuyisisekelo) lapho zonke izivakashi zibandakanyeka khona kanyekanye. Enye yalezi "ukudideka". Ngakho, lungisa izigqoko ezimbili. Kuzo zonke izivakashi zinikeza amaphepha amancane amabili wephepha. Ngesinye isikhathi, abahlanganyeli kumele babhale into abazoyigcina kuqala emlilweni. Ngesibili - incazelo (kungani bebengagcina le ndaba ngamagama). Emva kwalokho, umethuli uqoqa amaphepha. Amagama wezinto kufanele afakwe esitokisini esisodwa, nezizathu - kwenye. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngamunye wezivakashi kufanele adonsele ephepheni ephepheni ngalinye futhi afunde okulotshiwe kuwo kuzo zonke izilaleli. Kuyinto ehlekisayo kakhulu uma isivakashi sisho le nkulumo: "Itafula - kuhle ukulala" noma "Isiqandisisi - kuhle ukuyijabulela."

Ukuncintisana ngomqondo omuhle wokunuka

Ukubamba iqhaza, abantu abaningana bamenywa, abafakwe amehlo. Umdlali ngamunye kufanele athande izinto ezisezandleni zokuhola, futhi anikeze impendulo efanele. Noma ubani obiza okuningi izinto ezifanele, wanqoba. Unganikeza noma yini oyithandayo, ukuqala, isibonelo, nge-chop bese uqeda nge- bill dollar eyinkulungwane.

Cowboy

Imincintiswano enjalo engenangqondo yonyaka wejubili yendoda noma owesifazane ngokuqinisekile iyojabulisa bonke abavakashi, ikakhulukazi labo abazobamba iqhaza kuyo. Ngakho-ke, ukuze uthole umdlalo udinga izigqoko ezimbili zezinkomo, ama-pistols amabili (ithoyizi), i-2 mops (njengendlela yokukhetha, ama-horsiki ezingane ngenduku) namabhuloki amabili amabhuzu ezinjoloba. Ukubamba iqhaza abantu abangu-2 bamenywa ukuthi ngubani ozodlala ama-cowboys. Abahlanganyeli kumele bagqoke amabhuzu, bagqoke isigqoko, bathathe isibhamu esandleni sabo bahlale ehhashi. Ngesikhalazo esithi "Yakhu, bah-bah", lo wesifazane kumele aqhubekele "enkosini" enkosinikazi futhi amthathe "ehhashi" lakhe ekhaya. Lowo ozokhulula amakhosazana noma izikhulu endaweni eya kuyo.

Isiphetho

Ingxenye eyinhloko yimuphi umkhosi awugcini nje ithebula eligcwala iziqabu ezihlukahlukene, kodwa futhi nokuzijabulisa okulungiselelwe okuzovumela izivakashi ukuba zingadli nje kuphela enhliziyweni, kodwa nokuthi zingamjabulisa kanjani.