Isici yekuchumana yokuxhumana

Isakhiwo zokuxhumana womuntu siqukethe izinhlangothi interactive, kuchumana okuqonda. Ngayinye yalezi amaqembu has izici zayo siqu. Ngokwesibonelo, isici interactive libhekene exchange isinyathelo, okungukuthi, inhlangano nokuxhumana phakathi ukuxhumana nabantu. Wekuticabangela e bezibona, cognition nomunye ngokusebenzisa zokuxhumana, kanye esungula kuxhumana. Isici yekuchumana yokuxhumana - it is a exchange ngqo kolwazi phakathi kwabantu eziningana. Kulokhu, lo "ulwazi" kungase kubhekwe njengokwelapha imibono, izimo, izithakazelo, izimo zengqondo, imizwa, nokunye.

Ngamunye amaqembu ukuxhumana kudinga ukucabangisisa okuphelele futhi uqaphele.

Thumela ukuxhumana ngaphandle zokuxhumana engenakwenzeka. Kumelwe sikhumbule ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi isici yekuchumana yokuxhumana ibaluleke kakhulu abahlanganyeli. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubunjalo exchange of yiluphi ulwazi ngosizo isimiso izimpawu kungathinta kakhulu ngamunye amaqembu yokuxhumana. Ngamanye amazwi, exchange kolwazi ihilela nomthelela ekuziphatheni lomunye umuntu. izimpawu ezithile kakhulu kuthinte abalingani nokuxhumana yekuchumana. Izimpawu zokuxhumana ukudlala indima efanayo ithuluzi emshikashikeni.

Futhi, isici yekuchumana lolwazi ngamazwi (zokuxhumana kolwazi ngokusebenzisa inkulumo) kanye non-ngamazwi (zokuxhumana kolwazi ngokusebenzisa izenzo ezehlukene).

izindlela Verbal yokuxhumana - kulotshiwe (e nencazelo yalo semantic), futhi ukukhuluma.

Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi izinga yokukhuluma, iphimbo kanye nezinye ukubonakaliswa ahlobene futhi basonta izigaba ngamazwi. Nokho, lapho ucabangela ukuthi lezi zici ngeke nje umphelelisi kodwa futhi ukubhubhisa ngokuphelele incazelo eqondile okungenhla, kungenzeka ukuba bagomela ngokuzethemba ukuthi izindlela non-ngamazwi - labo abangekho "amazwi". Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa izindlela ezilandelayo non-ngamazwi yokuxhumana:

- izindlela okolorechevye, ie tempo, buviyoviyo, ivolumu, iphimbo, silulumagama, isigqi yokukhuluma, nokunye;

- ukuxhumana indawo, okusho ukuthi, ibanga, ibanga phakathi kwamaqembu ukuxhumana;

- izindlela kinesicheskih, isb Gait, ukuthinta, umzimba ukuma, ngibone isimo sobuso bakhe, touch umlingani, njll.;

- indawo kanye nesikhathi zokuxhumana;

- Smell: umuntu noma imvelo;

- wesandla, izingubo, izesekeli, izinwele style nokuningi.

Ngakho, i-Psychology zokuxhumana "sokuqonda" amasignali non-ngamazwi nangamazwi. Ngokusekelwe umbono bengqondo, kungashiwo wagomela ukuthi omunye uyaqaphela mayelana 10% ulwazi, laphetfwe ubuchopho. It kulandela ukuthi ukuhlaziywa kanye emagama zenzeke hhayi kuphela ezingeni bengazi, kodwa ku-lutho.

Qaphela ukuthi isici yekuchumana yokuxhumana Lingase lihlanganise izithiyo ezithile. izithiyo ezinjalo imvelo ngokwengqondo noma zenhlalo. izithiyo Ukuxhumana ezingase ziphakame ngenxa yokuntuleka ukuqonda isimo. Izizathu zalokhu zahlukene. Lezi kungaba umehluko professional, ezingokwenhlalo nezombusazwe. Bona zisenza sibe ukutolika ezahlukene imiqondo asetshenziswa inqubo yokuxhumana, futhi izinto ngendlela ehlukile, ngombono nesimo sengqondo.

It lingahunyushwa baphetha ukuthi isici yekuchumana yokuxhumana - isigaba ngokwengqondo. Njengoba zokuxhumana - isimo kunalokho ezibalulekile zokuphila komuntu, futhi omunye izidingo eziyisisekelo ngamunye wethu. Ukuxhumana yakha uhlelo wobuntu ubudlelwane emhlabeni ezungeze. Kusukela ikhono lokukhulumisana ngokuvamile inquma lizinga ukuthandwa emphakathini wethu, impumelelo yethu ekuphileni nokunye. Wonke umuntu kumele akwazi ukuxhumana kahle.