Zesifazane ukwelashwa ukuluthwa utshwala - ayikho into engenakwenzeka!

ERussia, ekulweni umlutha wotshwala abantu becabanga ukuthi isithembiso engenamsebenzi. enqabelo abahlukahlukene, imingcele, imithetho "ezomile" ungakaze Kwaletha imiphumela oyifunayo. "ERussia injabulo PITI, angeke vele wedwa" - ukuthi la mazwi Prince uVladimir wabonisana ukwenqaba Islam liyakwenqabela iwayini, ngokukhetha inkolo sesifunda zabo. Ngoba iminyaka eyinkulungwane, amazwi akhe alotshwe encwadini yezindaba zemihla ngemihla, akaphelelwa lokuhambisana. "Umoya" izaba ezinhle kubalandeli.

Eminyakeni yamuva, ukuba umlutha wotshwala iqhubeka futhi sithinta abantu abaningi, kuhlanganise nabesifazane. Ngokusho izibalo ezisemthethweni, eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, ukuluthwa utshwala owesifazane liye lenyuka lisuka 11.3% kuya 15.8%. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi izibalo zangempela kuyoba nakakhulu kakhulu. Ezimweni nalo lesi sifo on the oda sezingeni elikhulu kunalokho zaba ngu izibalo, ngoba abesifazane akuzona ezisheshayo ukubona udokotela nge "okuyihlazo" inkinga.

ukwelashwa ukuluthwa utshwala owesifazane - yokwelapha iyinkimbinkimbi futhi eside, okudinga iqhaza hhayi kuphela kwengqondo, kodwa izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, wezifo zengqondo. Izizathu eziholela abesifazane ukuba umlutha wotshwala, njengoba umthetho, ngokwengqondo: isizungu, yokuwohloka kwemikhaya, ukushonelwa abathandekayo, ukukhungatheka nentukuthelo. Iwayini buthuntubeze le ubuhlungu obungokomzwelo, uyangiduduza ngengqondo, kodwa okwesikhashana. owesifazane kungabonakali "lihlala" ku kulondolozwa utshwala, engene okuncikileyo ebulalayo.

Abangane nezihlobo kungaba kokuhlala isikhathi eside kakhulu ebumnyameni mayelana isimo sangempela, ngoba abesifazane bayakwazi ukufihla amaphutha abo ingcono kakhulu amadoda. usizo Professional abaphendukela kakade ezimweni eziphambili. Mhlawumbe lokhu kwaba ukwakheka inganekwane ukuthi ekwelapheni ukuluthwa utshwala owesifazane kuyize.

Eqinisweni ungakwazi ukwelapha noma yimuphi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ubulili, kodwa yinye yokuqala ebalulekile kakhulu. impatho yabesifazane ukuba umlutha wotshwala, kanye wesilisa, kuphela kungenzeka uma oyifunayo yisiguli. Ngaphandle kokuba umuntu uyazi ukuthi aphila yayo futhi engafuni ngokuphelele ukushintsha ukuphila, neze ubani uzokwazi ukuba ayisize. Lokhu kuqonda kufanele ube isinyathelo sokuqala endleleni eya ukuphulukisa, ngemva kwalokho kuzoba khona ukwesekwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze uthole usizo lwendabuko futhi abaqeqeshiwe.

Ayikwazi ekwelapheni ukuluthwa utshwala owesifazane ekhaya, Akufanele sizikhohlise impumelelo yesikhathi esifushane. ungakwazi yini ukuyikhulisa kahle bebodwa, kodwa isifo ukuluthwa utshwala kufanele baphathwe Ochwepheshe abafanelekayo yasendlini ukudakwa.

izindlela ezinjalo owaziwa, ezifana ukuqonda, "uthunge" kusekelwe ekwesabeni. Abanaso ukwelapha futhi akusho ususelwe ubuhlobo, kodwa kuphela ngesikhathi block wakhe. Ngakho-ke, iningi iziguli, "aphambane", ngokushesha nje lapho sesivivinyo siphele. Ayikho ngaphandle lapha nokuluthwa utshwala owesifazane, ukwelapha edinga indlela olunzulu.

Ngokuyinhloko ekhiqizwa ngokukhishwa kobuthi egazini (ukuhlanzwa) komzimba. Ngo parallel, ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe, enikeza isitshalo ukufunda ukuzijabulisa ngaphandle kokuthatha utshwala ukuze uzizwe ungumuntu ephelele ukwazi ukuzixazululela izinkinga zabo, bakwazi simelane nesifiso kudla utshwala. Izibilini ngokuvamile kakade ehlaselwe utshwala futhi udinga ukwesekwa kanye nokwelashwa kwemithi. Inkambo amavithamini kanye nezinye izindlela ukuqinisa amasosha omzimba - futhi isici ayimpoqo yokwelapha eziyinkimbinkimbi.

Utshwala kuyinto umfazi, umama, indodakazi, umngane - kungcono njalo enkingeni, kodwa namanje akuyona umusho. Lokhu kufanele sikhumbule abathandekayo, e-ukuqonda nokusekela owesifazane udinga kakhulu. zesifazane ukwelashwa ukuluthwa utshwala kungenzeka, thina nje ube nesineke, ukuzimisela ngokuzimisela.