Amathiphu abazali abasha: okudingayo umbhaphathizo umfana?

Une ingane. Esikhathini esizayo, ngekusasa lakhe kwaba ngaphansi kokunakekela unengelosi, ingane engiswela ukubhapathizwa. Yiqiniso, lo mkhosi wenziwa, akubona bonke, kodwa kuphela labo abanamathela izimiso ebuKristwini, kodwa njengoba abantu abanjalo ezweni lethu kakhulu.

Yini edingekayo ukuze ukubhapathizwa kwezinsana? Sam emkhubeni wenza umpristi eBandleni. Ukubhapathiza abafana has umehluko encane evela umbhaphathizo amantombazane. Iqiniso lokuthi, ngokuvumelana izimiso ibandla, izingane azikwazi wenze i-altare - kangakanani ngabo indawo ayivunyelwe. Ngoba, ngemva eyigeza nokugcotshwa, amantombazane wabhapathizwa ngokushesha isetshenziswa izithonjana, kuyilapho abafana imenze altare ukuze churched. Zonke ezinye isiko kanye mithetho ngoba zonke izingane ngendlela efanayo.

Into yokuqala ukuthola ncamashí ukuhlelwa ukuthi udinga ukuba umfana obhapathiziwe, kuyafaneleka ukuba ukhethe godparents. Ukuze uthole umfana, ukunakekelwa okukhethekile kufanele ikhokhwe kukhethwa uyise. Kukholakala ukuthi ukuqaliswa isiko ubhapathizo idinga okungenani oyedwa godparent. Futhi kufanele kube abantu bobulili obufanayo njengoba godson noma goddaughter. Ngoba indlela ngokucophelela kukhethwa esiphambanweni - makube umuntu esimthandayo, futhi makabe ikholwa leqiniso, ngoba ukuthi ngeke esikhathini esizayo abe umbhidisi indodana yakho emfundisweni yobuKristu.

Lapho umbuzo indaba ne godparents, ukunquma usuku ubhapathizo. Ngokuvamile kuba usuku wamashumi amane wokuphuma ukuzalwa kwengane, kodwa uma ngosuku uke ezingabanjwanga - akunandaba. Kuze ingane eba neminyaka eyisikhombisa ubhapathizwe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.

Okulandelayo, kufanele umfana obhapathiziwe - ukuze ukhethe igama isonto. Yiqiniso, ezimweni eziningi zizofana igama civil wengane - amagama ethandwa kakhulu kuyinto nomvikeli wabo abangcwele ebuKristwini, kodwa-ke ukuze kwenzeka ukuthi igama, ngokwesibonelo, i-Old Slavic, nesikhathi Christmas akafani naye. Funa iseluleko salowo umpristi, yena Anokubutha analogu abaseduze kwegama wokuziphilisa noma ukhuluma ngalokho kuyoba ngcwele umnakekeli ingelosi indodana yakho, esekelwe usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe.

Okulandelayo, kufanele sithathe isethi umbhaphathizo umfana. Lezi zindlela zikholelwa izingubo ezikhethekile christening, engu- pectoral enamanzi nethawula-kryzhmu lapho godparents ukuthatha ingane novookreschennogo aphume wefonti. izingubo wobhapathizo kufanele kube enombala okhanyayo. Limele ukuhlanzwa kwezono, okwamanje samaholide kwangaleso sikhathi ngokuphathelene nobhapathizo. Uma izingubo wobhapathizo osale Enganeni endala, kungashiwo ngofuzo abasebasha. Kuyinto enhle, ngoba kukholelwa ukuthi onjalo ifa sisiza izingane esizayo ukuze ngibe seduze kakhudlwana komunye nomunye.

Ngempela kunombolo oludingekayo ukuze umbhaphathizo umfana engena pectoral esiphambanweni. Ngokwesiko-ke njengoba wobhapathizo ithawula, ukuthenga godparents njengesipho godson yakhe. Ezweni lethu kuyisiko ukupha abashadayo kanye chain, ubeke isiphambano ngegolide, kodwa uqobo, ubuKristu engamenzi imingcele enjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungaba ngcono uma esiphambanweni usana wenziwe impahla engasindi (ukhuni noma isiliva) hhayi elenga neketanga, nomchilo ethambile hhayi ukukuthinta isikhumba obucayi umntwana omncane. abalekele okunjalo angathengwa at amabhentshi isonto. Futhi kungenzeka ukuxoxisana godparents ukuthi gold cross kanye chain abayowuletha ayesekhulile nesigceme ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa.

Nokho, umuntu obaluleke kunabo lokho okudingekayo ukuze kube umfana obhapathiziwe - liphefumulelwe umoya. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuhlonipha izimiso esontweni, futhi bazi ukuthi lokhu Ukuvikelwa obryad- umntwana emimoyeni emibi, izifo kanye ngamashwa. izingubo Yobhapathizo enamanzi nethawula kakhulu ukugcina imemori - bona okukholelwa ukuthi futhi amandla iziphandla.