Ukuziphelela, I-Psychology
Ukuhlakanipha - kuyini futhi ukuthuthukisa kanjani leli khono kuwe
Ukuhlakanipha yikhono lomuntu ukuba athole ngokushesha izixazululo esimweni esinikeziwe. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amagama athi "ukuhlakanipha", "ingqondo" kanye "nokuhlakanipha" afana, kepha akunjalo. Zonke lezi zimfanelo ziyingqayizivele kubantu, kodwa zinezinto ezihlukile phakathi kwabo. Umuntu angaba ohlakaniphile, kodwa akahlakaniphile, kodwa angakwazi kokubili lokho kanye nalowo mfanelo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi umehluko yini, kodwa ake siqale sicabangele isibonelo esisodwa sobufakazi.
Umsingathi ohlakaniphile
Omunye umuntu wabona ukuthi amasela asebenza egcekeni lakhe. Ngokushesha wabiza amaphoyisa, kodwa lapho waziswa ukuthi kwakungekho izimoto zokuhamba ngokukhululekile, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho kukhululwa omunye, babezothumela ingubo. Le ndoda yasheshe yazi ukuthi kufanele yenzeni. Ngemuva kwemizuzu engu-5 wabizela amaphoyisa wathi akadingi izingubo, ngoba wadutshulwa amasela esitokisini. Ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa isibalo esikhulu samaphoyisa ahlomile agijima waya egcekeni. Basadingeka bavalele izigebengu, ngoba lo muntu akazange adubule noma ubani.
Lesi sibonelo sobuhlakani sibonisa ukuthi le ndoda ayidingi nolwazi olukhethekile. Wenza ngokushesha kakhulu futhi ngokuzenzekelayo, ngoba impahla yakhe yayisengozini. Kungenxa yezikhathi ezinjalo ezingalindelekile ukuthi wit uza kaningi. Iyiphi ikhwalithi ingasindisa impahla yomuntu, indoda engazi. Wenza nje, njengoba ingqondo yakhe yamtshela. Okusho ukuthi, umuntu ohlakaniphile angase angazi ukuthi unjalo.
Ukuhlakanipha ezinganeni
Esikoleni, sithola ulwazi oluthe xaxa futhi sihlakulele futhi siqeqesha ingqondo yethu. Kodwa-ke, esikhalweni sezikole isikhathi esincane sizinikele ekuqeqeshweni kobuhlakani, futhi sikhumbulana kuphela. Kuze kube yize, ngoba cishe bonke abantu kusukela ebuntwaneni banokuhlakanipha okuthuthukile, futhi uma kungaqeqeshiwe iminyaka, kancane kancane kuba ize. Lokhu kulula kakhulu ukuqinisekisa: ingane ingabonisa ukuhlolwa kobuhlakani, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi imiphumela yakhe iyoba ngcono kuneyakho.
Izingane eziningi zicabanga ngokungahambisani nalokho, nakuba abantu abaningi abadala bebheka lobu buqili bomntwana. Ngenkathi ikhanda lomntwana lihlanzekile futhi lingavaliwe ngethempulethi yokucabanga, uyakwazi ukuthola izixazululo ezingavamile kakhulu ezimweni ezivamile. Futhi ungadideli imiqondo enjengokuqamba nokuhlakanipha. Iyini inkohliso, wazi konke. Okokuqala, lezi yizenzo ezithile ezenzelwe ukuzizuzisa kuphela, kodwa futhi nokulimaza abanye. Kodwa izingane zingokwemvelo kakhulu futhi zinomusa. Iningi lezingane, ngisho noma zenza izinto ezimbi, zenze ngokuzithandela.
Indlela Intelligence isebenza ngayo
Ama-Wits angahlukaniswa izingxenye eziningana: co-image-umsebenzi. Ngempela kungenzeka ukuhumusha, njengokuxhuma kwezithombe. Kunoma yisiphi isimo esidinga isixazululo, umuntu ohlakaniphile unemifanekiso emibili ekhanda lakhe. Okokuqala yile ndlela le nkinga ibheka ngayo, kanti eyesibili indlela okufanele ixazululwe ngayo. Ukuxhuma ngokuqondile lezi zithombe ezimbili, lo muntu uthola isisombululo. Kungenzeka ukuthi akusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okudlule, kepha lesi sinqumo siyobe singejwayelekile. Ngamanye amazwi, ukucabanga okungewona okuvamile - lokhu kungukuthi. Kuyini ingqondo nokuhlakanipha, wonke umuntu uyazi. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okutholakala ngemithombo yolwazi.
Ukuqeqesha umzimba
Ukuqeqesha ukuhlakanipha ukusebenzisa izinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Enye indlela enhle yokuqeqesha ukulalela imininingwane ehlukahlukene ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Abantu abanengqondo baqaphele kakhulu. Babona izintandokazi ezihlukahlukene, ezibonakala zingadingekile. Kodwa-ke, lapho kuvela isimo esibucayi, yizinto ezincane ezisindisa umuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani kunomphumela omuhle ekucabangeni okunengqondo.
Ukuze uqeqeshe, ungazama ukunaka izihloko ezihlukahlukene futhi ucabange ngazo. Isibonelo, ngaphambi kwakho indebe, cabanga ukuthi kungani isibambo kuso sitholakala ngale ndlela futhi kule ndawo. Ake ucabange ukuthi ungabeka kanjani esinye isibambo kule ndebe, futhi kungaba ngcono ukuphuza kuso noma cha.
Kukhona nokuhlolwa kokuhlakanipha, futhi endleleni yabo futhi basiza ukuthuthukisa lo mfanelo wobuntu. Isibonelo, uhlolo olulodwa lwemibuzo emihle kakhulu. Iqukethe imibuzo engu-21 ngenkohliso engcolile. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi, into esemqoka kulesi sivivinyo ukuthola ukuthola umphumela. Noma kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlaziya umbuzo ngamunye nokuphendula.
Isibonelo sombuzo ohlangothini lokuhlolwa
Izinyoni ezimbili zihlezi egatsheni, enye ibheke enyakatho, enye iseningizimu. Omunye wabo uthi: "Bheka, nonke ningcolile." Owesibini uyayiphendula: "Futhi awukho kangcono, amaphiko akho ahlambulukile." Izinyoni zingabona kanjani ukungcola komunye nomunye uma zibukeka ngezindlela ezahlukene?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula: izinyoni zibukana. Babheka kuphela izikhombandlela ezahlukene zezwe.
Lolu hlobo lwamapuzzli lukhulu. Ukuxazulula zonke izinsuku ngisho nemigqa embalwa, ungakwazi ukuqeqesha ubuhlakani ngokuphelele. Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi imfanelo inikela empilweni yethu. Yebo, okokuqala, lokhu kuyimpumelelo emsebenzini. Umphathi ngamunye angathanda ukubona abasebenzi bakhe kuphela abantu abahlakaniphile.
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