Izingcaphuno amahle mayelana ingane: uma ungafunda okuthile?

Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, babhali, bahlatiyi, izazi zefilosofi nazo ziye wagcizelela ngokuphindaphindiwe kwenye ezibalulekile mcabango: izingane - lena injabulo enkulu ekuphileni. Mhlawumbe yingakho ezincwadini eziningi Umlando babe izingcaphuno mayelana ingane. Futhi naphezu kwezingcindezi lukhulu Emasikweni abalobi yabo, ukuphinda sinye siyafanana: awuvezi izingane zabo.

Kodwa, ngeshwa, namuhla, abazali ngezinye izikhathi sikhohlwe ngalo futhi ushiye imvuthu zabo bebodwa enabo. Lokhu akulungile, futhi akufanele kube, ngisho nalapho abadala ikhanda kwamanzi umsebenzi. Kungenjalo kukhona awokuthi amadodana abo namadodakazi abo esikhathini esithile ngizoya ekwehleni.

Ningaphendukeli kude izingane zabo

Kumele siqale nge yokuthi abaningi izingcaphuno mayelana izingane nabazali njalo ukuphinda into eyodwa: izingane - lena yinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke ekuphileni. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi i-bhodi akuyona into engavamile, futhi kanjalo wonke umuntu uyazi. Nokho kubalulekile ukuba ucabange ngakho, futhi isimo samanje ezindabeni siyashintsha kakhulu. Phela, ngenxa isimiso njalo emsebenzini noma ezinye izinselele siqu ngenxa yokuthi nikhulise abantwana nje awunaso isikhathi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nesifiso.

Ngakwelinye ihlangothi, eziningi izingcaphuno ngomntwana zihloselwe usikhombisa leli qiniso. Futhi ukuchaza ukuthi ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu, udinga ukunikeza izingane zakho ukunakwa nothando.

1. "Uma ukuphuca ingane uthando, khona-ke alibe lisaba ingane: kuyinto nje ezincane, engenamsebenzi abadala" (J. Sesbron).
2. "Izingane Uhlanzekile futhi ungcwele. Futhi ngakho-ke noma kunjalo abakwazi ukwenza ithoyizi isikhathi sakhe "(A. P.Chehov).
3. "Indoda ngeke bazi yokwesaba kweqiniso kuze ingane yakhe akusho nikhamuluke ebumnyameni."
4. "Yiba ingane - abulona ihlaya. Kusukela manje, kufanele uzilungiselele lokuthi nenhliziyo yakho iyoba khona ngaphandle komzimba wakho "(Elizabeth Stone).

Ingabe ukufundisa izingcaphuno mayelana ingane?

Indlela sikhule ingane ithembela onjani imfundo abazali umnike kona. Uma bayakwazi ukufundisa ingane yakho izinto ezibalulekile iyoba isisekelo sempilo yalelozwe yakhe. Futhi uma umfana noma intombazane luyokhula abangenalwazi, it is ngokuphelele icala abazali, hhayi othisha noma othisha.

Kuyinto funny, kodwa izingcaphuno eziningi mayelana nekhono ingane ukuze ufunde kahle indlela ukufundisa izingane zabo. Futhi isiqinisekiso into engavamile:

1. "Izingane kufanele baphile emhlabeni omuhle eqanjiwe, izindaba, nobuciko kanye imidlalo elingapheli" (V A. Suhomlinsky).
2. "Umsebenzi oyinhloko ngabazali ukuba ekukhuliseni izingane. imfundo Ikhaya esikoleni - ubuhlobo ehloniphekile phakathi kwendoda nomkayo, umama nobaba "(V A. Suhomlinsky).
3. "Njalo ingane izalwe abafundile. Ngakho-ke, le duty abazali ukuba amnike usosayensi "(uCatherine II).
4. "Ukuqondisisa obaba - imfundo engcono izingane zabo" (Democritus).

Umlayezo oya izingane

Ngaphezu okungenhla, kunesinye ngokuhlakanipha, aqukethe eziningi izingcaphuno ingane. Ngakho, kufanele ukhumbule njalo ukuthi izingane kudingeka nokuba zihloniphe abazali, naphezu izinkinga zonke zokuphila. Ubaba nomama - lingcwele, ngoba wanikela ngokuphila, futhi lo msebenzi kuphela kufanele dumise kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zakhe.

1. "I wokungabongi ezimbi kakhulu - kuba wokungabongi izingane maqondana abazali babo" (Luc de Clapiers de Vauvenargues).
2. "Ngasiphi yobudala kumelwe bahloniphe abazali babo" (uCatherine II).
3. "Ingane ngabongi bonke kubo mubi kunothango omunye; yena isigebengu, ngoba indodana alinalo ilungelo ngabandayo kunina" (Gi De Mopassan).
4. "Uthando nenhlonipho abazali, akungabazeki, kukhona imizwa okumsulwa kakhulu" (V G.Belinsky).

izingcaphuno amahle mayelana nomndeni kanye nezingane

Ekuphetheni, thina zilandise ezinye izingcaphuno amahle. Bavumele futhi abafakiwe esigabeni jikelele, bonke ngothi lwabo, futhi, bangafunda ngokuhlakanipha kancane.

1. "Zonke izingane emhlabeni bekhala ngolimi olufanayo" (Leonov).
2. "Ningaphendukeli kwabanamadlozi nakubathakathi ingane ibe isithombe, bese njengomuntu omdala, akudingi ukuba Izisulu" (P. Buast).
3. "Indlela engcono ukukhulisa kahle izingane - simjabulisa" (Oscar Wilde).
4. "Okuwukuphela kwento kuwufanele ukweba ngaphakathi lo pilo - kiss kusuka ingane ingalali" (D. Holdsworth).