Okudingayo isahlukaniso? Ubuchwepheshe kanye nezincomo

abathandi abaningi abacabangi kangako lokho kuyadingeka ukuze ashade. Impendulo yalo mbuzo ungayithola ukunikeza cishe wonke umuntu: kunconywa ukuxhumana iziphathimandla ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kodwa lapha, kukhona kangaka fast ungathola impendulo inkinga ukuthi kuyadingeka isahlukaniso?

Inqubo elula - zokuphatha, lapho enza umsebenzi emahhovisi lokubhalisa. Lokhu kungenzeka kuyoba kulabo abaganene abanale ngokuhlanganyela izingane (izingane), kanye sinemvume zabo bobabili. Okokuqala, udinga ukufaka isicelo. Kukhona okukhethwa kukho ezimbili kungenzeka yilezi:

• Lokhu kunxusa okuthinta ngokuhlanganyela;
• omunye wabhala isitatimende kanye nezinye esayiniwe kwasayinwa isignesha.

Okudingayo isahlukaniso okwamanje? Kumele kuqoqwe madokumende alandelayo:

1. Irisidi eqinisekisa ukuthi lunikeza zempahla sesikhokhelwe.
2. Imibhalo, okuyinto uqinisekise ubunikazi izakhamuzi kokuhlukanisa (ipasipoti).
3. isitifiketi somshado Original.

Kusukela ngosuku kulethwa isicelo ngizodabula ngenyanga. Ngokulandelayo, lo mbhangqwana saya ehhovisi lokubhalisa, futhi, eqinisekisa nesifiso salo ukudivosa, uthole nencwadi engokomthetho - isitifiketi usuhlakazekile umshado futhi isitembu in passport - "Umshado yachitha ...". Le nqubo silula.

Kodwa udinga ukuba ahlukanise umshado uma umbhangqwana uhlela ukuba "ukuhlukanisa" impahla ngokuhlanganyela nezingane? Isisombululo kule nkinga - kubalulekile ukuya enkantolo. Inqubo efanayo Kunconywa uma kwenzeka ukuthi omunye abashadayo enqaba noma evades yesahlukaniso. Bhuka, ukuthi lolu hlobo ezehlukaniso ziyinkimbinkimbi futhi babe inombolo enkulu umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama.

Okokuqala, inkantolo ngeke wenze isinqumo ku isehlukaniso, uma ingane engaphansi konyaka, futhi umama ngokumelene naye.

Okwesibili, uma ukungavumelani noma ukugwema somuntu abashadayo, kanye nabanye ababengewona ama-khona yayo enkantolo, emhlanganweni wesithathu owenza isinqumo sokugcina ngesehlukaniso.

Okwesithathu, kudingeka ngokushesha ukuxazulula izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi nokuba akuhlele isimangalo eziphathelene isiphetho izingane namafa ngokuhlanganyela.

Ngakho-ke, ngaphezu bendabuko kanye izibambiso oshiwo ngenhla, kudingeka alungiselele okulandelayo imibhalo esiyisisekelo sesehlukaniso enkantolo:

• abathi ngoba ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla;
• ozibiza ngomuntu isiphetho izingane nezimfuneko ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso.

Ngemuva kokufaka isicelo iqoqo imibhalo, ngokuvumelana nomthetho kuzothatha inyanga, phakathi kwesikhathi lapho kufanele lifike ku-imeyili ajenda kosuku nesikhathi sokulalelwa.

Yini edingekayo ukuze isehlukaniso ngokushesha manje? Kuphela ukubekezela, ngoba abashadayo uzobe imibuzo mayelana nezizathu wokugoqa womshado, khona izindlela wekubuyisana nokunye ebuzwa. Njengomthetho, inkantolo akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi sithathe isinqumo ahlukanise ngokushesha, okwamnika isikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho okufundayo. Ngakho-ke, uma kukhona isinqumo sokugcina ukuba afuna isehlukaniso, qiniseka ukuba bagcizelele kuso. Kulokhu, kufanele abayinakanga isinqumo izimangalo nezibopho ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso.

Kodwa njengoba umthetho, izinqubo okunjalo isici hola. Njengoba inkantolo:

• angahlangabezani okushiwo omunye abashadayo, onikeza kuye kwesokudla ukuqala ekuqhutshweni futhi;
• ukuhlehlisa isinqumo secala ngu ukwabela lezi zithandani isikhathi ngabo bakwemukele, nokunye.

Kunoma ikuphi, isehlukaniso umbango Ungahudula ikhona iminyaka eminengi, ngiyajabula izinzwa "zangaphambili" breaking psyche abantwana, ngokuvamile uqala "share", abazali "umusa".

Ngakho, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ecabanga okudingayo isahlukaniso, kutuswa umbhangqwana uzame ukulalela nomunye, nokwakha ubudlelwano walithanda owayeke waba yindoda sakho futhi igweme inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi futhi singathandeki njengoba uphelela enkantolo. Kunconywa ukuba umane aphikisana wodwa.