Ubudlelwane, Lomshado
Wedding emcimbini - zonke izimfihlo
Zonke izinto ezingcono kakhulu ekuphileni kwenzeke, ngokuvamile kanye kuphela. Yilokho umshado esontweni, futhi, kufanele imithetho eyenziwa kanye kuphela futhi ngaphambili, ukuthi wenze lokhu, kudingeka ucabange kanye ngodaka bonke abapristi kungukuthi kuthathwe. Inqubo kukodwa wedding has a lot of umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama, ngakho kudingeka sihlale sikulungele ukuhlola bonke ngothi lwabo.
Esikhathini sethu, ukuqhuba umshado kungadingeki, kodwa imindeni eminingi abasha ufisa ukuqinisekisa umshado wabo ngeke ukubhalisa kuphela ehhovisi lokubhalisa, kodwa kuJehova. Ngesizathu esithile sinqume ukuthi umshado - uyisiko elingasho lasendulo, kodwa empeleni akusiyo. Sekuyisikhathi eside eRussia, imikhaya abasebasha bayiswa ungashadile, kodwa sike sibenane yini kuphela izindandatho emkhosini lathathwa baseByzantium.
Kukhona umkhosi ezimbili lomshado, okungukuthi, ama-Orthodox futhi yamaKatolika. Siyahlela ngaphezulu ifomu Orthodox yalowo mkhosi, kodwa sifuna ukusho iSonto. KumaKatolika, umshado futhi okulingana lomshado ukuze umqondo futhi yakha linye. Ngesikhathi umakoti nomkhwenyana ofakazi ngokuvamile eziningana, ubufakazi egqoke ingubo efanayo. Umakoti ungena uyise isonto futhi amholele ekubeni altare, ngoba nguye okufanele "edlula" ezandleni ezintsha. Ngezinye izikhathi ubaba esikhundleni omunye umuntu oyikhathalelayo wakhe.
Manje sihlolisise i emcimbini wedding-Orthodox, okuyinto engcono kakhulu nobuntu ezweni lethu. Okwenziwe isiko umshado esontweni, kuba isakramente futhi, kanye nemfundo. Ngokusho mithetho esontweni isiko ukuze uzilungiselele, okungukuthi uzilé ukudla, umthandazo, wenhlanganyelo, uphenduke.
Umnyaka lapho isonto bavunyelwe ukuba bashade, ngoba abesilisa nabesifazane ihlukile, 18 no-16 iminyaka ngokulandelana. Njengoba umshado uyize akanayo ukufeza isiko kungenzeka kuphela ngemuva kokubhaliswa ngokomthetho.
Bakha umshado - ukuzibandakanya, lomshado, isinqumo imiqhele kanye nokubonga. Umakoti nomkhwenyana kumele ame ebheke e-altare: umkhwenyana - ngakwesokudla, umakoti - kwesobunxele. Umpristi, kokushiya altare, kumelwe kathathu wabusisa abasha. Umndeni osemusha okumelwe abe yikho amakhandlela iziphambano. Ikhandlela ame njengoba iwuphawu ukukhanya nenjabulo, ngakho kufanele ovuthayo kulo mkhosi.
Ukwendiselana senzeka phakathi ethempelini, lapho umakoti nomkhwenyana kuletha umpristi. Wedding Sacrament iqala ukufunda imithandazo, ngemva kwalokho umpristi esegqoka indandatho abasha. Omunye indandatho bafake kumyeni wakhe, kufanele kube igolide, kanti owesibili, umakoti - esiliva. Kodwa ke abasha izindandatho ezintathu ukushintsha, futhi ngenxa yalokho uthola igolide indandatho umakoti nesiliva - umyeni wakhe. omshado ngokwawo iqala ngemva kwalesi.
Young ngelulela emhlophe (kungaba pink amacansi), ngenkathi ezandleni banamathela amakhandlela elikhanyayo. Emva umfundisi osemusha wavumelana imibuzo, wafunda yomthandazo futhi uyababusisa umakoti nomkhwenyana imiqhele. Funda iVangeli.
Ngemva kwalokho, lo mbhangqwana kuthatha phuza kusukela nendebe yewayini elibomvu, ku ezintathu phuza encane, kuqala kwenza umyeni bese umfazi. inkomishi Common elifanekisela ezivamile phetho, injabulo kanye nosizi. Ekupheleni emcimbini abasha ukubophela inyunyana yabo ngokwanga.
Kukhona ezinye izici okufanele kubhekwe, ukuze umshado owodwa ojabulayo. Uma uqhuba emcimbini wedding, umpristi uhamba astray avele amakhandlela acime nezinye izimpawu, akukuhle ukuba bashade, ngoba umshado ngeke uphumelele. Isibonakaliso eziphawuleka kakhulu, uma ngesikhathi somkhosi lomshado esontweni bemletha efile, njengoba kunenkolelo ukuthi yona le aura eliqhakazile kwabasha.
Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuze ngemuva osemusha akazange eme eceleni amadoda amathathu gay. Ushadile kufanele abantu kuphela ababhapathiziwe, kusukela ngesikhathi somkhosi kufanele abize amagama abo abawanikwe ngesikhathi bebhapathizwa.
Ngemva kokuboshwa kwefindo zonke izimfanelo abakhona, kuhlanganise ingubo yomshado kufanele lugcinwe. Njengoba uma enkathazweni, bazocula uhlobo izintelezi, lapho ungavula usizo.
Similar articles
Trending Now