Umfana Omncane: Ingabe umKristu angakwazi ukujabula?

Kuthiwa kule minyaka yamuva inani ukungalingani yobudala Izinyunyana anda. Ikakhulukazi njalo izimo lapho owesifazane insizwa eyayisencane kakhulu kunaye. Nokho, uma sibheka umlando, singabona ukuthi mesalliances enjalo babukhona nakwa imibuso lasendulo nemibuso. Just for abesifazane ukuba wake nezimfuneko ezibophayo kakhulu, ngakho uma uneminyaka indoda esikhulile futhi abasebasha, njalo ikhanga abantu.

ngokwezifiso isilinganiso

Ngakho umphakathi wakithi, nakuba isikhona inqubekela phambili kanye nobuchwepheshe, impumelelo kumnandi emikhakheni ehlukahlukene umnotho kanye ukukhiqizwa ubheka ezinye izimpikiswano ahlale langaphambi kokubhubha komhlaba ngamanzi ofana nowokuqala umusi isitimela noma imoto kanjani. Lokhu kusebenza futhi abesifazane atholakala ubani noma, ngempela, ukushada, ngoba amadoda encane kuka yobudala babo. Ngokuthakazelisayo, isimo reverse akakubangeli intukuthelo phakathi kwabantu abavamile, okusho indoda omdala, nentombazanyana ethile wayibuyisela e yebhangqa ngokuvamile yamukelwe umphakathi. Uma guy abasebasha, owesifazane ngokushesha baqala ukusola zothando of "ngengane engenacala", ebuqilini, ngokuthi sisebenzisa ke njengoba ithuba lokugcina isikhathi ebusheni babo. Nokho Ngokuvamile usola iDA ku "uthenge" ubudlelwane, uma nowesifazane osekhulile okuhambisana ngokwanele. Nokho, kungaba okwenza imishado enjalo wayithola kubantu abavamile, lapho ukuhwebelana yokukhuluma ingahambi.

Nsizwa: umkhuba ubudlelwane

zezenhlalo Abaningi ovelele nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye zaphawula ukuthi isibalo imifelandawonye ezifana eminyakeni yamuva kuye kwanda kakhulu. Vele ukubheka owaziwa, abaqavile emphakathini, ukuphila kwakhe siqu okusengqondweni wonke umuntu. Phakathi kwabo kukhona okuningi nabesifazane abangabafundi abakhuthele umfana omncane. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi lobo bungane zibambene hhayi kuphela ngoba siyakujabulela futhi inhlekisa "ukuzazisa" yakhe. Ngokuvamile ukuthi zibangelwa sabantwana ababili abadala lisaphila njengomkhaya. Abaningi bakholelwa laba besifazane, futhi amadoda, futhi, ngandlela-thile normal ngenxa yokuthi abakwazi ukuthola umlingani beminyaka yobudala efanayo. Kusolakala ngisho ku nemikhuba esontekile yobulili. Lokhu kubuye indawo ukuba, kodwa kuncike isibalo seminyaka zihlukaniswa. Izimo zethu zihluke kakhulu abasha, insizwa kanye nowesifazane emdala ukwenza sizobukeka ingafaneleki. Kodwa lapho umehluko iminyaka 5-10 kuphela, le mibhangqwana ungakwazi ngempela ukudalwa ngesisekelo uthando. Kungenzeka esikhathini esizayo, kanye nanoma yimuphi omunye umbhangqwana.

A guy abancane kunami, ibhonasi nice

Kunoma league kukhona exchange letihlomulisa, futhi kule - kakhulu. Abesifazane bathole kulokhu, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuthi kukhona umthombo amandla obusha, okuyinto le ntokazi, ngendlela enhle, isikhathi esithile ukuba 'zidle ". Futhi lokhu nomphumela omuhle kakhulu ku nokubukeka okungokomzimba abesifazane empilweni yayo yasekhaya, bagcina isimo kanye nezinga lempilo bebonke. Yiqiniso, ukubanjwa aphethwe futhi Isigwili ufuna konke, kodwa nomlingani abasha ithuba zidlule, kunjengokungathi futhi zonke izigaba yakhe futhi zawo zentuthuko empilweni. Kuyinto umuntu azalwa nalo lokuhlaziya izinyunyana, lapho yena, ngokwesibonelo, 28-35, 23-27, futhi futhi - akukhona okungavamile ukuba likhithike. Uma phakathi kwalaba bantu kukhona uthando, uma lokhu - isinqumo esicatshangelwe, hhayi into yesikhashana noma bethanda ke ngazimbili enjalo ngokuvumelanayo ihlobene, babe nabantwana futhi bahlale ndawonye kwesinye isikhathi eside ukwedlula ontanga yabo.