Psychology ingane

Teen ubudala, ukuthomba, ukuthomba - lokhu isimo unamagama amaningi, kodwa noma ngabe ukubiza ngokuthini, futhi uyeke ukuzama lokho yakhiwe ingane Psychology okungenanzuzo kule nkathi. Abazali abaningi ongaphika ukuthi ingane yabo eneminyaka engu eziyishumi ubudala kancane kuqala ukukhula futhi isidingo sakhe ukunakwa. Ngempela, isikhathi kwezimpawu zengqondo, kwengqondo futhi ngokobulili nangokomzimba kwenzeka ngokwesilinganiso njengoba eseneminyaka engu-10 futhi iyaqhubeka kuze kube engu-18, Nokho, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo namanje angeke eze ukuvumelana ukuthi mdala libizwa usakhula, nomunye umsolwa. Ngemva kulonyaka, ibambezelekile iminyaka eminingi, futhi, uhlukaniswa uba kukufake izigaba eziningana. Ikakhulukazi, esigabeni sokuqala, lapho ingane ayisekho azi- ingane, kanti owesibili, lapho othile osemusha iqala ukuba athi bona omdala, futhi ngenxa yalokho, umisa amazinga amasha zokuziphatha, okuyinto, ngokombono wakhe, zivumelana ukuziphatha omdala. Ngalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu abazali ukuba asuke ingane, kodwa kunalokho ngaphambili ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo ekubumbeni kwakhe umbono abanawo emhlabeni wonke kanye nesimo kwezenhlalo emphakathini. Kubalulekile ukuthatha isikhundla sakhe umuntu omdala, futhi ukuxhumana nabo ku-nokuwumisa alinganayo, hhayi ukuba abaphambe izithakazelo zakhe, bephawula iqiniso lokuthi ingane futhi akakwazi ukwenza izinqumo zabo siqu. Psychology ingane ukuthi ezakhiwe ukugcwaliseka "Mina" yakhe kanye nobungqabavu ukuthuthukisa ngekulandzelana sobusha ekubeni nekhono lokuhlaziya, kulokhu, kukhona okuthiwa ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlanekezelwe, lapho othile osemusha kukhona "iziphathimandla", ukuziphatha leyo ayibheka njengento isimiso sokuziphatha of omdala futhi Ifuna sokulingisa kuye. Kulokhu, ephelele nentuthuko yomuntu siqu kuyoba isiqondiso ingane endaweni efanele ukwakha ke kwezinkambiso ngokwanele efanele ukuziphatha.

Kukhona elithi ezifana "psychology ingane kunzima", abaningi bathi ngalesi yobudala izingane babe unmanageable esinobuthatha nabanolaka. Mina ngizivumele ukuba abavumelani nalo, noma kunalokho hhayi ngempela uyavuma. Lokhu ukuziphatha sibonisa ngokwayo ingane kuphela uma okungalungile indlela ngemfundo intsha emkhayeni, esikoleni kanye olungalungile yakhe komphakathi. Kule nkathi komphakathi - nokuqaphela ngokwabo njengabantu ngabanye ngezidingo zawo siqu zansuku nezici zobuntu, kubalulekile futhi libalulekile ingane. Uma abazali nabanye Asisekeli isifiso sokuthola inkululeko yokuzibusa nomfanyana bazenzele izinqumo, uvame ukuthatha ke nobunzima, futhi uqala ukubheka ukwesekwa kwenye indawo, futhi igcwele ukubukeka imigomo okungalungile, izisusa, futhi ngenxa yalokho kuholela ekwakhekeni Ukuziphatha ngendlela engafanelanga.

Psychology ingane igxile ukubonakala yabo uzibekela imigomo ekuphileni, bavame ukubeka imigomo yabo kanye nakanjani ukuze siyifinyelele, intsha ukuphikelela ezahlukene nolaka, okuyinto kunoma yiliphi icala ongacimeki, futhi kungaba kuphela ukugcina nokuthuthukisa lezi zimfanelo. Kodwa, ngeshwa, ezimweni eziningi, emikhayeni yethu, kusolakala njengoba umbhikisho, njengoba inselele ingane omdala futhi uqala ukucindezelwa esebenzayo abazali zonke ngokwengqondo ingane izimila.

Psychology ingane eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi edidayo, futhi ngamunye umuntu yena maqembu e ezahlukene izindlela, kanti isikhathi lesi sikhathi kuncike eziningi izici, kufaka phakathi umndeni, esikoleni, othisha, umphakathi, odokotela bengqondo, abezindaba nokuningi. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi badabula ngamunye kithi, futhi sonke ukukhumbula ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba uthole ukwesekwa kule nkathi kusukela abaseduze - umndeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke, izingane zenu, intsha futhi uwagcine.