Gone into, ukuthi ungathola kanjani ke endlini?

Eziningi zingalandisa kanjani siyibhekile isinciphile into edingekayo, njengokungathi ngomlingo. Vele walala phezu engqondweni, mina ayibuyi umzuzu, futhi manje abakwazi ukuyithola. Kungasekho ezihlukahlukene izinto, eqolo futhi ezishibhile, ngokuvamile sincane, ngaphezu kwalokho, ngezinye izikhathi ingaba umthombo ngokushesha noma ngokushesha kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe neze. Uma ushonelwe into, ukuthi ukuze uyithole nokulahlekelwa okungenani Izinzwa? Zikhona izincazelo eziningi nezindlela ukuthola elahlekile, kodwa isizathu ezingaqondakali akufanele ehlisiwe. Akukhona njalo kungenzeka ukuchaza ukunyamalala izindlela okunengqondo nokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo.

Kungani izinto zinyamalale?

Yiqiniso, ezinye izinto zinyamalale phezu banal kakhulu unganakile, izizathu: othile wayethathe ungafaki endaweni, ungakwazi mindlessly sithathe futhi indawo Abasunduzani. Kodwa kungani kunjalo? Ngezinye izikhathi ukulahlekelwa akukuniki ncazelo - egumbini kwavela muntu, kungekho muntu jokes. Uma into lalahleka ezimweni ezinjena, kanjani ukuze uyithole ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka?

Okokuqala, ake uzame ukuthola imbangela kanye imbangela. Mhlawumbe nezimfihlakalo akuhlangene nakho, bese kuba ezibangelwe umuntu noma lwezobuchwepheshe. Uma kungenjalo, khona-ke lokhu kungaba endlini, imimoya emibi, abathakathi, noma namaqhinga umthelela amandla notshwala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izangoma eceleni ukugcizelela amathuba nokuguqulwa ubumpumputhe abakhethayo: into endaweni, ngandlela-thile nje abazange bakuqaphele. Uma ulahlekelwe okuthile okuyigugu, ukuze uqalise iwukuba uphumule amukele ucinge izinyathelo ngezigaba.

Ukwehluka isici womuntu

Ngaphambi kokuthatha phezu izindlela ezingaqondakali, kusuke kukufanelekele kokuhlola imicabango wokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo futhi ukhiphe isici womuntu. Kwaba endlini lezihambi? Mhlawumbe omunye kusukela amalungu omndeni ekamelweni? ngayo izenzo zabanye abantu bavame imbangela ukuthi into wayesehambile. Kanjani ukuyithola kulesi simo? Indlela elula acele wonke umuntu owayemlandela Kwangena, mhlawumbe othile wazinika ndaba.

Ukuze isici womuntu sihlanganisa lokukhohlwa siqu noma disorganization yalowo owakhunyulwa ilahlekelwe okuthile okubalulekile. Ungasusa into bese uyakhohlwa, bese ngibheka isikhathi eside, ngizibuza nokwazi ithonya namandla ethile eyimfihlakalo. Imfuhlumfuhlu zinegalelo, ngezinye izikhathi into engaziwa amanga buthule esihlalweni elaphonswa jacket, kanti umnikazi ehlola egumbini, ukuthola ukuthi lapho wanyamalala folda imibhalo noma esikude TV. Leso sifo samenza ivame ukuhlotshaniswa incazelo elandelayo ukunyamalala.

Kukhona uhlobo olukhethekile izinto ezisengcupheni okuyiwona isikhathi ejwayelekile zinyamalale ngezikhathi ezithile. It amathisipuni, amasokisi, okhiye nezinye izinto elincane. Abacwaningi e-Australia sinqume ukuhlola imfundiso yokuziphendukela Ukulahleka ezingaqondakali futhi waqala ukulawula khona amathisipuni ekamelweni lokudlela University. Ngenxa yalesi batch yathengwa amathisipuni ngalinye yabalwa. Nyanga zonke, abacwaningi ihlolwe bangaki nezinkezo kwesokunxele, futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezinhlanu yanyamalala trace cishe 80% azo zonke izinto uthenge! Ngokusho ukucabanga ezivamile, iningi nezinkezo ulahlekile ngephutha baxoshwa nge izinsalela zokudla noma ebiwe, kodwa indlela abanye babengakholwa usukela, nokuthi lapha amanga into ezingaqondakali.

Ukunganeliseki ngezinhlelo brownie

Ngokwenkolelo ethandwayo, nemikhovu ungathandi yasendlini kahle ehlelekile futhi sizame zidonse ukunaka kwanoma abanikazi kuphela indlela - ukufihla kuzo izinto ezibalulekile. Uma into sishoda, kanjani ukuyithola zingahlelekile? Ukuthola usizo ezinhle kubuyiselwe ukuthula, kunganakekile ngakho brownie Engizokwenza.

Uma bayaqiniseka ukuthi lena endlini, ungakwazi ukukhuluma naye, kunokuba ezikudidayo phezu umbuzo kanjani ukuthola into ezingekho endlini. Uzungu ingafundwa ku Ubulembu - ukuthola kuwebhu, kulula ukushaya futhi kuhletshwa, "Guardian yendlu, ukusiza, thola into obekulahlekile." Ngakho kuyinto efiselekayo ukuchaza ukuthi noma yiluphi uhlobo lwento, ikakhulukazi uma akusiyo ukunyamalala kuqala. Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka ufune Sock elahlekile enyangeni edlule ibuye emsebenzini icebo, kodwa hhayi njengoba kufanele.

Ungase futhi ithi ukuba umshanelo njengendlela into engcwele ubaluleke ngqo izakhiwo. Ngisho angavezwa nganoma iluphi isicelo efomini usizo ukufuna isinyathelo. It kuyasiza futhi okuxhumanisa iduku ukuze umlenze etafuleni, ihlezi phezu kwesihlalo noma kuso. Ngokushesha ngemva ukubopha ifindo into ezingekho lutholwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi endaweni ezingalindelekile neze.

Namaqhinga imimoya emibi

Ngokungafani abanezinhloso brownie umoya omubi uyathanda ukufihla izinto kusukela abavamile hooliganism. Vele ngenxa nokulwela imizwelo engakhi. Qaphela: Uma ngemva Ukulahleka ezinjalo ukuba niphikisane amalungu omndeni, zithi ukweba noma ukunganaki, cishe akunakwenzeka vele umsebenzi amademoni ezincane. Nabo futhi, kungenziwa okuxoxiswene.

"Damn, Day, ukudlala emuva futhi usinike" - ifomula kakhulu elula. Indlela ukuthola into ezingekho, uma usola ukubandakanywa amademoni? Umthandazo ungisiza ukuba amakholwa. Ngidinga ukuzola, ukufunda noma yimaphi umthandazo evumela umusa kaNkulunkulu ukwehlela phezu komphefumulo wakho ukubuyisa. "Baba wethu" kuvamise on the indlebe, futhi le nkulumo ethi "usikhulule kokubi" uphelele izikhathi nje enjalo. Abapristi akukhuthazwa yini ukuba udlale ngothando Dimoni nokubanikeza ithuba isifumbathiso ngesimo ubisi noma ushokoledi, umthandazo kuphela kungasiza ukubhekana nemimoya emibi.

Bheka uyathakatha!

Uma uke waphawula ukuthi izinto angekho ngemva kokuvakashela indlu kakhulu yazykatoy umakhelwane, kungaqali ngempela ukweba. Mhlawumbe sikhuluma uyathakatha ukuthi ngokukhethekile ukulimaza, kuphela ngenxa yezizathu okhokhelwayo. Indlela ukuthola into elahlekile endlini, uma usola umsebenzi abathakathi?

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba sibe buthaka kwethonya emandleni amabi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ukulingana linjengomthandazo, futhi abanye rites ubudala. Ngokwesibonelo, kubalulekile ukuba uthele phansi kombundu nedlanzana usawoti. Lokhu ngeke nje ukuvimbela abathakathi ukuza ekhaya lakho, kodwa futhi otsechot energy flow.

Akufanele ufisa uyathakatha okubi, ngoba zokubasa okubi kuphela okungekuhle. Kunalokho, kungcono ukuba bathandazele impilo yakhe, cela Khanyisa ukuvikela umphefumulo wakhe, ufisa nokubuya kwakhe kusukela amaphutha. Ngemva kwalokho, into elahlekile, uma iphutha kwaba nje uyathakatha, khona ukuvela.

Umthelela amandla ageleza

Izangoma bathi amandla notshwala lakheka ngokubizwa yikho okumele kusolwe ngokushona ukunyamalala ngokungazelele izinto. Zikhona izincazelo eziningi ngoba lesi simanga, nokusiza nalezi izikole ezahlukene ezingaqondakali. Ngokwesibonelo, ubuciko Feng Shui yasendulo nje yakhelwe ukulawula ukugeleza amandla, basize ekugcwaliseni amandla endlini ukukhanya lapho izinto nje ngeke zinyamalale.

Indlela ukuthola into elahlekile in the efulethini, lapho akha negative energy flow? Ukuze uqalise kuyinto ukuhlola ukuthi amandla ngempela okumelwe asolwe. Lokhu ikhandlela muhle kakhulu - i ilangabi evulekile iqala ukuba Crackle futhi luntengantenge, uma emandleni amabi sidlula ke. AmaKristu balisebenzise kangcono amakhandlela isonto, ngoba ngamunye kuyovuzwa ngokuvumelana ngokholo lwakhe. Kuyoba usizo ukuze uthole emhlabeni wonke efulethini ne ikhandlela elikhanyayo esandleni sakhe, ukuvula umlilo ulimi iluphu ikhiyiwe ekhaya. Okuxakayo nje kuyasiza lula ukugeleza yokuhlanza banal eshiwo ngenhla, qiniseka ukuba ngixhumane noma phansi. Lokhu kuphumela hhayi kuphela ngokulandelana izinto, kodwa futhi ilungisa endlini amandla. Ukulandela le nqubo elula, into elahlekile ngokuvamile injalo.

Simbe Wraith omkhulu

Isizathu olandelayo ukunyamalala ngokungazelele izinto kuphakamisa abahlanganyeli okungahleliwe ngomqondo elikhethiwe badideke ngisho yokwesaba. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi uzonikeza into, ubeka phezu kwetafula. Vizitor ukuya kude, futhi ngokungazelelwe ezimbili uzothola ukuthi into wayesehambile. Kungaba yini - esondweni sentambo, okhiye, imvilophu imibhalo. Kulokhu, kokubili nina kanye nabanye isivakashi yakho wazi kahle ukuthi akazange athathe, kubonakala, ngisho egumbini. Njengoba uma wajoyina ezinye ubumpumputhe zikhethe. yokwesaba engenangqondo kuza ngesikhathi lapho isihloko kwavele endaweni efanayo lapho wabonwa okokugcina futhi wenze izikhathi ezimbalwa uma engekho.

Isizathu salokhu ukudideka kungaba yinoma yini, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke wesabe umphumela wakhe mass, lapho abantu abaningana ufuna okhiye, okuyinto amanga nje etafuleni, futhi ukuthole lapho emva kwamaminithi ambalwa. Blame kungaba ubani: pranksters, brownie, amademoni, abathakathi, ngisho nabafokazi. Kulokhu, ukuthola into ezingekho, itulo kungcono ukusebenzisa elula. Yiziphi into elahlekile, emnandi, futhi ngokugqamile Khuluma nge Fiat ithoni "indandatho nje walala lapha, futhi kungcono ukuthi waphinda Kwakuphakathi nalesi sikhathi." Chitha isandla phezu kobuso bakhe, njengokungathi ngokudubula nge kuso. Ngokuvamile, kuyasiza.

Ukubhula: indlela yokuthola lento olahlekile

Imfundiso ezingaqondakali izinombolo, ukubhula, kukuvumela ukucinga ulahlekile izinto ngezinga kahle eliphezulu ecatshangelwayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, asetshenziselwa amatafula ekhethekile, okuyinto eziqukethwe izincwadi ku ukubhula. search isikhala kungenzeka lolunikwe uhlu olunezinombolo.

Ukuze uthole ukuthi hlobo luni umugqa sifana into elahlekile, ungasebenzisa izindlela ezimbili. Okokuqala, udinga ukufaka igama into ngencwadi ukuba itafula izinhlamvu olunezinombolo zamagama, ukwengeza la izinombolo ukuze uthole inombolo encane kuno-84. Lokho, ukubeka inqobo uze uthole inombolo encane noma elingana no-. Lokhu kuyoba Inambalayini ekhombisa kumelwe lifune kuphi. Eyesibili indlela ukuba abhale phansi wonke izinombolo eziyisishiyagalolunye, ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ngemva kwalokho, uwafake ngendlela efanayo ngenhla, futhi ukuthola inkomba ohlwini.

Kukhona Izibuyekezo eziningi ngenxa yamakhono, okuyinto zihlukaniswe abantu bakwazi ukuthola sibonga ukulahlekelwa ukubhula. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi akuwona wonke amacala, kuyasiza. Ngeshwa, uma lento eyebiwe ithuba uyibuyisele kakhulu ziyancipha.

Nomthandazo njengendlela ukucinga

I lokulabhela uNkulunkulu usiza ikholwa kungcono kunanoma ikuphi ezinye izindlela. Ngakho kungcono ukuthandaza ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ne okuhle umphefumulo, ngaphandle kokubiza phezu kwamakhanda lesimbi okungenzeka izimoto ezihlukahlukene - lokhu akulona umKristu.

imithandazo Special "Indlela ukuthola into elahlekile" kungatholakala eziningi izincwadi zemikhuleko namaqoqo. Ngokuvamile lezi imithandazo kubangele abapristi imibuzo ngempela okunengqondo futhi Ukungakwamukeli ngalokuvakalako. Imibhalo ezifana "Esiqhingini itshe Buyan uqamba amanga kuyo izimpukane inyoni" ngalutho ngenkolo yobuKristu, futhi zifaneleke nezimfihlakalo. Kungcono ukusebenzisa ngokuqondile kuNkulunkulu, Virgin Mary, kunoma yimuphi kwabangcwele abavikela, futhi ukubuchaza ngamazwi akho ungowokucela usizo kunokuba iphendukele zokupheka ezingabazisayo ezivela kuyi-lokuqala got amapheshana.

"Masha-rasteryashi" syndrome

Uma ukulahlekelwa okunjalo uma njalo, ungase uthole ukuthi nezimfihlakalo akuhlangene nakho. zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi Entela ukubiza yilesi sifo "Masha-rasteryashi". Abashiya Amakhaya enhle futhi lokukhohlwa akuzona ayinangozi ngakho, ngoba ungalahlekelwa into ebalulekile, ezifana umfuma imithi.

Usizo lokuhlushwa nokuqiniseka okuqinile: mina uzothola into elahlekile okwamanje futhi ngeke kube novalo ngalokhu. Abantu abanjalo kuhle kakhulu ucwaningo ngokwengqondo umkhuba - udinga nje uthinte izinto endaweni lapho into oyifunayo sishoda, ukushaya ngokucacile ngokuzwakalayo. Vele uphathe ngesandla sakho bese uthi, "iphasipoti, ngepeni, incwadi emvilophini". Lokhu kusiza balahle nomuzwa wokuthi ubizwa ngokuthi "ukugxila akubone."

I okungazelelwe ukubuya lwezinto

Akwenzeki njalo ngokushesha ukuthola into ezingekho, futhi kuba ukucasuka esisemthethweni. Kodwa abantu abaningi bathi into itholakala ngokushesha ngemva kokuba ngadonsa ipulaki futhi wayeka yokusesha. Yiqiniso, lokhu kwenzeka kuphela kulabo izinto ezingakenziwa intshontshiwe noma ngokukhethekile kufihlwe, okungukuthi, wanyamalala engaqondakali.

Kukhona ngisho inkolelo yokuthi izinto ekukhathaza sicashe masinyane lapho nje lapho ukhohlwe. Yingakho ngokuvamile kungenzeka ukuzwa izindaba mayelana nendlela into watholakala, ngemva isidingo sokufuna ulahlekile. Kungakhathaliseki izizathu kungani siqhubeka zinyamalale izinto kancane, kufanele sifunde ukuphatha ngayo nandaba zefilosofi. Kumane izinto, ngokuqinisekile kuyotholakala.