Misalliance - Iyini?

okubi, uthando, ukuthandana nomunye umuntu! Lokhu uthi konke isisho esaziwayo. Kaningi kuyenzeka ukuthi abantu abashada unganakile abanalutho abajwayelene ngakho, convergent ngisho ukushada. Yini esiyitholayo lokhu?

Umqondo

Mhlawumbe bonke abantu bezwa into efana "misalliance". Lena ithemu okubhekisele umane ukungalingani umshado. Ngaphambili, babiza imishado luyingxenye emphakathini engalingani, kodwa namuhla leligama kancane aguqulwe futhi lanwetshwa imingcele yayo.

mesalliance nomphakathi

Uhlobo ezivamile futhi lasendulo ngomshado ukungalingani kubhekwa ukuba misalliance nomphakathi. Kuyinto inyunyana abantu babevela ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, kusukela amakilasi nomphakathi. Isibonelo kungaba pair ehlanganisa ukwakhiwa isisebenzi elula indodakazi yendodana zamanxusa nendodakazi milkers yasemakhaya ezivamile uprofesa sika. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubuhlobo ezinjalo azivamile ukuya phesheya ezithanda abazali bazo ziyabalalela, ngoba ngokuvamile izihlobo uhlangothi "namandla" ka wonke amabutho ezama ukuqeda le okungalungile akhethiwe neengcezu wengane yakhe.

mesalliance ezihlakaniphile

misalliance Lokumangalisa bokusungula - union sabantu abanemfundo yamazinga ahlukene ekukhuleni. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi lapho abhanqiwe nowesifazane oyisiwula umuntu ohlakaniphile - lokhu kungokwemvelo. A kumele sifane nalendoda ngokumelene isizinda umkakhe, futhi lokhu kubhekwa evamile. Nokho, uma owesifazane nohlakaniphe ukudlula umyeni wakhe, le ntokazi ngokuvamile uzisole, ngoba kule yesimanje (okwamanje namanje wezinzalamizi) umphakathi kunenkolelo yokuthi umndeni uyindoda. Futhi 'ungahlala kanjani ukuthi abe inhloko yomkhaya, uma ingqondo okuncane?

mesalliance kaZwelonke

zenyathi Landelayo ubudlelwane ukungalingani - misalliance kazwelonke. Kuyinto umshado wabantu bezizwe ezihlukahlukene. Manje imishado interethnic ayimisha, kodwa esikhathini esidlule lokhu buhlobo kwakuwukuba siyindlala: bambalwa kakhulu abantu abafuna "uhlanganise" igazi labo. Izinkinga kulezi imishado mikhulu, bese ngokuvamile kuba nzima kakhulu ukuhlanganisa amasiko nemikhuba yezizwe ezihlukahlukene, futhi kuphakama izingxabano kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu zenkolo.

misalliance zezombusazwe

A uhlobo kuqhathaniswa entsha - misalliance zezombusazwe washada. Wabonakala insimu yethu ukuphuma ngaphansi kweSoviet Union, lapho kwakukhona iqembu elilodwa. Namuhla, abaningi babo, kanye ukubukwa zezombusazwe futhi uhlale. Union zabantu nge ukubukwa ezombusazwe ahlukene futhi ngokuthi misalliance zezombusazwe.

mesalliance yasendlini

Kukhona misalliance yasendlini. Ukuze lolu hlobo ubuhlobo akunakubangelwa cishe kunoma iyiphi pair. Besimame besilisa chistyulya rasteryaha ukuthi buyaphikiswa endaweni zonke Ufaka kwamasokisi; iPacific besifazane futhi indoda wezempi nokunye. Ukwehluka kwi-yasendlini misalliance isethi.

Okuhle

Kunoma isiphi isimo kungatholakala njengoba yokuntula zayo kanye nezinzuzo. Uma ukungalingani kuye ngetimphawu letitsite ambalwa ufuna ukuba ndawonye (ukuthi yenzeni, lawa imidlalo ukudalelwa), misalliance - hhayi ukuze scary. Inzuzo enkulu kungenzeka yokuthi omunye abalingani, edlala ngokusobala ku isizinda nezinye, qala bona balwele amazinga aphakeme. Kuyinto isiyalo omkhulu futhi kubangela umuntu ukuthuthukisa self-ngcono okwamanje akukho efanele ibe kuhlu lokuhlukumezeka.