"Ngiyayizonda abantu!" Pose noma psychopathology?

Sikhathele, uyacasuka, waphatha kabi othile noma ikusasa, futhi manje wayichoboza ibhasi kulayini esitolo, boss wanika isikhathi esengeziwe. Kukangaki, esikhathini esasibucayi ezinjalo sacramental "Ngiyayizonda abantu" livela kwekhanda lethu? Yiqiniso, lena imizwelo edlulayo. Njengoba ojwayelekile, emi ngezinyawo okungalungile, singazenza athukuthela ngaso umhlaba wonke. Kodwa ingabe ikhona yini imivuzo ukulahlekelwa streak noma amaqhinga encane ezingcolile zicaca, futhi sakha nabanomusa kakhulu. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima. Kuyinto akukho ngozi ngenxa yabaningi isitatimende "Ngiyayizonda abantu, kodwa izilwane uthando" iba yokuphila. Yini ebangela misanthropy enjalo? Ingabe izinkolelo noma nakho kuphela? Ngenjongo yokuthi, njengoba bamemeze abantu azonda abantu, nje elihunyushwa ngokuthi "misanthropes". Misanthropy. Kodwa lokho empeleni lokhu kusho ukuthini? Ifomu okwedlulele psychopathy ezizama ukucekela phansi zonke izinto eziphilayo? Noma yithemba nokungabi nathemba befuna ukuba nolimi olulodwa olwaziwayo nabanye?

Zonke kuncike isimo senhlalo yomuntu, kusukela ezizathwini kokuqala. Uma isizathu esiyinhloko ukulahlwa umphakathi uhlobo yabo kwaba ngokwedelela, ukuklolodelwa, ukululazeka, kuthathwa ngokuthi indoda igama elithi "inzondo kubantu" kukhona ngeziphambeko sina. Hhayi lutho ngenxa Victimology futhi profilers, noma ongoti psychopathology, bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto isisulu udlame kanye nokwenqatshwa baba yizigebengu esizayo futhi izigangi. Basuke ukuthatha revenge on sonke isintu, kanye nabantu abathile ukuze ubuhlungu wazibonela ebuntwaneni noma usakhula. Yiqiniso, ukuze kwezimo ezimbi ezifana musa njalo ukufinyelela. Ngokuvamile amagama "Ngiyayizonda abantu" - kungcono nje ukumisa, isifiso ukuheha ukunakwa. Noma amazwi ukukhathala okwedlulele.

Sonke kufanele amazinga ehlukene lithathelwe kwezenhlalo, izidingo zokuxhumana ezahlukene kanye namathuba. Noma ubani umuzwa best kude, emsebenzini yokudala, akusho ukuthi amazwi athi "Ngiyayizonda abantu" kusho ukuzinikela kwangempela ukulimaza noma ukubhubhisa zazo siqu. Okuningi kaningi kumane kuyihaba, Nokho, okuyinto, libonisa ngezici zobuntu yomuntu. Uma omunye ukuphila engekho kuphela, omunye kunzima ukungena ngaphandle igama owengeziwe. Futhi akusiyo ngoba benamahloni - bamane awuboni isidingo ezingadingekile ezingenanjongo kanye exchange nakho. Kuthiwani uma umuntu kuyinto umuntu onamahloni (uzicabangela) noma extrovert (zibheke ezinye), kuncike kakhulu hhayi kuphela imfundo. Okokuqala, lezi zici ngenxa ngabanye uhlobo isimiso sezinzwa, izici excitation futhi okusithiyayo izinqubo, isivinini kanye ukushuba ukusabela ngokomzwelo. Futhi nje yokwahluka ka kuyinsakavukela.

Kodwa umuntu ozonda abanye abantu kangangokuba kwenza kube ukuphila kube nzima udinga usizo. Kungenye into - nje ukugwema ukuxhumana okungadingekile, kanye nezinye - bahlala ukungezwani njalo njalo lilwisane yena nabanye. Umuntu onjalo uzokwazi ukusiza bengqondo nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo. Umbhali wayevame ukunezela lokhu amazwi "Ngiyayizonda abantu" efihla anencazelo ejulile: "Abantu abangiqondi, ungathathi, asilahle."

Ngamunye wethu ingaphansi ithonya labanye, bathukuthele kakhulu noma ngaphansi kuyo impendulo. Futhi kuphela sina izinkinga ezingokwengqondo kungase babhebhethekisa ubutha ngayo abanye ukuze lube yingozi kumuntu noma izihlobo zakhe. Kunoma yikuphi, lapho bebona izimpawu eziyisixwayiso - isifiso sokuba Nqamula ngokwayo, umhlalaphansi, ukugwema zonke izinhlobo zokuxhumana - okufanele siqashelwe. Ngokuvamile, lezi izimpawu zokuqala ukucindezeleka, kungaba lapho wakwazi ukubhekana kangcono nale ukusekelwa umuntu omthandayo futhi uma ufuna umuntu.