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Ukuze ingane ngayinye abazali bakhe njengoba onkulunkulu - onamandla kunayo futhi behlakaniphile. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo kanjani ukuba babe nabantwana, wayebuza, okokuqala kunakho konke, ukuze umama nobaba. Nokho, njengoba umkhuba imibukiso, ukuze indlela abazali awakulungele kulo mbuzo, ngokuvamile kakhulu wabanjwa singalindele.

Odokotela bengqondo kusho izakhamuzi ngazwi linye bathi umbuzo kuphi izingane zivela, kufanele baphendule ngokwethembeka futhi umane. Simple - ke kumelwe alethe ulwazi ngesimo futhi nenani lapho umntwana ezingase zimuncwe yizitshalo. Ngobuqotho - ke kusho ukuthi akudingekile baziqambela izindaba kumnandi mayelana storks kanye iklabishi. Lezi izindaba kungayilulaza ukuthembeka ingane kuwe.

Ngokuvamile eneminyaka engu-eminyakeni emithathu ingane endala akanandaba imininingwane uMariya kanye nenqubo lokuzalwa. Ngakho-ke, kulesi simo, umbuzo lapho izingane zivela, kuyinto ehluke aneliseke impendulo: kusukela esizalweni sikamama. Esikhathini esizayo, ungakwazi ukutshela ukuthi pussy kakhulu kwesisu has amazinyane, izinyoni amabhu kusukela amaqanda, kanye namaqanda ikhula isuka nezinhlanzi ezincane. Kuleso simo, uma unomuzwa wokuthi le mpendulo akwanele, ungakwazi ukutshela indaba ngalokho ngaphambi indlela kid kwenzakala ngo esizalweni sikamama, wayefana inhlanyelo halves ezimbili. Ingxenye okusanhlamvu ligcinwe ngaso umama kanye nezinye ubaba. Lapho uyise nonina wahlangana ezimbili imbewu ezihlanganiswe esiswini sikamama wami.

Ngo inqubo ingane ekhulayo kungase sekwaziwa enganele lezi. Ngokuvamile kweminyaka emihlanu noma eyisithupha kukhona isidingo-akhawunti eningiliziwe kanjani izingane ukuza. Kulokhu kungenzeka ukukhuluma mayelana nomehluko zobulili phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, futhi ukuthi inqubo impilo entsha ukuthatha abantu ababili iqhaza lapho umama amaseli kayise axhunyiwe, brand impilo entsha. Khona-ke ungakwazi ungitshele ukuthi ingane libukeka ekuqaleni ezimbili, bese amaseli ezine futhi kuyadingeka izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye, waba ngomumo wayeyozalelwaphi.

Lapho sengineminyaka engu-eyisishiyagalombili anganikeza ulwazi oluningi kancane futhi chaza inshokutsi yetinhlobo amazwi anjengokuthi "isibeletho", "isidoda", "qanda", futhi mayelana nendlela esheshayo isidoda fuses iqanda.

Yini okumele uyenze uma ingane iminyaka eyisithupha noma eyisikhombisa futhi akazange ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nendlela izingane ukuza? Lapha, imicabango yabantu uchwepheshe kuhluke: abanye bathi asikho isidingo sokuthi uqale ingxoxo, abanye bethi siwumsebenzi akudingekile uyephuza indaba. Konke kuncike izinkolelo zakho siqu kanye nezifiso. Nokho, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi ingane ngeke ucele abazali zale mibuzo, ngoba abanayo oxhumana nabo "umzali - Ingane" uhlelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uyobe usathola ulwazi oludingayo mayelana lapho izingane zivela, kodwa kwabanye abantu. Ngokwesibonelo, kusukela ontanga, akukho muntu ongaqinisekisa ukuthi lolu lwazi ngeke uhlanekezelwe. Ngakho-ke, singaba ukubhekana isihloko ngokusebenzisa icala: "Bheka - esiswini Anti likaLucy ezikhulayo. Futhi niyazi ukuthi kungani? Ngoba kukhona uhlala ingane ... "

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