Inkinga engu-7 - esigabeni esilandelayo ekukhuleni kwengane

Emphilweni wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane noma umuntu omdala, usizi zenzeka ngezikhathi. Ngaphansi Inkinga ngokuvamile sibhekisela ushintsho kusukela ubudala kuya esigabeni esisha e ukuthuthukiswa ubuntu.

Inkinga ingane kwenzeka lapho beshintsha imisebenzi, ngakho-ke kuvame kakhulu isizathu ivela khona singasebenza njengesisekelo esiqinile sokufinyelela isithakazelo esisha kanye nesidingo wengane: play, cwaningo, njll Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye ngokwesiko lakhomba inani ubudala zinhlekelele ezinganeni - kuzalwa, ngonyaka owodwa, eminyakeni emithathu nenye eneminyaka eyisikhombisa ubudala. Ngokuvamile, inkinga eminyakeni 7, abazali elihlobene ne-emaklasi elibanga lelitsite kuqala. Phela, kulobu budala asendleleni ingane yabo walala ithemba, ngakho uzizwa unesibopho zonke izenzo zabo futhi imiphumela izifundo esikoleni.

Ngokokuqala ngqá e engu-eziyisikhombisa, ingane ibonakala umuzwa like conscientiousness, ogama nesenzakalo kuncike imigomo imfundo ekuqaleni ezibekwa abazali. iminyaka 7 esibucayi is ngqo exhumene izinguquko ngokwengqondo nangokwenhlalo sekwenziwa izingane walonyaka. Inkinga has iminyaka 7 ubudala kubonakala noshintsho ekuziphatheni wengane kanye nokulahlekelwa uyingane. Ngalesi sikhathi, abazali kumntanakho ungase uphawule ukuziphatha ezinye yokufakelwa nolukhohlisayo, ngoba abafundi basesikoleni esiphakeme sebeqala ukulingisa abantu abadala.

Abazali Kufanele sikuthathe ngokungathí sina noma iyiphi zokubonisa isimo esibucayi, njengoba isimo sengqondo uzwela kungenzeka nomthelela omubi kakhulu umfundi ophumelele, okuyinto umphumela ngobudedengu bakhe, ukuzenyeza, futhi kwezinye izimo, ngezinye izikhathi eba neurosis. Ngakho-ke, abazali abakhathalelayo kule nkathi ukuphila komntwana wabo kufanele enze wonke umzamo ukusekela futhi amsize.

Ingane iminyaka 7 esibucayi libhekene ukubonakaliswa ukucasuka futhi intukuthelo causeless cishe nsuku zonke. Ngalesi ubudala, izingane ziya ngokuya ukhathele uhlobo olufanayo ukuqeqeshwa isikhathi esithile. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba aziqeqeshe kahle ingane yakho ngoba amakilasi esikoleni, ezingasetshenziswa kakhulu ekudambiseni isimo esibucayi iminyaka 7. Namuhla ziningi ukuqeqeshwa sessions okuhloswe ngaso yokuvumelana wengane wesikole.

Esikhundleni ngobudedengu, impulsiveness kanye spontaneity ingane ka eziyisikhombisa uyeza ugqozi bokusungula izenzo zabo futhi zibona on okushiwo zonke izenzo zabo. Wayengumuntu kakade bazwisise imizwelo yabo nakho athonya ukuzihlonipha kanye ukuzethemba. Zonke lezi zakhiwo ngokomqondo, nokwagcina ungeze esikoleni nezimfuneko phezu ingxenye abadala, okuwenza crisis iminyaka 7.

Ezimweni eziningi, ukuphatha ukuba inqobe zonke nezinkinga ingane kweminyaka enikeziwe unqobe nkinga, kodwa futhi abazali babo, futhi, kuncike kakhulu impilo kanye nesimo ingane phakathi nalesi sikhathi zokuphila kwakhe. Akufanele neze ezindabeni ingane nge isiphakamiso usizo yayo, uma akayibuzi. Ochwepheshe bathi akukho usizo ngempumelelo ngaphezulu kubazali babo okungezona kokungenela. Ngo emfundweni yezingane iminyaka 7 ubudala kubalulekile ukubenza bazizwe bonke nemiphumela yezenzo zabo noma ukungenzi ngokuphelele kwabo.

Ekuhambeleni kokuqala esikoleni qiniseka ngithande impumelelo ingane yakho, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile impumelelo hhayi academic kuye, futhi ukuhlangana nabantu ezintsha futhi abe nesithakazelo. Ngakho-ke, imibuzo mayelana izifundo okuhlaziya, kuyatuseka ukuba bahlehlise okwesikhathi ezifanelekayo. Ukuze ukwakheka ubuntu kwengane eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala indima ebaluleke kakhulu udlalwa ngu ukuvela eqolo ukuzethemba , futhi okubi kakhulu, uma uphansi kakhulu. Lapha ingane zingasiza abazali abathandekayo, kuzo zonke indlela ukuze simdumise futhi ukhuthaze.

Ukuthembela ingane ukuthi isuke isithandwa abazali bakhe, futhi badinga usizo ukuze zinqobe lo Inkinga kulula iminyaka 7 ubudala.