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Yiziphi imikhuba yezezimali?

Lo mqondo, njengemikhuba yezimali, ingaphezu kokudumile kulezi zinsuku, kodwa abantu abaningi bayazinaki, ngaleyo ndlela bazibophezela ekhoneni eliyimpumputhe. Okokuqala, lokhu kuhlotshaniswe nokuthenga, okuxhomeke ngokuqondile kwimali ngabanye bethu, kanye nezinye izindleko esingazenza noma ezingenakukwazi ukuzikhokhela. Ngabe yiziphi imikhuba yezezimali, yiziphi zazo ezamukelekayo, nokuthi yini efanele ukudela, funda kulesi sihloko.

Isitha esiyinhloko sabaningi banamuhla banamacala. Njengabachwepheshe abanolwazi, noma yikuphi isikweletu akuyona nje isifiso sokuchitha okungaphezu kwalokho ohola. Lokhu kuphakamisa umbuzo othi: "Yini eyenza abantu baphile ngaphezu kwalokho abakwaziyo, ukungena ekuboshweni kwezikweletu, okuvame ukwakhiwa yilowo oboleka yona?" Impendulo ilula: imikhuba yezezimali iyingozi futhi iyasiza. Ukukhetha okokuqala, ukhulisa isimo sakho. Uma usuqondiswa yimigomo yesibili, qiniseka ukuthi impumelelo yezezimali ayikude.

Isitha esivame kakhulu esikhwameni sithenga "ngokomzwelo". Kuyinto isidingo somuntu ukuzitholela njalo izinto ezintsha, ama-trinkets, izinto zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ngeshwa, iningi lethu libonakala lihlelwe ukwenza ukuthenga okungacatshangwa, ukuthenga izinto ezingenasidingo ezingadingekile. Ukuze uqede imikhuba enjalo yezezimali, zama ukuqala ukuqondiswa yisimiso sabantu abacebile: ungazilibali imali edingekayo ngempela. Yenza uhlu oluqondile lokuthenga futhi eceleni kwento ngayinye, qiniseka ukubhala ukuthi kungani udinga le nto. Ngendlela, lolu hlelo luzosebenza kangcono uma uhlela ukuyothenga kusengaphambili. Khona-ke isifiso esingenakuvinjelwa sokuthenga nje lokhu noma lokho kuzoshisa, futhi ukukhetha kuyoba nomgomo ongcono.

Ukuthembela akuyona neze ikhwalithi engcono yomuntu, futhi kungaba ngcono ukushukumisa inhlalakahle yakhe. Umuntu angangenela ukugembula, ukugibela imali, izidakamizwa noma utshwala. Zonke lezi zici zonakalisa isimiso sezinzwa futhi ziphoqelelwa ukuba zibe sesikweletu, okuyinto enzima kakhulu ukuyikhokhela. Ungaphuma kule simo ngokubukeza ukuziphatha kwakho kwezezimali. Ake sithi umzimba wakho unamathele kakhulu kotshwala, futhi ukusetshenziswa kwawo kuyadingeka. Khona-ke sishintsha imikhuba emkhakheni wezezimali, okungukuthi, asizinikeli imali yokuthenga utshwala. Unganikeza imali ukugcina abantu abaseduze noma ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi akakho nje.

Ngokuvamile umkhuba wokuchitha imali uhlobene nesifiso sokuba nelungelo lokuphila okungcono. Ngakho umuntu angalahlekelwa imali futhi athenge imoto, ikhaya elisha noma izingubo ezibiza kakhulu. Kulesi simo, kunzima kakhulu ukuzimisa, njengoba amabhange amaningi nezinhlangano zezohwebo zinikeza izinhlelo zokukhokha ezikhangayo. Kodwa-ke, ungahambi kakhulu: uma wazi ukuthi kamuva nje imoto yemidlalo yinto engaphezu kwamafu, ungakhokhi ngezitolimende kuso. Zivumelise ukuyeka ukuthenga lokhu kuze kube yilapho ungakhokha khona ngenkokhelo eyodwa.

Manje uyazi ukuthi imikhuba yezezimali iyomabili ngokomzwelo, iyasikwanelisa, futhi ithola (umakhelwane unomshini ongcono kunami). Futhi kunoma yisiphi isigaba owawe, zama ukungazivumeli ukuba uchithe okungaphezu kwalokho ohola.

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