Wedding emasikweni izolo, namuhla nakusasa njengoba isibusiso abasebasha?

Kungakhathaliseki yobudala kanye nesikhathi, umshado - kungcono isiko emangalisayo nge nomlando wayo eyinkulungwane, amasiko kanye script. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi zonke izizwe sakhe, ekhetheke kakhulu. Pointeresuemsya, njengoba kuyisiko eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox.

Isiko isibusiso

Igama elithi "isibusiso" libhekisela silulumagama multi-zenani, kodwa omunye, izimiso zayo ezinkulu eyinhloko kuzwakala "ukukhazinyuliswa othile noma okuthile, ukuphakanyiselwa." Ngamanye amazwi, kuba isifiso okuphumelela, sikufisela inhlanhla, injabulo kanye thuba ukuze ugcwalise sisakha, njll Uma Leligama lisetshenziswa umakoti nomkhwenyana, isibusiso them is Isifiso sokuzenzela onobunye, ukuhlala kuyo injabulo nothando, ukuqonda, ukwethembeka nokuchuma. "Yeka indlela esibusiswe abasebasha" - ubuza? Ngokuhlukile.

Uma sibheka umlando, isenzo senzeka khona ngale ndlela. Ngemva ukuqomisana abese isithembiso, lapho insizwa ethile kanye intombazane wamemezela isifiso ukuqala umndeni, abazali njengophawu ukwamukelwa phezu kwabo esiphambanweni, wamanga esiphongweni, siyakuhalalisela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sibasha noma waguqa noma bakhothama. Ayikwazanga ukwenza isiko ubaba nomama nhlangothi zombili noma kwenye.

Indlela ukubusisa abasha, uma kungekho abazali? Khona-ke umsebenzi kungumsebenzi abadala emndenini: ogogo nomkhulu, anti noma umalume, mfowethu, dadewethu. Ekugcineni, ukunikeza inkulumo yokuvalelisa impilo entsha omkhaya godparents esithi esizayo abasanda kushada. Kuvele caveat ezibalulekile: i eyingoduso isinyathelo kumelwe zibhapathizwe. Uma akukho okudlula ukuzinikela kuNkulunkulu omunye wabo wayengekho, it nakanjani kudingeka zidlule. Nini futhi kanjani ukuba abusise lezi abasha ngaphezulu?

yokuvalelisa Okwesibili uthole umakoti nomkhwenyana ngaphambi kokuba siqhubeke Umdwebo ebhukwini. Ngaphambi lokhu Okusemthethweni zomthetho baba okutlhogekako, kwakukhona umqhele umshado esontweni. Lapho osemusha wayezimisele ukuya phansi indawo yezinto, ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe ekhaya, baphinde isibusiso imifanekiso nomndeni, noma izithombe, wathenga ngokukhethekile kulesi senzakalo. I imifanekiso ke banikwa umbhangqwana osemusha ngoba obereganiya kubo ukuthula nenjabulo. Umakoti nomkhwenyana kathathu akusibekele Isiphambano nemithandazo akhethekile izilokotho ezinhle.

Futhi, ekugcineni, indlela ukubusisa abasha okwesithathu? Kukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kwenziwa emva komshado (imidwebo), lapho othile osemusha uye ngokusemthethweni wathola isimo womkhaya osemncane. Ngaphambi kokungena endlini, lapho umshado itawugujwa, abazali ukuhlangabezana isinkwa futhi yabo usawoti, imifanekiso, izifiso bathi yokuvalelisa. Igama kugcina uyise lomyeni, hlebushek - kunina. siyakuhalalisela Young, engu- kiss. Labo ekuphenduleni ukubonga futhi ngithembise ukuthi hlola abaphezulu kanye ukwakha ikhaya komkhaya okujabulisayo. Yiqiniso, ngisho kwikota yokuqala yekhulu lama-20, umkhuba kwaba efanele futhi kudingekile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, intsha yesimanje ngokuvamile ukwenza ngaphandle kwalo. Noma athobele isici esisemthethweni yesiko. Kodwa kukhona imibhangqwana eminingi ukuthi amnike umehluko omkhulu ngempela.

Icons isibusiso

Yikuphi isithonjana ukubusisa abasha? Umbuzo uwukuthi kunalokho mncane. Okokuqala, njengoba sekuphawuliwe kakade, kungaba isithombe umndeni, ngobulili ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane lapha nje kulo mkhosi. isithombe esinjalo namolennye usunayo i amandla eqinile omuhle, ikakhulukazi uma umshado abazali lanamuhla abasha, ogogo nomkhulu, njll Kwaba yimpumelelo, ihlale njalo futhi ijabulise. Bayoba iziphandla ezinhle umkhaya omusha abasha. Okwesibili, isithonjana ingaba isithombe sikaPetru Fevronia of Murom - abangcwele obonwa Bandla ababheki le umndeni. Okuningi wanquma ukuba abusise isithonjana nge UnguNina KaNkulunkulu noMsindisi - owesilisa nowesifazane. It kufanela umfanekiso Nikolaya Chudotvortsa. Futhi ubuqili lokugcina indlela efanele ukubusisa abasha. Icons zithathwa esontweni (noma Registrar), abese elengiswa ku ekhoneni ebomvu kwelinye lamakamelo endlu lapho kuhlale abasha.

Qaphelisisani noma cha sebenzisa isiko - iyindaba yomuntu siqu umndeni ngamunye abasha. Kodwa uma ufuna ukuthola isithembiso ngokuphelele okuqotho injabulo, ukuba ngiphile impilo ende ndawonye injabulo - ngcono ukuziyeka isibusiso umzali UNkulunkulu abe nani!