Comfort zone njengoba komkhawulo

Manje abaningi lapho ezwa inkulumo ethi "inkonzo yesikhathi esigcwele." In ulimi Psychology, kusho ukuhlala umuntu esikhaleni eziphilayo (kokubili umuzwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo), lapho kuyinto elula ukuba, engazizwa ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka, ubuso bayo bancibilika, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo akazange zenzeke, njengoba umthetho, akafuni ukwethula into entsha empilweni yami. Yiqiniso, ukuze ngamunye siqu sakhe. Akubona bonke babe nomgomo omkhulu ukuba sijabule inxa zombili phambi kwabo iholo uzinzile, kwesejwayelekile ukusebenza imini nobusuku ithelevishini. Futhi uma kukhona ukulangazelela omkhulu, bese ngokushesha kakhulu iphele. Abantu ezizungezile sokuzama ukumphoqa ukuba ushintshe kuphela imbangela yokucasuka, futhi ekugcineni ukubohla ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Kodwa lapho indawo induduzo ngokuba kulo muntu yaziwa njengenye isithiyo ukuthuthukiswa, kubalulekile ukuthatha izinyathelo juqu. Cha, akubona bonke abantu bayakwazi ukufeza ezinye zinobude lezinkanyezi, akubona bonke abantu abanalolu namakhono avelele, iziphiwo, akuwona wonke umuntu ongase lucky. Kodwa ukuze wenze ukuphila kwakho kuphumelele kakhulu futhi acebile, sihlakulele izimfanelo oyifunayo, sithole amakhono ezengeziwe, inwebe noma ukushintsha umbuthano womphakathi ngenxa noma yimuphi umuntu, uma ephuma induduzo yakhe zone.

Psychology Modern inikeza amasu amaningi self-ngcono.
Cishe bonke zisekelwe ekubhujisweni kwenkolelo engaguqukiyo, ukubuka ukushintsha ukucabanga,
ukususa elidala kanye kumiswa imikhuba emisha. Akuve kubalulekile
izincomo, Nokho, thina akumelwe ukuqagela, kodwa ukuze kuphumelele
isenzo. It is hhayi ukususa uqalephi? Nge encane.

• ukwenza permutation ifenisha;
• ukuya emsebenzini omunye indlela;
• Awakening esidabukisayo ekuseni washintsha ukuba ukweqa eyingqabavu ngaphansi umculo esimnandi;
• ubhalisele ezemidlalo ukuqeqeshwa, ukudansa noma izifundo;
• abangane abasha;
• hamba on uhambo okungavamile;
• cabanga ngendlela ukuze ujike wokuzilibazisa ibe esebenzisa imali;
• ngesikhathi ukumangala umqondo omusha noma ngobuciko ukupheka ababezenzele yona;
• ukushintsha kwekhanda lakhe futhi izingubo isitayela.

Kumane emisha ezincane, okungase kube ukuqala izenzakalo ezinkulu.

Ziningi izincwadi ezibhaliwe on isihloko "Psychology injabulo" ezitolo abafanele, hlala Racks wonke kanye nezikhundla ehola yokuthengisa rankings. Abantu bafuna ngempela ukuba sijabule futhi siphumelele, okuyinto akumangazi. Kuphela lapha ukuze uwine nazi nabalobi kanye nabashicileli of izincwadi ezinjalo, kanye abagqugquzeli seminar zokuzisiza ngcono, okwabangela inhlekelele imali eningi. Hhayi ngokuthi ngemva lezi zifundo, abantu kungazelelwe ezimpilweni zabo, futhi ngemva kokufunda le ncwadi, futhi ikakhulukazi, abantu bavame nje ufune umlingo, okuyinto ngokwayo iyobenza empumelelweni nasenjabulweni. comfort zone is umthetho ngakho nje. Ngoba akwanele ukwenza umzamo kanye noma kabili, kukhona kudingeka umsebenzi njalo, lwalugxile ngokwabo. Ngempela, ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi izwe nje has ubuvila. Ngisho uhamba kuya ngokuzikhethela esitolo, ungakwazi umyalelo ngocingo yonke indlela phansi umkhiqizo.

Iqiniso amanga ingozi main - ngomqondo inhlalakahle. Lapho wazi ukuthi konke ababekudinga ukuze ukuphila, futhi yini cha, noma akulona ngempela kudingeka, noma umuntu ongakatjhadi ngeze nhlobo, kungani kufanele ushintshe into? Ngempela, kungani? Nokho, ngizobuya gxuma nge-parachute, kahle, mina ngizakuthatha tour eYurophu - futhi ngokuvamile lokho kuzoshintsha? Nalapha grey khona, ekhaya-umsebenzi-ejimini. Nalapha some inkonzo yesikhathi esigcwele. Lokhu kungokwemvelo, into esemqoka - ungadikibali, abayeki, ukuhambisa ngendlela isiqondiso esinikezwayo. Kancane kancane, kuba lula.

Futhi hhayi ngakho qiniseka ukuthi ukuxosha kusofa ubudala ethokomele. Empeleni kungenzeka umane uphumule, ebuya "omkhulu" ukuphila egcwele impumelelo, indlu yayo cute manje efudumele ngempela, hhayi isicefe.