Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Nokucasula - Iyini?
Nokucasula - isimo ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ubeka umuntu esimweni esibucayi. Ungase ube nomuzwa ezintekenteke, ngoba awukwazi ulethe ngokwami ukudla kwenye indawo ngaphandle ekhaya noma ichithekile, ngoba uhlobo izinwele elisemcengezini echibini kukwenza nokucasula ezinzima. Futhi abangane ungakwazi ngisho wacasula sina ngenxa yokuthi ungayeki kokulunywa aphume apula akhe noma ice cream. Kodwa bewazi yini ngempela yasisiza imikhuba enjalo. Mayelana kwalokho, lokho yasisiza nomqondo unengekile, sizobe ukukhuluma kamuva kulesi sihloko.
Inkinga ikuphi-ingabe squeamishness
Nokucasula - lo muzwa, ngenhlanhla, has kuphela indoda. Kule singaphetha ngokuthi ke kuphakama kuphela esenziwa wonke amandla ethu okucabanga.
Ngokuqinisekile musa nje ngimbone njengoba ingane encane, kukhasa emhlabeni efulethini, ukuzama ukuzama ngekhanda konke uthola ensimini yakhe futhi sizibona ngokucacile. Imvuthu kungukuthi wabeka Slippers lokulala likababa, noma ibhola, edlala inja ithanga. zikhula kuphela futhi unqobe engu engu-5 ubudala, yahlatshwa iqala ukubonisa ukuthi umuzwa ofanayo, yaphetha yokwenqaba baphuze ubisi amagwebu noma ogodweni futhi wincing ngalokho ayekubona, sorry, ikati indle ngendlela ugqoko plastic.
Kwenzekeni? Odokotela bengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi esikhathini likhula futhi, ngakho-ke, ngezinga elithile, kuye kwaphoqelela ngokwakho "ukusinda" umzimba evuka "inkumbulo", noma kunalokho, reflex zokuzivikela, okuyinto beza kithi gogo okude (Nokho, yebo, ukwenqaba izinto ezithile ukusiza futhi incazelo amadala).
Sonke kusukela Stone Age
Nokucasula futhi ukuya Inobulongwe wonke udoti okubangelwa empilweni, ame kuzo. Thina unganakile wokuthi iyingozi - futhi kuyiqiniso, ngoba ziba clostridia, okungase kubangele igesi esibhibhayo, ikholera, uhudo kwesibindi. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, lo enyanya anda sizalwa nawo bona kanye laba bantu uhlelo kabani mzimba zibe buthaka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, okuhlangenwe nakho eminyaka ubudala usimema ukuba baqaphe mayelana konke ukhuluma ngokufa. Nguye kusenza wince at the emehlweni uboya echibini noma Imi izipikili. Nabo futhi, abahlangene okuthile owawusufile, basishulwe. Ptomaine ngoba abantu obulalayo, ehlala ohlelweni lwethu, hhayi enikeza senzakalo nabo eduze.
Fastidiousness usizo isikhala Vikela
Imizwa engakhi - nokucasula - liphinde indlela ukuvikela yakho isikhala yangasese. It kuvela ukuthi kungenzeka lobufanako ukudla ukudla akuvumelekile kuwo wonke umuntu.
Abaningi ngokulambisa ukubekezelela umkhuba zabangani noma abathandekayo ukunambitha isidlo emapuletini abo. Futhi kaningi ngaphezu ngemuva akuyona ngokuqapha kangaka ngaphambi abalala ngakho yebhaktheriya ukudla, kodvwa uphindze abe nesifiso ukuze delineate emngceleni, abe eyimfihlo isikhala, ebiyelwe nge ayehlasela omunye.
Ngazo zonke izikhathi, ukudla ayebhekwa umthombo wokuphila, futhi ukudla ndawonye waba umlingisi engcwele, lisho ubunye obungokomoya. Futhi zokungazimiseli othile kusuka indishi - it is a umzamo enganakile ukugcina isikhala siqu, hamba ibanga.
Kungani kufanele amahloni squeamish Manje
NgeNkathi Ephakathi kwakungekho inkinga wokunengwa, njengoba show kwaba ngisho imfashini. Izicukuthwane bese wabonisa fineness yayo okuqonda, ukuba nemibimbi amakhala abo noma bazilethele amaduku anamakha. Ukuze lady hypersensitive kwakungaphambukisa ngezinyawo endleleni, umnumzana waphonsa ngasezinyaweni zakhe wengubo yakhe. Yilokho affectation! Kodwa-ke kuvela khona - nje umqondo kwenhlanzeko ngalezo zinsuku laliyisidala ngakho, futhi ukuqonda izingozi zempilo, taivsheysya e izinto noma imikhiqizo ongaphakeme ukuze abantu ngale ndlela nje uzama ukusindisa ukuphila kwabo.
Futhi esikhathini sethu, ukunakekelwa kanye fastidiousness - ukungathembani omqondofana ka ekuhlanzekeni umlingani wakho ukuthi uzovuma kungakuzwisa ubuhlungu noma ulimele kakhulu. Thina ngeke adalule obala umuntu stinks ngakho, noma bembuza senqabe ngasetafuleni yomunye. Cishe, sizozama ngandlela-thile ukuhambahamba ngale ndaba olubucayi. Kungani? Mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi indoda yesimanje uyakwazi ukuqonda ingozi yangempela abanye imihlola, futhi kungakho inkulumo wokunengwa akuseyona isidingo.
Kubukeka sengathi unengekile, uma kuba ngokweqile
Qedela yokuntuleka squeamishness, kanye ukubonakaliswa yayo extreme - kuyinto kakhulu, esondela zokugula futhi kakhulu nzima ukuphila umuntu.
Ngo wezifo zengqondo, kukhona umqondo lingagcwali-ingebhe - isimo nokucasula ngokweqile, noma kunalokho, nize ngisho Ingebhe udoti. Umuntu ohlushwa lesi sifo, njalo izandla, iyakunqanda indlu yakhe ibe oyinyumba ingcindezi chamber kanye neze ushukumisela ukuhlala emgwaqweni noma ezindaweni zomphakathi, nandaba uthinte noma yini. Noma ikuphi ukungcola kungabangela isidumo nesineke ezinjalo.
Kodwa ngokulinganayo, uma kungekhona ukuthi ungaba yingozi enkulu, futhi ukungabakhathaleli nhlobo nokucasula - ke uthole ukutheleleka noma okunoshevu uma kungenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Njengoba ubona, nokucasula - ngokuyinhloko ibonakalisa isazela self-ukulondolozwa, futhi ikuphi ukweqisa e ukubonakaliswa yayo - kungcono egunjini lokuhlolwa kwezifo.
Uyini enyanya nomphakathi
Fastidiousness has isici nomphakathi. Ukuze lokhu kungenziwa intelligibility futhi fastidiousness kubangelwa ukuxhumana ezizungezile. Ngaphandle, kubonakala, ngokuvamile ngesimo ukuthi akathandi ukuxhumana nomuntu ibonwa njengoba bengafaneleki.
Inkinga wokunengwa phambi odakeni yangempela futhi izingozi ezibangelwa ke, kulesi simo esikhundleni umqondo ukungcola ngokokuziphatha futhi ukusabela kuyafana - ukwenqatshwa. Asazi ngamabomu uthi: "Izandla kufayela wakhe ngokuthi ', ngaleyo ndlela bephika contact komzimba nomuntu nokucasula zokuziphatha.
Osekunesikhathi iqembu labantu, futhi bengafaneleki leseceleni umuntu "evamile": abanochoko, exoshiwe ebandleni, untouchable. Ngu abaxoshiweyo ofanayo zibalwa kanye nabamele amanye abathengisa - abasebenza ngenyama, izifebe, scavengers. Xhumana kubo owayebonakala eziyingozi, akunakwenzeka, kodwa ngalesi sikhathi kwakungeyona ekwesabeni yokubamba ukutheleleka, nokwesaba "elinegciwane" yokuntuleka impumelelo nobumpofu. Okungukuthi, nokucasula nomphakathi - isivikelo okuba okufanayo njengoba kunguye kangifanele emphakathini wethu.
Fastidiousness ngokubikezela izinto ezididayo nezingathembekile ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuchaza.
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