Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Siyini "omuhle": izwi
Namuhla, ngolimi lwethu isebenzisa amagama amaningi ukuthi lathathwa kwamanye amazwe namasiko. Nokho, naphezu kwalokhu, iningi lawo kakhulu egxilile futhi wazinza abasensimini yethu. Lokho Ngifuna ukukutshela ukuthi yini "omuhle" kungani namuhla: okushiwo nezinto ezithakazelisayo kakhulu liyobe lisetshenziswa.
okusho
Mangisho ukuthi esigabeni ngasinye wesayensi igama elithi "omuhle" has cishe kwenani elifanayo.
- Philosophy. Positive - yebo, yebo. Lokho nguye luyatholakala, langempela.
- Yemfihlo. Futhi lisho okuthile okwakhayo, eyayisekelwe isipiliyoni.
- Psychology, psychoanalysis. Positive - kuhle. Antonym ngoba izwi - "omubi", ukuthi kubi. Ngokuvamile esetshenziswa nolimi kusukela imigomo "uthando" nelithi "inzondo" kule block Sciences.
Kukhona izimpawu eziningi ezahlukene kakhulu. Uma sikhuluma ngokuvamile, ukuze igama elithi "omuhle" Lisho ukuthini igama elithi kuyehla kube unethemba, into ivela isibonakaliso "+".
Kuyini omuhle
Kuyathakazelisa ukubona igama njengokuthi "omuhle". Isikhathi esining impela kwenzeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Namuhla, abantu bakhe bayakujabulela ukusebenzisa ezihlukahlukene ukuzibonakalisa. Uma sikhuluma ngomqondo kwansuku bezwi, uhilela izenzo kusikisela izici ezintathu eziyinhloko:
- Isimo sengqondo lesifanele, isimo sengqondo isb.
- Unomusa, okungukuthi sengqondo esihle kubo bonke abanye, kungakhathaliseki izici ezihlukahlukene.
- yokuphila Positive lapho abantu beyojabulela khona konke okwenzekayo.
Ngokuvamile, i-HIV - ke stopobnost ukubona kuphela okuhle, hhayi kuphela emhlabeni ngaphandle, kodwa futhi kubantu abangabazi, futhi ezihlukahlukene ezimweni.
Positive - kuhle?
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi: siyimfanelo ukuphila akwanele. Abantu zilungiswa kuphela ezinhle, kabi ngiyijwayele impilo. Futhi ngokuvamile kuba kusukela kule ababuzwayo. Ngakho-ke, izazi zithi ukuze wenze ukuphila yokugcwalisa, ngaphandle isidingo omuhle ukuba abe ezakhayo kakhulu futhi unesibopho.
Uma umuntu omuhle kakhulu, angabizwa ngokuthi ezimfushane (ukungabi khona timphawu tesakhiwo). Uyakwazi ukuzwa ngenjabulo ukuphila, kodwa efanele ukuhlangabezana nezinselele kuba nzima noma kungenzeki nhlobo. Umuntu onjalo, yebo, uyaqhubeka ukujabulela konke kwenzekani, kuyilapho usesimweni esinzima noma ezibucayi. Futhi lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele, ngoba inkinga ingaxazululwa, futhi ugijime. Lapha nawu umbuzo, futhi umthwalo. Man "ezintweni ezakhayo" akafune ukuba baqikelele. Kumayelana injabulo siqu kuphela kwabanye kufanele wamane akanandaba. Ngakho, ukuze aqonde ukuthi yini omuhle, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi cabanga lo mqondo ijule ngokungaphezulu. Phela, ngezinye izikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi ukungena ngokuphelele uqale nebubi ibhekwe. Futhi lena indlela elungile ngaphezulu, okwembula uhlobo izinto eziyiqiniso.
ukucabanga ngezinto ezinhle
Ngizitshela ukuthi umuntu omuhle kangaka, naka futhi uthathe kufanele futhi izigaba ezifana ukucabanga ngezinto ezinhle. Kuyini lokhu? Ngakho, kuba nolimi kusukela nomqondo inqubo self-ngcono ngamunye. Cabanga kahle - Angiqondile ukuba nombono omuhle ngezinto abayizimpumputhe. Kusho ukukwazi nokuqinisa amandla ezikhathini ezinzima kunazo zonke ekuphileni ukuze ukwazi Tune kuya okuhle esimweni esinzima. Ukucabanga Positive - lena ucezu izwe akubheka lesifanele, okuyinto okwengeziwe ukwazi ukwenza sengqondo buthelela Manpower yangaphakathi nokusiza tune ku impumelelo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba singakhohlwa ukuthi ngaphezu isimo sengqondo okudingeka futhi sisebenze eziningi futhi kanzima. Kuphela ngale Ngohlelo ingafinyelela Imiphumela okusezingeni eliphezulu. Zona efanayo bebodwa ukucabanga ngezinto ezinhle kancane nomthelela ekuphileni.
Umthelela omuhle
Kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda ukuthi ithonya elihle ezinjalo. Akekho bangase baphikise neqiniso lokuthi wonke umuntu bachayeka emathonyeni okungamhloniphi nezingahlobene nendaba. Othile ngaphezulu, abanye kancane. Kuyinto kusukela leli thonya kuncike kakhulu ekuphileni. Ngakho, kubalulekile ukuba lowo muntu, okuyinto ebangela elilingana, kwadingeka ezinhle kakhulu ngezici zobuntu, wakhonza isibonelo esifanele. Lena ithonya elihle.
izinguquko Mayelana omuhle
Kulokhu, avame kuba umbuzo abantu okuthi ngasizathu noma omunye ayikwazi kubhekwe ezinhle. Noma banayo nemiphumela ethile engathandeki ezithile, okuyinto kufanele silwe. Ngaphawula ushintsho oluhle - lolu shintsho ezenzeka nomuntu kuphela nethonya elihle futhi ngeke nomthelela ekuphileni okuzayo.
Isithombe esihle
Futhi njengoba okukhipha amancane Ngifuna ukukutshela kabanzi mayelana nokuthi isithombe esihle. Lezi zonke izingxenye abantu abangabangcwele ezikhangayo. Lena isithombe ofuna ukuba. Lapha kuba lapha bese ufaka izigaba umsebenzi ezifana nomthelela omuhle futhi ushintsho omuhle. Eqinisweni, ngemva kokubeka imigomo Umuntu ocabangelayo uqala ukusebenza yedwa.
Uba kanjani umuntu omuhle
Eqaphela ukuthi ezinjalo "omuhle", futhi ukuqonda ukuthi ukuba sibe nombono oqondile kuphela - akwanele, udinga ukubhekana ukuthi, kanjani ukufeza uguquko omuhle. Yini odinga ukuyazi futhi uyenze?
- Kuzo zonke izimo, kudingeka ufune Okuhle. Ngisho nasezimweni ezikhululekile kungenzeka ezimbi kumele ubone okuthile okuhle, ekukhipheni inzuzo egcwele lokhu.
- Udinga ukuxhumana nabantu ezinhle. Uma umngane oseduze isethelwe ezingezinhle, ukuze bazivikele kuyoba kakhulu, kunzima kakhulu.
- Kumelwe ukuba sikwazi ukudumisa futhi pamper ngokwakho. Nokho, lokhu akufanele kube akanangqondo.
Futhi-ke, kufanele sikwazi smile ngobuqotho, ukuba banakekele impilo yabo futhi babe isimo esihle. Ukuba-ke bonke, abe umuntu ophumelelayo kuyoba lula kakhulu.
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