Indlela yokuhlela igumbi ngalinye ilungu lomndeni?

Ukuthenga indlu, noma ukulungisa endaweni yokuhlala, ngamunye wethu ucabanga ngemibuto: "Indlela yokuhlomisa ikamelo lezihambi? Yini okufanele ibe ikamelo lokulala? Indlela yokuhlomisa ikamelo lokuphumula ukuze lihlaziye futhi likhululekile hhayi kuphela kumalungu omndeni wakho, kodwa nakwabavakashi? Indlela yokwenza ikhaya lakho lifudumele futhi lihle, ukuze zonke izihlobo zakho emva komsebenzi omatasa usuku noma usuku lwesikole liphuthume ukubuyela ekhaya ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka? "

Omunye uzophendula: "Yiziphi izinkinga? Ukuqasha umklami wezobuchwepheshe, uyazi kahle indlela yokuhlomisa ikamelo. " Futhi kulesisitatimende kukhona okusanhlamvu kweqiniso, kodwa kunezici ezithile. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi izinsiza zomklami azishibhile, kepha uma isimo sakho sezezimali sikuvumela ukuba wenze lokhu, kungani kungenjalo?

Abaningi bakholelwa, futhi sivame ukuvumelana nemibono yabo ukuthi akuwona wonke ochwepheshe, ngisho nezinga eliphakeme kakhulu, okwazi ukuqonda nokuzwa umkhathi wendlu yakho. Phela, indlu ayiyona izindonga ezine kuphela, enikezwa ngamabhokisi ebhokisi enziwe ngamapulangwe, into engaphezulu, enye yendlela yonke yokucabanga, ukuqonda okufanayo kwezimo ezithile, eyodwa yomoya wonke esiwuphefumulayo futhi okwenza kube lula ngathi Ayinalutho.

Isimo siyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu uma sicabanga ukuthi singakunikeza kanjani igumbi lomntwana. Noma kunalokho, asisekho ingane, kodwa akuyona umuntu omdala. Ungamenza abe nomuzwa kanjani njengenkosi kuye, ukuze angathanda ukumema abangani kuleli kamelo, angabi namahloni ngesikhathi esifanayo ngesikhatsi sakhe esincane futhi esingafaneleki esimweni sakhe? Ngamanye amazwi, kanjani ukuhlomisa ikamelo lentsha ukuze likhululekile kuyo?

Kubonakala sengathi, kamuva nje uphikisana ngokuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwephepha lodonga esithombeni sangemuva - ngamabhola noma nge-matryoshkas. Futhi namuhla lezi zamaphephadonga zivele zifakwe nge-posters nezithombe zezidalwa ezithile ezingavamile. Iningi lwakamuva, ehlezi embhedeni womntwana wakho, ufunda kuye ebusuku indaba yezinganekwane, futhi namhlanje phakathi kwamabili, futhi awukwazi ukusikhipha kukhompyutha. Izolo ingane yakho yalala nemibuzo futhi ilindele impendulo yakho ngokulangazela, futhi namuhla yonke imibuzo inempendulo yayo.

Ungabongiswa - ingane yakho ikhulile, noma kunjalo, ingakabi umuntu omdala. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuba athole ulimi oluvamile kunoma yiluphi udaba, kufaka phakathi ukuthi angamhlomisela kanjani ikamelo. Ufuna i-oda nokunye okufana nomqondo wakho womqondo wendawo yokuhlala, futhi udinga okuthile "okupholile", okungavamile futhi okungavamile, okuhambisana nemibono yakhe mayelana nokuhlala kwanamuhla. Ungayifinyelela kanjani ekunciphiseni? Indlela yokwenza isinqumo esilungile kuphela?

Emalungiselelweni ekamelo, intsha kumele ihlanganyele ekuxoxweni kwabo bonke, ngisho nemininingwane encane kakhulu. Kuphela kuleli cala uzothola igumbi lamaphupho akhe. Mnike ithuba lokuziveza. Ungabhikishi uma udweba i-graffiti esilingweni esisha noma ugoqa amaphephadonga amasha nge-posters ekhanyayo. Kulesi simo, umgomo wakho - efomini elifanele ukudlulisela ingane yakho ethandekayo umbono wokuthi igumbi kufanele lihlangabezane nenjongo yalo eyinhloko - ukukhululeka nokusebenza. Kufanele ube nakho konke okudingayo ukuze ufunde futhi uphumule - umbhede, idesksi, amabhasikidi kanye nesigceme.