Inhloso yokushada. Indlela yokuthola umlingani wokuphila.

Umbono womphakathi ubulokhu ulahla lo wesifazane nganoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwesinyathelo esivumelwaneni. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi amantombazane abomvu ayehlezi ngefasitela, elinde le nsizwa enhle ukuba ilalele. Esigodlweni samantombazane amancane kwakukhona njalo izindlela eziningi hhayi nje ukuheha ukunakwa kwabantu, kodwa futhi ukuletha umsizi ngaphansi komqhele. Yiqiniso, kaningi, kungukuphathwa kabi kwengqondo, ukukhohlisa abesifazane noma ngisho nokukhohlisa. Kodwa imilingo yamantombazane athandwayo asetshenziselwa izindaba zothando ngokuzithandela. Ngaso leso sikhathi sizobona, ukuthi emzabalazweni womyeni wesikhathi esizayo akuzona zonke izindlela ezinhle. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi emlenzeni umthetho oyisisekelo wemvelo wenza: "Yonke into inokuphikiswa." Ngakho-ke, ukushaya umndeni womunye umuntu noma ukumisa ukupenda ngothando kumfana ongenandaba nawe, ungalindeli injabulo.

Umkhuba ovivinywa isikhathi esiningi uyingqungquthela yokushada, ebhekene neTheotokos. Vumelanisa, ngubani ongazange aqonde kuye konke okufisa nokukhathazeka kwabesifazane. Ngeshwa, ungayisebenzisa kanye kuphela ngonyaka, emkhosini wokuvikelwa kweNdodanakazi Ebusisiwe. Ngokusho kwalesi siko, intombazane efuna ukushada noma ukuthola umthandi, ewela phezu kwesonto, kufanele ithi ngezwi eliphansi amagama alandelayo: "Virgin Mary ohloniphekile, simboze wonke umhlaba ngeqhwa, futhi ngingumyeni."

Abesifazane abancane abazalwa ngaphansi kwezibonakaliso zomhlaba, ungazama icebo lokushada ngokusebenzisa izitshalo. Imikhosi yenziwa ngoMsombuluko okhulayo ngoLwesithathu. Ukuyiqhuba, uzodinga imbewu yebhontshisi elungiselelwe ngaphambilini (inamba ngisho nenombolo), ibhodlela nomhlaba, ingilazi yamanzi. Awekho amakhandlela nezinye izimfanelo zemilingo ukuthenga akudingekile. Lesi siko sidalwa, njengoba besho, ngamandla okucabanga. Ngakho-ke, uma ungakafiki uhhafu wakho, ngenkathi utshala ubhontshisi, cabanga ngemininingwane yonke ukuthi ufuna ukubona umyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Uma lowo ozobhalwa yi-grooms usuvele echazwe, cabanga ngomshado omuhle kakhulu nokuphila okujabulisayo ndawonye ndawonye. Kulesi simo, ungakhohlwa ukuphinda uqale ukushada: "UBobam ukhula, futhi ngishada nentombazane." Ukuphuza imbewu, ubambe ingilazi esandleni sakho sokunene bese ubahola ngeso lengqondo, uphinda: "Kuyakuba njengoba ngifisa." Imilenze ilokhi. "" Ulimi oluyisihluthulelo. "Amen." Ameni. "Amen." Ngemva kwalokho, faka ibhodlela efasiteleni, ukuze ukukhanya kwenyanga kuwele kuso. Manje kufanele ulinde amahlumela futhi unakekele isitshalo ukuze ungabuni.

Kwenzeke empilweni yalesi simo uma kubonakala sengathi ngaphambi komshado kunesinyathelo esisodwa, kodwa lo muntu akaqapheli ukukwenza. Ungaphelelwa yithemba, ngoba icala elinjalo kukhona inhloso yokushada, ukusiza ukuqondisa izenzakalo ngendlela efanele.

Umkhuba uqhutshwa ngenyanga ekhulayo, ngoLwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu. Ngokuthandekayo kuthinta umphumela wokuthola inyanga ngesibonakaliso seLibra. Ukuze wenze imilingo udinga amafutha abalulekile we-sandalwood, i-lemon ne-cypress, kanye nekhandlela elibomvu.
Inqubo yonke ayithathi isikhathi esiningi. Okokuqala, lungisa ingxube yamaconsi amane amafutha kalamula, amaconsi amabili e-cypress amafutha amaconsi amabili e-sandalwood (ungasebenzisa i-rosemary). Ngesikhathi sokulungiselela, zama ukukhokhisa amafutha abalulekile ngemicabango yakho nezifiso zakho. Cabanga ngemibala yonke impilo ejabulisayo kanye nabathandekayo bakho.

Ukushiya yedwa nomuntu okhethiwe, gcoba ingxube ye-oyela nekhandlela, kusukela esisebeni kuze kufike ocingweni, ulibeke emlilweni bese uliyeka ngokuphelele. Uma izinhlelo zivumelana futhi umthandi ufuna ukuqhubeka nobuhlobo nawe, qiniseka - umshado useduze nekhoneni.

Amantombazane afuna ukuthola imiphumela ngaphandle kokulinda isikhathi eside, ungeluleka isiluleko somshado osheshayo.

Uma ubungumuntu oshade naye emshadweni, cela umakoti ukuba akhokhe izicathulo isikhashana. Ngokweqile kwenyanga, geza izicathulo ngamanzi asentwasahlobo, uphinde uphendule amagama athi "izicathulo, umhlabathi, unginyathele, ukuze ngishade ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka." Umlomo uyisikhiye, futhi isihluthulelo yilulimi. "Yiba njalo.

Bathi iqhinga lokushada lomshado lisebenza emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukusheshisa kakhulu? Emva kwakho konke, njengokuhlakanipha kwabantu uthi, "ushade ungahlaselwa ..."