Kufanele yini ngiye ibutho

Kufanele yini ngiye empini? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ungayithola ngokuphepha anikezwe eyodwa kuphela e "isikhumba" yakhe wazizwa yonke imininingwane inkonzo enjalo futhi uyazazi iziqondiso yangaphakathi kwenhlangano. Ngeshwa, yonke imibono ukuthi sithola yibutho abezindaba noma nesithakazelo amaqembu izindaba, ezifaka hlangana ukuhlahluba amagagasi endabeni lezi guys ungayeki isithombe olunembile, siqonda ukuthi kwenzekani ngemva kwezindonga isikhungo.

Ubani ongathi ngokuqiniseka yini noma cha ukuya empini? Manje, kuze kufike Ngiyazi, isevisi ihlukile kakhulu ngezindlela eziningi kulowo guys yethu yaba yiminyaka 10 edlule. Abahlukahlukene izinhlangano ezilwela amalungelo esintu ungakakwenzi ingcindezi ababuthakathaka, futhi kungase kuqashelwe ngokuzethemba ukuthi leli sosha akusho amalungelo. Umama isosha ungabona izingane zabo, beza provedyvat mahhala futhi nesithakazelo konke lokho kwenzeka ukuba izingane zabo.

Ngokuvamile amayunithi lempi kukhona amalungu abezindaba. Bayakuthanda ihaba futhi uchaze ngokuningiliziwe iyiphi esenzeka ngaphandle kwezindonga kulesi sikhungo. Jabulela yonke imininingwane futhi ne idrama yabo evamile egqamile kakhulu ukuchaza yonke imininingwane ekhona futhi okungezona ezikhona, uletha kithi ngokuqondile kusukela tin ngesimo journalism okuphenya.

Kungani aye empini? Ake sibheke-ke enye indlela, ukuthi yini izinsizwa zempi. Okokuqala, zikhula lapha futhi babe engqondweni ezahlukene. Abanakekeli kukhona abanye - ekuphileni. Hhayi labo obabekazi omdala nomalume owafundisa ngesikhathi abafundi basesikoleni ubudala inyuvesi bukhoma noma kangcono ngisho, ngo bomshado dorm. Lapha, le nsizwa ifunda ukuba bazibuse, futhi asibona mayelana nekhono wonge imali noma ukuthola imisebenzi yesibili, futhi mayelana nekhono azihlele, ukuthuthukisa imithetho eyisisekelo kwesiyalo futhi umthwalo wemfanelo.

Lungiselela ukudla? Ungalindeli ukuthi isobho amaqanda ethosiwe eliphekwe ehostela - lona ngumkhawulo, okuyinto uyakwazi umfana abasha. Ucabanga ukuhlanza amabhakede ambalwa amazambane - kungcono nje isijeziso alifundisi nesosha? Lutho neze.

Ngemva kokukhonza amasosha ngokuphelele kuqeda categorical bobusha bakhe, ifunda ukuyohlola soberly walinganisa, hhayi imizwelo futhi wenza ngokuxhamazela, njengoba kaningi ne out ngikhishwa ngaphansi ukunakekela kwabazali nezingane nababonelelayo - omdala.

Insizwa ngokokuqala umpteenth ezibuza umbuzo noma cha aye empini. Futhi ebuka ontanga yabo, siyaqhubeka ziyangena umcabango, evamile uzitshela ukuthi onjalo yokuchitha isizungu - liyisibonakaliso yokuntula imali ukuthenga usizo lime kubazali babo, abangamalungu e kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wayezimisele ukuthenga off indodana yakhe kusuka ibutho. Kodwa uma benzani ukuzuzisa nenzalo yabo? Wakhombisa yini kutsi uyabonga yimihlatshelo enjalo phezu ingxenye abazali, noma balithatha kalula?

Kuze kube manje, emizimbeni kwamalungelo wobuntu sikuhluphe olwanele mayelana ukuthi kuya ukubuthela babehlelwe ubuthongo ngeSonto. Lokhu ubuwula yayiyivelakancane ezikhathini yesevisi ukuphila wawobaba, futhi manje amasosha ungakwazi aphumule lula emibhedeni yabo ngesikhathi osinikiwe ngokomthetho kuso.

Inzuzo ezibalulekile kungenziwa kubhekwe njengendlela yokuthi akusho ilungelo ukuthumela ababuthiwe zezinduna ezempi. Namuhla, izingane zethu balele ngokuthula ingxenye yabo, wedlula kuphela ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile ukuthi ngokwanele okuyilungiselela kungenzeka isinyathelo sezempi. Akekho umuntu ofuna ukucabanga mayelana ezimbi, kodwa konke kufanele bakulungele futhi uma ebizwa wasemuva njengezitha zezwe lokhokho, yiba nomusa ukwenza ngokwethembeka bonke amaqembu lifanele ukugqoka isihloko ifomu nesosha. Yilokho okufanele aye empini.

Akumangalisi ukuthi kuwo wonke amasevisi isikhathi ngokuvamile amasosha cishe akazange iqhaza kunoma yikuphi ukufundisa ehloniphekile. imisebenzi Akunqunyiwe ezihlobene izinhlanga nge amagobolondo, elingenalo okusho ukubekezela abandayo noma ukushisa noHezekeli esabekayo. Ngokuvamile ukuhlolwa enjalo ngokuphelele uphonsa amasosha ongaqeqeshiwe ngubani lingalimala nezinkinga zempilo ezingathí sina.

Akubuzwa ukuthi ezweni lethu kukhona iphesenti kahle eliphezulu kohlaka dodgers, ngubani nje ungafisi sebuthweni, bakubheka njengobuthakathaka unyaka yize futhi ukhiphe zokuphila. guys Young zilungele kubangele ukulimala ezincane ngokwayo, breaking nemilenze, njll, futhi konke lokhu ngesizathu esisodwa esilula asekele le nkulumo kanje: ". Ngiyesaba aye empini"

izindaba Crazy mayelana okuthiwa Dembele, ngubani bephoqeleka ukuba enze izabelo ezilulazayo ababuthiwe abasha, babe in the 90s ezikude. Isiphathi ekhona nesiyalo ebuthweni Kwase kuyisikhathi eside iqedwe zenzakalo, futhi manje amasosha kungabi khona noluncú olusihlanganisa okufanele ukhathazeke ngakho.

Ukukhuluma ngezinzuzo ngoba abantwana abaye waba yisosha, kungase kuqashelwe izimo ezivuna Ukwemukelwa amanyuvesi, umsebenzi, njll Ekugcineni, lezi guys ngubani ongaba nesizathu esizwakalayo ngokuthi indoda yangempela futhi abavikeli. Sethemba, isibonelo sabo bayoba isibonelo esihle kakhulu esizukulwaneni esisha of intsha.

Phela, ngonyaka ka-ebuthweni lezempi - entsha nabangane bangempela, hhayi nje ukuphuza buddies. Futhi comrades abaye baphila ne ehlombe wena nehlombe lumelele unyaka, ukwabelana nawe injabulo nosizi.

Ngakho yini noma cha ukuya empini? On lo mbuzo kungekho mpendulo ngqo. Ngokukhulu ukuzethemba singasho into eyodwa kuphela - lena indaba eyimfihlo ngamunye isenzo kuyodingeka kunembeza.