Ngazi kanjani: ukubhuqa - Iyini?

Uma ngisebenzisa igama elithi "inaliti '? Lokhu ngokuvamile kusho sengqondo esibi interlocutor. Kumiswa It is kusukela "isilonda" onomzali kunezimpande. Okungukuthi, mayelana isikhulumi ongakuqonda lokhu nkulumo ngokuthi "sizibonise buhlungu futhi caustic ukumamatheka interlocutor ikheli."

I olwamukelwa kwencazelo

Ake sihlole ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi kusho ukuthini "inkulumo". Leli gama livame ukusetshenziswa, lapho befuna ukukhombisa ukuthi umuntu isethwe abanamusa kakhulu. Phela, "isilonda", kwakhiwa kusuka okuyinto ngumuntu isenzo, kusho iqhubeka obuhlungu, isilonda evulekile ezijulile esikhumbeni. Ngokuphathelene okushiwo ingxoxo ishunyekwa efanayo.

At inhliziyo nomqondo okusekelwe ngezizathu ezilandelayo. "Inkulumo" - lokhu kusho ukuthi:

• Khuluma imishwana obhuqayo ukuthi ukufuna ukulimaza engumngane abahlala okwamanje ezibucayi kakhulu engxoxweni.
• ngezinye izikhathi ngempumelelo izwi efakiwe kubangela eziningi imizwelo engakhi kusukela izilaleli. Uma umuntu yenhlwathi, it is esizicabangelayo njengezaba ayinto engaqondakali.
• In amazwi anencazelo, ubuhlungu, ukungaphatheki kahle. Ngemva imishwana enjengethi ngokoqobo ngishaqekile abaphikisi uya ukukhala ngenxa isipiliyoni.

imidondoshiya eziningi izincwadi Russian wasebenzisa igama elithi "inkulumo" emibhalweni yakhe. Lokhu kusiza ukunikeza umbhalo, indaba, ikondlo bazwakale ukubukeka. Pushkin, Lermontov awusebenzisa isisho ekhombisa "imijovo" zenhliziyo. Unembeza kungaba umphefumulo ukubhuqa.

Njengoba kuboniswe izichazamazwi

Zonke izichazamazwi ahumushe cishe okufanayo, okusho "inaliti":

• ukubonakaliswa Aggressive kulenkhulumo ethule ziwubala.
• Ukusho ayebatshele zona caustic.
• Yazvlenie kungahle kubangelwe lezi zinto ezilandelayo: izindlela ezahlukene abangane ukuphila, isikhundla zezikhulu emphakathini.
• ukuntula Inner kubangela umuntu besho engathandeki.
• Abantu bangakuthola abe obhuqayo ngenxa amahlaya ethize, kepha abanye bayibheka njengelungelo yinhlekisa ke.

Ngo izichazamazwi Setha incazelo evamile igama elithi "inkulumo": imbangela enkingeni, ukuze canula, ukuveza nokwedelela enye inhlangano.

ukusetshenziswa eliyimfihlo izwi

ithokheni kubhekwe ungayithola enye by omqondofana: lokuthuka, wamthethisa, ukumangalela umuntu express evutha ekuphenduleni ingxoxo evamile. Isizathu salokhu ukuziphatha itholakala amaphutha ngaphambili olwehlela Umphikisi. Ngokuvamile abantu benze izinto ezimbi ngaphandle noma iyiphi injongo, nje ngenxa yobuntu bakhe isilwi, zama ukuvimba ukukhanya kungangeni njengoba kabuhlungu ngangokunokwenzeka interlocutor.

Zonke tichasiso ukusebenzisa inkulumo ethi kwadingeka ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso. ikani bhuqayo futhi umphefumulo, leli nxeba, lona wamuva libhekisela isimo somzimba. Indlela obukhulu is ukopha futhi umuntu ubona nge kwangaphakathi ubuhlungu kobukhulu interlocutor.