Ukuqinisekiswa othandweni oluzoshintsha impilo yakho

Ngaphandle kothando, mhlawumbe, umhlaba wethu ngeke ube khona. Kubonakala kukho konke okusizungezile kuphela. Futhi akekho ongasenza sijabule, uma kungenjalo.

Ukuze athande uthando empilweni yakhe, wayehlala ehlala kuye, futhi umuntu owakuthandayo wabonakala futhi wabonakala, umuntu kufanele aqonde iqiniso elilodwa elilula: umuntu kufanele azithanda yena kanye nakho konke okuzungezile, anike umfudumalo kuwo wonke ukuphila okusizungezile futhi avame ukufakazela ukuqinisekiswa Uthando.

Ekuboneni kokuqala, kubonakala sengathi kungaba lula kunokuzithanda? Kodwa empeleni konke kubonakala kuhluke kakhulu. Abantu abaningi banezinambuzane zangempela emakhanda abo abangavumeli uthando lungene emiphakathini yethu. Uyazi amagama anjalo?:

- "Angidingi noma ubani (akudingi)"

- "Lokhu akukhona kimi"

- "Angiyena omuhle (hhayi omuhle)"

- "Nginamafutha amaningi"

Futhi njalo - idatha yezinqiniso othandweni nokuzibandakanya kwayo empilweni kuyonakalisa. Babesabisa lo mzwelo wemilingo.

Ukuqaphela ukuthi impilo yakho ingokwakho kuphela, nokuthi kufanele uzithande, noma ngabe ukuphi, uzoqonda umthetho oyinhloko wokuphila. Ungayithanda kanjani omunye umuntu, uma wena ngokwakho ungathandi wena? Uma unesiphambeko ekubukeni, khona-ke udinga ukuqonda ukuthi imvelo ikudalwe njengalokhu , ungumuntu ngamunye, futhi ngokujwayelekile uthathe ukuthini, yiziphi izinkinga? Mhlawumbe, nguwe kuphela ocabanga kanjalo. Khumbula "ukuthi ungabiza kanjani umkhumbi - ngakho uzohamba", into efanayo lapha nokuthi uzibona kanjani, ngakho abanye bazokubona.

Uma uhlushwa yimicabango ngamakhilogremu engeziwe, mayelana nokungapheleli kwalowo muntu - sebenzisa ngakho. Zinike imizuzu eyishumi nesishiyagalombili ngosuku ukuze usebenzise umzimba olula futhi olula, uphonse ekudleni kwakho ukudla okunobungozi - amafutha, okubabayo, uthathe amnandi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuya ekudleni, ungazitholi, udla nje imifino, izithelo kanye okusanhlamvu - ukuthi ufuna ukulingana. Uzogcwala, futhi umphumela uzozibona wena, lapho kungazelelwe uthola ngephutha ukuthi umcibisholo wezikali uwile kakhulu. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi baphule, usuke uthole umphumela wakho.

Kodwa uma uthola kunzima ukuzithanda wena, ake senze ukuqeqeshwa okuncane okuzosiza kulokhu. Sisho njalo lezi ziqinisekiso ukuthanda ngokuzwakalayo futhi impilo yakho izoguqulwa.

Ukuqinisekiswa okuheha uthando:

1. Ngiyimbonakaliso emangalisayo yokuphila, futhi ngiyakuthanda.

2. Ngiyakuthanda ukuthi ngingubani.

3. Ngiyajabula ngabantu abakuzungezile, futhi abantu bayakujabulela ukungibona.

4. Konke engikwenzayo kuhle kakhulu. Indlela engibukeka ngayo inhle futhi inhle kakhulu.

5. Nginguye ukuphelela kwangempela kuzo zonke izici.

6. Ngiyakuthanda mina futhi ngithanda impilo yami.

7. Ngiyaqiniseka ngokuthandwa kwami nokuhlakanipha kwami.

8. Ngiwumthombo wangempela wothando, injabulo nenjabulo.

9. Ngifanele kuphela okungcono kakhulu ekuphileni, futhi kunjalo.

10. Uthando luyisimiso sempilo yami.

11. Ngizungezwe uthando.

12. Ngithanda futhi ngivumela uthando empilweni yami.

13. Ngigcwele amandla othando.

Ungathola okuthile okuthakazelisayo, kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi kufanele ibe yinto enhle kuphela, futhi kuphela esikhathini samanje. Khona-ke kuzosebenza ngempela.

Kumele wazi ukuthi ungadonsela kanjani uthando nge-feng shui. Ikhaya lakho lisho okuningi, lingakutshela konke mayelana nesithombe sempilo yakho. Khumbula ukuthi kufanele kube into ehlanzekile, enhle, lapho umuntu angathanda ukubuyela khona futhi.

Okokuqala, cima yonke imfucumfucu, yenza ukuhlanza okuphelele, uhambe kuzo zonke izinto ukuze uthole imininingwane encane futhi uyilahle noma ulahle konke ongakudingi. Futhi amagama afana nokuthi "okuwusizo" noma "osukwini oluluhlaza" akufanele azwakale nhlobo, futhi ungalindeli usuku olumnyama, vumela izinsuku ezikhazimulayo kuphela ziqhubeke. Futhi khumbula ukuthi uma unikeza ngokwengeziwe, uma uthola okuningi. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuqeda konke - wazi isilinganiso.

Thola ukuthi ikuphi endlini yakho, indlu noma igumbi eliseningizimu-ntshonalanga. Yilo mkhakha oyingxenye yothando nomshado. Isici salesi sigaba umhlaba, umbala yi-terracotta futhi ubomvu. Kufanele kube nokubomvu okuningi. Kuhle ukubeka lapha isithombe sabantu abathandana nabo othandweni (kodwa hhayi nganoma iyiphi indlela umuntu oyedwa!) Futhi ngempela ujabule - akukho mabuhlungu nemifanekiso, kanye namakhandlela amabili abomvu kumakhandlela amahle. Kuyafaneleka kule ndawo kuzoba zonke izimpawu zothando, kodwa kuphela amaphuzu amasha, izinhliziyo, izivini ezimbili njalonjalo.

Yenza kusebenze indawo yakho yothando, cabanga ngendlela enhle, tshela ukuqinisekiswa kothando nothando, khona-ke lo mzwa womlingo ngeke uthathe isikhathi eside ukulinda futhi ngokuqinisekile uzofika empilweni yakho, futhi uma usuvele ukhona, uzoba namandla futhi uphumele ngamandla.