NgeSonto uPapa

Isehlukaniso - novivinyo hhayi kuphela abantu abadala kodwa futhi izingane zabo ngubani beswela omunye abazali, ngaphezu kwakho konke - uyise. Survive ingane enjalo akulula: kwakukhona umndeni, baba nawe mama, abamthandayo, ngokungazelelwe umhlaba wonke ehlala ... Ubaba ushabalala ukuphila kwakhe. Isikhathi esining impela - kuze kube phakade. Futhi indoda encane kunzima kakhulu ukuba aqaphele ukuthi kwaba ukhohliwe, abalahliwe, bawa ngoba bemthanda. Lokhu kudala esikhathini ingane nomuzwa wecala: uma kungekho uthando eside, wayesebanga ungaphakathi okuthile Naughty phambi kukayise. Kodwa lena inkinga eyodwa kuphela okubangelwa ukulahlekelwa uyise. Umkhaya zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi uma ubaba, umfana engenami ikhula, ubizwa ophucwa ejwayelekile yokuziphatha besilisa ifunda uhlobo lensikazi ephendula ehlukahlukene yokuphila nezimo. Uma kukhona intombazane, wayeselahlekelwe umnakekeli ithuba ukuqonda Psychology besilisa futhi bangase bathole ukwesaba amadoda esikhathini esizayo ezingenaye ubaba. Ngakho-ke, uma ngemva kwesehlukaniso, ubaba ukunilalela ingane yakho (njengoba nje "ngeSonto ubaba"), owesifazane akufanele baphikisane. Kungakhathaliseki otnrsheniya phakathi abashadayo wangaphambili, "ngeSonto ubaba" noma kunjalo kungcono ukusebenza kunokungasebenzi nhlobo noyise.

Wokuhlukaniswa imisebenzi

Uma kungekho sivumelwano kufinyelelwe, futhi "ngeSonto ubaba" athinte ingane yakho, kubalulekile ukusabalalisa kuhle iimbopho phakathi abashadayo wangaphambili. Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka enye inkinga: unesikhwele ingxenye unina. Phela, "ngeSonto ubaba" iza ngezimpelasonto, ngokuletha izipho nekujabulisa ingane yakho, uyokhathazeka ngokungabi injabulo, lahlotshaniswa nokuba ukugubha, ngenkathi, njengoba unina wengane lihlotshaniswa ukuphila grey kwansuku, imisebenzi, ngisho nesijeziso. Kuyinto share kamama iwe zonke eziyisisekelo yemfanelo yokukhulisa izingane, kuhlanganise nakuba ubaba usixoxela ingane yakho kuphela. Uma umuntu uzizwa enecala phambi eseyingane ikakhulukazi uzama ukubuyisana wakhe ukuhlangana zonke kwaneliswa nezifiso kanye nezifiso umntanakho: amathoyizi, amaswidi, ukuzijabulisa - konke siyahamba. Kuyacaca ukuthi ingane ikakhulukazi elinde ukuvakashelwa uyise, ujabula ngesikhathi esifanayo, umama ohlale nengane, imizwelo enamandla efana kubangela. Ukuze ugweme izimo ezinjalo, lapho "ngeSonto ubaba" udlala indima umlumbi, nonina - sabaqalayo uthisha esiqinile, kubalulekile ukusabalalisa ukubalekela imithwalo yemfanelo yokuba izingane. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi uyise ukuba angagcini ukuthi kuwumthombo wenjabulo engakanani, kodwa futhi ukuze uthole ukuthembeka nengane yakho. Ngokwesibonelo, umama angase ukubophezeleka zokudla, ezempilo kanye izingubo wengane, futhi uyise - hlola idayari kanye wesikole, thola abafundisi kanye umkhondo emibuthanweni futhi sportinvye sigaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubaba ukuxhumana ingane, hhayi kuphela ngezimpelasonto: ocingweni, ungakwazi ufake ingane yakho ukubaleka, ukuba amduduze, ukutshela izindaba, ukuba abe nesithakazelo izindaba zakhe bese impumelelo. Nge ukwahlukana ezinjalo yemfanelo "ngeSonto ubaba" ekwandiseni amandla ayo, is ziyasondela enganeni yakho futhi ukunika unina ithuba unake hhayi kuphela izinyane lembuzi, kodwa ngokwabo.