Yini ebaluleke kakhulu? Winning Noma ....

"Inqobo nje uma ungenalo ukunqoba yena, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uyosibonisa abaphikisi '

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Ungase umangale ukuthi ngisho noma ngingelona wezengqondo ezemidlalo, mina ungabeki injongo eyinhloko ukusebenza high yethu abasubathi. Isifiso sami esiqotho - ukuthi bafundza ngaphakathi mahhala kusukela yi baye ukuthi izingane zafunda sijabulele ukuphila, naphezu ukunqotshwa emncintiswaneni, hhayi ukugxila emaphutheni abo ukuze zenani ngokwabo, kungakhathaliseki inani lamaphuzu. Phela, phakathi naso sonke isikhathi umsebenzi, ngangivame ukubukela ndawo: emva uchungechunge ukunqotshwa, baningi abezayo ukungakholelwa ngokwabo, inkomba engahlula umphumela, futhi lokhu ukucindezeleka ngisho okukhulu kwengqondo. Futhi uma inyuka voltage, isimiso sezinzwa iphelile, futhi amathuba impumelelo umdlalo kuthiwa ziyancipha. Futhi uNkulunkulu abe nabo, ngemiphumela .... kodwa ngemuva kokuxinwa ukuzethemba kwengane, bakhe impilo nengqondo, futhi isimo sokucindezeleka, nokudikibala kanye uhlobo ngokuqondile ibonakale impilo.

Uma izikali ukubeka Imiphumela ngokwengqondo (nezingokwenyama) ezempilo ezinhle, yini okhetha? .. engikukhethayo impilo. Lokho mina kungani ukuphakamisa ukubeka endaweni yokuqala ukuhlakulela isimo umsubathi nemithi, ngaso enhliziyweni lapho kungenzeka ukubeka sengqondo esifanele ukulahlekelwa kanye nekhono hhayi ukumthethisa wena amaphutha, bese sifinyelela iziphetho futhi baqondise esikhathini esizayo, inhlonipho abaphikisi (wawungekho umona, inzondo) ngoba yilokho abaphikisi ikuvumela ukuba ubonise engilakhele isithunzi sobukhulu nemvelo. Incontinence, umhayizo, intukuthelo - konke lokhu kuwuphawu wokungalondeki nesifiso esinamandla kakhulu ukuwina, kunalezi abaphikisi. Manje ake sicabange mayelana nokuthi kungani kudingeka ukuba ngcono kunabanye? Ubani futhi yini sifuna ukufakazela? Ingabe nokuzethemba ngeke zifakazela ukuthi bangcono kunabanye? Kunalokho indoda unethemba sibuyela kwesijwayelekile, besisa, nesineke, abahloniphayo nonomusa. Kodwa lapho senza ukhathazekile ngokuthi abanye ngeke ngathi (ngokungazelelwe bacabanga: "WiMP, isiphukuphuku isiphukuphuku"), lokhu lapho izinkinga ziqala. Ngubani kudala lezi zinkinga? Izingqondo zethu! Siziqhathanisa nabanye, bezibeka ukulinganisa "Mina ngiyindlela ungcono noma kukubi kakhulu", esikhundleni ukuziqhathanisa nalokho saba esikhathini esidlule (futhi lena umgomo okuningi futhi inikeza ithuba soberly ukuhlola yini noma cha sithuthuka).

Thina ngokwethu abangu ikhohliswa ngokuthi ngasizathu simbe musa nje wenze izinto ozithandayo, futhi qiniseka "gxuma 'othile. Umphakathi igcugcutela umcondvo kakhulu. Ukuziqhenya esikoleni, idolobha, izwe kufanele kube Champions! Futhi umuntu enezimfanelo kungabaza. Mhlawumbe lokhu iqhawe ulaka, abahahayo, luhlaza, njll Futhi uma ucabanga ngakho, kungase kudingeke uhlole ngokwabo phezu izimfanelo zomuntu? Mhlawumbe sifanele kumfuna siziqhenye guys uhlobo, enozwela nesibindi? Futhi yini eye ukusebenza Wezemidlalo?

Uma ngifuna ukuba okungcono ezemidlalo sokusebenza kwengqondo kule Samara esifundeni. Manje kubonakala ezihlekisayo kimi. Kungani? Ubani nalokho enginakho ukufakazela? Lokhu kubalulekile, ngiba isihloko yesayensi, izitifiketi ehlonishwayo beqeda izifundo noma cha? Mhlawumbe okubaluleke, uma mina njengendlela lobuchwepheshe kungasiza abagijimi, indoda ukuthi ngihamba wonke ...

Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi izifiso zethu kuphela ezonakalisa ukuphila. Ukuvelela baphoqeleka ukuba bayeke ukugxila hhayi injabulo ezintweni zakho ozithandayo, futhi ukufeza le yalokho, futhi ngenxa yalokho wadumala kabi uma umphumela akuyona efinyelelekayo.

Mhlawumbe usuke wayizwa inkulumo ethi livame ukusetshenziswa zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nezazi zefilosofi eziningi Sages, "Yiba lapha manje" futhi ngempela formula sengqondo esifanele maqondana nokuphila. Phila, funda ukuba ngomzuzu wamanje, makangilandele ngokuphelele, esikhundleni ukusebenzisa phambili bese udweba ezingqondweni izithombe ezesabekayo sokwehluleka. Zilinde, ngokuvamile kakhulu, sicabanga ngekusasa hhayi okwenzekile okwamanje, noma ukupheqa izinkinga isimo esikhathini esidlule, ukwesaba sengathi akwenzekanga lokho. Abaningi manje ngakho uhlala khona, futhi lokhu ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, impendulo engakufanelekele okwenzekayo. Futhi engenangqondo egcwele ukusabela ekulahlekelweni sigameko (isibonelo), ukucabanga ukuthi ndawana-thile ezweni elikude kuyinto sempi futhi amanye ingane nje abafuna ukusinda, futhi kwezinye izimo nangendlala, enye ingane mbibi ukudla, futhi endaweni ethile komhlaba enye .... futhi manje uqhathanise isimo sakho futhi isimo salabo bantu ... Bese ungaphenduki kuyaxaka ngicasuke futhi "ababulewe?" ngenxa ukulahlekelwa? Yebo, ukulahlekelwa - akunankinga, kungcono kithi isifundo, uvivinyo lwethu, leli yithuba uqobo ukubona abakhona, kuba ithuba ukuziqeqesha ukuba ziqhubeke nezimo ezicindezelayo ... Futhi uma ukhumbula kakhulu ngakho-ke emva kwesikhashana isimo sengqondo esinjalo yokuhluleka lukhuni uhlamvu futhi ulungiselele zikhathi ezinzima ngempela wokuphila, okuyinto kuyodingeka ukuba nethemba lokuhle, ukuzithiba futhi ukuzethemba.

Abanye abantu, njengoba sengike on the esengozini yokufa, esisekhona ngokuyisimangaliso, isikhathi eside ebuka ukwehluleka zezwe njengoba izinto kancane ekuphileni, ngoba basuke ukuqhathanisa ingahambi nge ngezinkinga ezingathí sina ngempela ... Ingabe kudingeka uthole siyongena engozini ngempela ukuthi ngabe bayaqonda ukuthi yonke lonke izinto siyakucela obudinekile - ngempela umbhedo? Mhlawumbe kwakumane nje isikhathi khumbula ukuthi into esemqoka awukona ukunqoba, kodwa isimo sethu sengqondo ekuphileni, ikhono ukujabulela izinto zilula futhi sikujabulele ukuphila.

Ngikunikeza ake isifiso sokuvelela ukuthatha ukusebenza yabasubathi bungatholakala, noma kungenzeki, futhi lokhu akufanele usithe ezimpilweni zethu. Kodwa uma siba nesimo sengqondo esiqondile nokukholelwa ngokwakho, ke Amathuba okuphumelela iphezulu kakhulu. Ngakho, funda ukujabulela inqubo umdlalo (izinto ozithandayo) is kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba ulinde umphumela.

"Thukulula" yalokho, kube lapha futhi manje, ngokuvamile khumbula ukuthi okwakubaluleke ngempela ekuphileni kwami bese ubone ukuthi ithemba, injabulo nokuthula kuyokwenza ukuphila kujabulise ngokwengeziwe, futhi sithuthukise ukusebenza yabasubathi - kuyoba side effect besimo sengqondo esinjalo esihle maqondana nokuphila.