Ukubhala lokufuna ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla

Namuhla kungokwemvelo kuba nesimo lapho abashadayo ngemva kwesehlukaniso ayikwazi ngokuthula Wawahlukanisela. Ngokwezibalo, lathi icala lihlobene le nkinga, banezikhundla ehamba phambili kutinchubo civil. Bona ukuthi singenza ngaphandle kosizo ummeli, futhi kanjani ukubhala sokuba ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla.

Akuvamile wangaphambili kwabashadile kungenzeka ngokuzimela bavumelane ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla. Ngokuvamile zokubutha eside umbango, lapho wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba uthole izinzuzo zabo. Yiqiniso, kungcono ucele ummeli ukuba bakwazi ukuthola le mali, ikakhulukazi uma nezindaba impikiswano. Phela, kuziwa impahla, ngokuvamile yazuza lula. Ingabe kuwufanele ingozi, ukonga on Imisebenzi eprofetjhinali? Kodwa uma isicelo ayikwazi ukuba ummeli, ungathola isicelo isampula ku-inthanethi futhi ukudweba wedwa. Kunoma ikuphi, kufanele wazi izidingo eziyisisekelo ukubhala isitatimende kwesimangalo phezu ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla somshado. Yilokhu sizobe ukukhuluma esihlokweni.

Yini kuyisimiso ukulinganiselwa phezu ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla?

You azi ukuthi isimiso ukulinganiselwa ku le ndaba yokungaziphathi kahle iminyaka engaphezu kwemithathu. Uma, ngemva kwesehlukaniso, futhi phakathi naleso sikhathi abashadayo musa ugijimele ukuxazulula le nkinga, kunjalo-ke izovalwa kuze kube phakade. Isitatimende kwesimangalo phezu ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla ngokuvamile babekhonza kanye isimemezelo yesehlukaniso. Lokhu kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuxazulula zonke kulungise ukungaqondani kahle, Ababuyeli iminyaka eminingi. Kodwa uma ngenxa yezizathu ezithile eyavela kamuva inkinga, futhi indoda nomfazi abakwazanga ngokuthula ukuxoxisana, noma iyiphi kuzo kungasenza, ingakapheli iminyaka emithathu ukuze ufake idokhumenti. Kulokhu, nesinxephezelo ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla ka abashadayo kuzoxoxwa njengoba kokuqhubeka ehlukile.

Izidingo ukulungiswa isimangalo

1. Isicelo kumele akhombise uhlobo intengo impahla. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ekuqhubeni ngeke icabange amaqiniso athile ngesisekelo sesigaba komhiaba uphikise, ngesikhathi sokuthenga nokunye. Isitatimende kufanele ubangele lonke uhlu impahla aluthola ngesikhathi umshado, izindleko zawo.

2. Chaza izizathu kummangali ongacela ingxenye enkulu. Ngokomthetho, yonke impahla aluthola ngesikhathi umshado lihlukaniswe ngokulinganayo. Kodwa kunokuningi okungakhulunywanga ngakho, lapho omunye amaqembu aninike nengxenye enkudlwana. Lezi yayiyoba, isibonelo, ukuba khona ingane lapho unina uyakwazi ukuthola iningi impahla. Umyeni angase kwezinye izimo ufanelekele elikhulu, uma efakazela ukuthi umnikelo wakhe ukuthengwa kwezindlu noma imoto lalibalulekile ngaphezulu.

3. Isitatimende lokufuna ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla iyadingeka ukuqeda izinto akakwazi ukuba ahlukaniswe. Lezi zihlanganisa izinto ukusetshenziswa siqu, kuhlanganise nezinsimbi zomculo, impahla, ngofuzo ngofuzo, izinto okungezakho izingane, kanye nezipho.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi nesitatimende lokufuna ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla izokwamukelwa ukuze acutshungulwe kuphela uma ephelezelwa bonke ubufakazi ezidingekayo sobunikazi, kuyothiwa ekhokhelwe isimo , nabo bonke imithetho ezilandelwayo senzo.