Lokho impendulo yombuzo 'kanjani wena?'. ABC yokuziphatha

etiquette Modern intsha kubonakala uhlobo rulebook ubudala, okwenza kube nzima ukukhulumisana. Nokho, ngingathanda ukusho amazwi ambalwa bamvikele. Ngokuvamile kuba ulwazi kulezi zimiso ukugwema ukuphoxeka engxoxweni.

Ngokwesibonelo, bewazi yini ukuthi impendulo yombuzo othi "Uzizwa unjani?"? Uma sishiya eceleni hackneyed hamovatye frazochki like "hhayi ukuzalwa ubusengakehliswa," nokunye okunjalo, lutho ezihlakaniphile futhi akezi engqondweni. Kodwa etiquette ka isimo ezibekwe ngokucacile futhi ecacile. Kuyadingeka ukubonga umuntu, ngoba iye yabonisa isithakazelo kuwe, futhi ukuthi ubeke umkhawulo imishwana jikelele: ". Emangalisayo" "Kuhle kakhulu impela", "enhle", Kulokhu, ayamukelekanga ukunikeza izimpendulo kungahunyushwa omubi. Ngakho wena ezidonsela ukunakekela izinkinga zabo. Ukuzwa ukuthi uma kwenzeka "ngakho-ke" ukuze umuntu ofundile kwakuyodingeka ukubuza ukuthi yini engalungile nokuthi kungasiza. Wayesebuza aphume inhlonipho, futhi ukulalela indaba eside mayelana ukuphila kwakho kube nzima e amacebo akhe ezingafakwanga lapha. Ngakho-ke, uma ungazi impendulo yombuzo "Uzizwa unjani?", Thatha isibonelo amaMelika bese uthi, "Konke kuhamba kahle."

Yiqiniso, ukuze uthole amazwana balahle kusukela abangane abaseduze noma abazali akudingekile. Oh, ngokuqinisekile akazange acele ngenxa yelukuluku lutho. Kodwa ngisho kuleli cala asikho isidingo ukuya imininingwane. Uma omunye isihloko ingxoxo party Kuyathakazelisa futhi, uzobona ukubuza hlandla imibuzo.

Namuhla, abantu abaningi bakhetha sokumazi ngokusebenzisa umyalezo Inthanethi. Ngokuvamile, iyehluleka imizamo enjalo ukuxhumana ziqala ngamazwi athi: "Sawubona unjani.?". Ezimweni eziningi, umbuzo uyasala eminingi engaphenduleki ingxoxo ayikwazi tie. Okuthile ukufihla, amantombazane amaningi afana "verbosity" bobulili namandla ecasulayo, futhi bakhetha nje leyo milayezo. Nokho, ngokuvamile i-intokazi Akazi nakwazi ukuthi indlela ukuphendula umbuzo "Uzizwa unjani?" ongamazi.

Imithetho yokuziphatha futhi zihlanganisa Ezimweni ezinjalo. Ngemva amagama "Sawubona, siyabonga, Ngiyaphila," interlocutor abaningi bazibuza umbuzo ofanayo. Ukuze uqale ingxoxo ukuthi kwanele.

Sekuyisikhathi eside abantu Ehlakaniphile Russian beveza impendulo yombuzo "Uzizwa unjani?". Khumbula sacramental "... ehhovisi wabhala," "Akukho nokukodwa okwakuyiphutha lami kangcono."
Abaningi bethu bayawazi la imishwana, ngisho Ubonakala eyamukelekayo ngempela. Yiqiniso, akukho lutho olungalungile eqinisweni lokuthi nabangani bakho ngeke ukuxhumana ngaleyo ndlela. Uma unquma benza amahlaya futhi akukho, iya inkampani yakho. Nokho, qaphela usebenzisa eyodwa futhi impendulo efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Okuhle kakhulu, uyobe uthole indoda ngomuzwa ezimbi isimo sokwenama.

Ngokungangabazeki, imishwana enjengethi ayamukeleki kungxoxo nabantu abadala noma okungajwayelekile, ke kungase kubhekwe njengokwelapha luhlaza. Kulokhu, impendulo imibuzo kufanele izibambe futhi benomusa. Zama ukubheka ubuso bomuntu. Smile ukukhombisa abathakazelelwayo yakho nendawo.

Ephendula umbuzo othi "Uzizwa unjani?" izimpendulo zingase zishintshe kakhulu. Kodwa uma dream of azithele ngabandayo umngane omuhle, funda ukukhuluma kancane bese ulalela ngokwengeziwe. Lena wenhlanganyelo kuyiqiniso ikakhulu nabobulili obuhlukile. Ngisho nesiqalo ezinjalo azisho lutho kwengxoxo bangaba Umfutho ingxoxo ejulile, futhi ukusuka lapho kuze kube ukuthandana ususondele. Ngakho-ke, uma usuku lokuqala luqala ngenkulumo ethi "Sawubona, unjani, belunjani usuku lwakho?", Phendula ngamagama ambalwa, futhi uqhubeke athuthukise isihloko maqondana interlocutor. Ngazo zonke izindlela ongazicabanga ongabonisa ngazo isithakazelo indaba yakhe, bakhuthazeka futhi ngezinye izikhathi ufake utibone zokuvuma noma imisho lemifisha. Lokhu ukuziphatha ngeke uzakwabo sikholelwe ukuthi ukhona umuntu nje abafundile, kodwa futhi ngempela smart. Qaphela ukuthi yonke lokhu kuzokwenzeka ngokuphelele ngaphandle umzamo bokusungula kungxenye yakho.