Ubunikazi bobulili - Iyini?

Personality angase abhekwe njengomuntu iqoqo zonke izici ngamunye zezici ezibalulekile emphakathini ezibonisa ukuthi umuntu ungumuntu njengoba lomphakathi futhi achaze izimfanelo zakhe siqu. Kuleli qophelo umuntu ovamile iqala kudidaniswe ngokuya, okusikisela ukuthi ubunikazi bobulili - kuyinto ukukhetha olala nabo kakhulu, futhi noma uhluka standard, ngokuqinisekile ukulungiswa. Empeleni, konke kancane kuyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu, futhi abantu abaningi bayamangala uma bethola izici ubulili obuhlukile, nikuqaphela kuyinto evamile.

Ukunquma nobulili ungubani komuntu

Ngokuyinhloko-ke Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ubulili - akusiwona ocansini, kodwa iqoqo izici ukuthi umphelelisi ngokobulili lokuzibusa. Ngakho-ke, ungubani ngokobulili ibizwa ngokuthi iduna nensikazi, nobulili, ngokulandelana, ngobudoda kanye nesifazane. Ukungabaza nobulili awukhona: it is kunqunywa izici bokuphila, iqoqo Ama-chromosomes e, futhi uhlobo ezifanele Izitho zangasese, kuyilapho ubunikazi bobulili - lawa izici ukuthi awekho izici begazi.

Lapho ecabanga kalula, kubangela ekusebenziseni ubulili "abesifazane ngempela" futhi "amadoda angempela." Ngokwe-standard ukucabanga stereotypical, ubulili ngayinye kumele ihlangabezane imibono ethile enhle emphakathini uqobo. Owesifazane, nakanjani angeke ethambile, enhle, ezikhangayo ucansi, nesithakazelo kakhulu izingane futhi izindlu, futhi le ndoda ibizwa ngokwesiko emelelwa njengombana bengisebenza emayini, osindile, iqhawe, ngisho master, ukuba khona "kwesokudla" ukubukeka kuyadingeka. Lapho umuntu ngamunye lapho bezibona kobulili?

Azalwa naso noma bathenga?

Abagqugquzeli umbono 'biology njengoba isiphetho "singaphoqi ubulili vrozhdonnosti zonke izici ezidingekayo kuzo zonke ingane. Noma yimuphi ngeziphambeko kusukela iphethini waqonda njengoba ukuhlanekezela noma isifo. Nokho, kumiswa ubunikazi bobulili incike umphakathi, ngisho uma ingane wakhulela emkhayeni, ebona ukuziphatha ezifanele abazali nezinye izihlobo.

Uma abazali badumazeke ukuthi ingane akazalwanga wobulili bona baphupha, kungase kube isifiso semi oqotho "Remake" inzalo ngaphansi iphethini owandile amaphupho. Ezimweni ezinjalo kuyagcinwa hhayi kuphela ezincwadini, kodwa futhi empilweni yangempela. Kumiswa ubunikazi bobulili kwenzeka ngaphansi kwengcindezi, namantombazane amaningi okuthi kufundiswe abafana kuka okuphambene nalokho. Lokhu kungenxa yokungabikho isiko lendawo elivumela emphakathini wethu ukubeka ukuthi indoda yangempela kumele owazalwa. Ukungabikho ingane wobulili oyifunayo ikhuthaza omama nobaba ukuba sublimate, ukulungisa "ozalweni kuhlulekile" ngaphansi ezinye isampula zokucabangela.

Ebuntwaneni ngokusebenzisa iphrizimu ubulili

Ngo zisencane, izingane abawazi iyiphi ungubani zobulili noma ubulili, kuphela eminyakeni emibili kokumunca umehluko phakathi abafana namantombazane. ukutholakala ezesabisa iba khona noma ukungabi khona wenduku. Lokhu kulandelwa incazelo sabazali kungani iziketi neminsalo kungenziwa igqoke kuphela uma kungekho umthondo futhi ukudlala ithoyizi izimoto isibhamu, uma ikhona. Yiqiniso, lobulili wengane Njalo nje isuke isekelwe amasignali etholakele ngaphandle kwemvume noma ulahle is uphephise ezingeni esesimweni sokungaphili ngokuphelele. It is waphawula ukuthi izingane enkulisa ukusakaza ofakwe ukufakwa ontanga ngisho ngezinye izikhathi amathoyizi amaningi akhetha ukungawugubhi izintandokazi zakho siqu, kodwa isimiso ngokunemba ubulili babo.

Kungani-ke, uqala "wehluleka" lobulili kuthomba? Ukuthomba kuphawulwa hhayi kuphela sobala izinguquko Imizimba. Iqala i search esebenzayo wena, ubuntu, futhi lokhu kudinga embuzweni imibono onegunya. AMAZWI yokuhlambalaza, "uyintombazane" noma "ungumfana," obiza imodeli ubulili eqondene ukusabela okungokwemvelo ngokuphelele. Uzokwenza kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi abazali befuna ngaleso kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulahlekelwa yini ukukhulisa "kwesokudla" umntwana Bump endaweni kakhulu engenangqondo. Ngokwesibonelo, benqabele indodana yakhe ukudansa noma umculo, bakubheka njengobuthakathaka Iminako yezinto ekutheni indoda ayikhali kuphela.

Nazi izinhlobo ubunikazi bobulili

Ngokusho kwezinkambiso yemvelo, abantu bahlukene ngokuqinile ku nabesifazane ababili - owesilisa nowesifazane. Noma yimuphi ukushintshashintsha kule ndawo kulindeleke ukuthi ukungasebenzi kahle kwezakhi zofuzo. Ngokwezinga elithile, lokhu kungenziwa wakhuzwa izindlela zokwelapha zanamuhla. Okulandelayo uqale izici kuphela ezenhlalo nezamasiko, okungase kuhluke kuye ngezimo zezwe ngalinye kanye namasiko endawo. Okubizwa ngokuthi "esitezi sesithathu" - hermaphrodites (nge ukutholakala begazi ubulili izici bobubili ubulili) kanye nabantu ababezibheka lobulili yomuntu is ngokomthetho kuphela zasemazweni ayishumi: Canada, e-Australia, e-United Kingdom, nabanye ukubhuka, eJalimane, eNew Zealand, Pakistan, Thailand, India, Nepal neBangladesh. Ngenxa yalokho amazwe ambalwa ngaphezulu ukuphika ukuthi esitezi sesithathu yesiko namasiko ahlukahlukene, kodwa kusukela umbono oshayiwe uhlobo twilight ohlangothini wokuphila, okuyinto ukungatholi kubhekwe kuso.

Ekuqaleni labelwe ezimbili izinhlobo ubulili: wesilisa esivela amadoda, futhi njengabesifazane, wobulili ezifanele. Yethulwa kuleli samuva nje esidlule androgynous ngokusemthethweni limelela uhlobo oluthile "isilinganiso izibalo" phakathi izinhlobo ezimbili eziyisisekelo ubulili. Izazi zemvelaphi nenhlalo yabantu nezokuhlalisana kwabantu futhi ukuhlukanisa bigenderov, Transgender, Queer nobulili-agenderov ezigabeni ehlukile. Mhlawumbe lesi sifiso ukusunduza Uhlaka ezivamile phambi zinyamalala ephelele futhi ukuletha ukubekezelelana ubulili kuya ngokuphelele lungafinyeleleki. Ngo impilo ejwayelekile, kumane imigomo embalwa, ngaphandle kokuya imininingwane.

ngobudoda

Wesilisa kobulili - inhlanganisela wagcizelela Imizimba besilisa ukusebenza indima yowesilisa nomphakathi, kanye nezimfanelo olufanele, imikhuba, izintandokazi nokuziphatha. Futhi izici oyingqayizivele omuhle, kubhekwa njengento evamile yolaka wesilisa, ingozi ukubekezelelana. Ngamanye amazwi, lapho lo mfana ukukhala bathi "ube yindoda" libhekisela imfuneko umdlalo iphethini, owawuthi amadoda ungakhali, njengoba siku ilungelo lomame.

ubufazi

Femina kobulili - kuphambene wesilisa, njengabesifazane Imizimba inhlanganisela futhi bendabuko izindima zesifazane yezenhlalakahle, kufaka ezinye ezivamile "owesifazane" izici, imikhuba nokuthambekela. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi umphakathi ngokusebenzisa iphrizimu bobulili lithathwe njengoba linjalo konke kusukela ngezilayidi umbala ngesikhathi umntwana.

Uma umfana ukugqoka pink tights, ingxenye enkulu abadala noma ukudida ke nentombazane, noma ngithukuthele ngokungapheliyo ukuthi abazali ufuna ukumkhulisa entombazaneni. Visual isignali ungubani isifazane - ezihlobene ubulili besifazane isembatho izitayela noma imibala. Ilungelo ukugqoka ihembe bright akujabulela indoda wesilisa kuyodingeka ukufakazela ngezibhakela. Ngenhlanhla, fashion ngezikhathi ephikelela ukubekezelelana ngokuphelele nokubhidlizwa izithiyo ubulili enkulu ekukhethweni kuka izingubo.

androgyny

Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ngokwako androgyny owawukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kwakubhekwa ezisolekayo ngaphezulu, sengathi lesi sici kobulili - isifiso ezinonya ukungena abanye androgyne astray. Ngokuyinhloko androgyny uncika tibonwa - uma umuntu akanayo ngobudoda liphinyiselwe noma ubufazi, kunzima ukunquma shazi, intombazane phambi kwakho noma umfana. Ukumaska is sahlanganisa izingubo "unisex" isitayela nokuziphatha.

Isibonelo esimangalisayo angabhekwa Brune, Heroine noveli yi Strugatsky abazalwane "Ihhotela" Dead Mountaineer ", okuyinto uchazwa ngokuthi 'ingane mzalwane oshonile du Barnstokra". Ukuziphatha futhi ukubukeka Brune akunakwenzeka ukuba anqume ukuthi yikuphi, eqinisweni, ubulili uyisidalwa, ngakho Neu akuloba okungenabulili, kuze kwaba sobala ukuthi lo ngempela intombazane.

Ubulili okususelwe ebulilini

Ngokuphambene nalokho okukholelwa yiningi, umqondo ubunikazi bobulili aluyona ngenxa ubulili. Ngamanye amazwi, umuntu njengabesifazane ukubukeka ngempela ngesihluku awukona ngempela yobungqingili, futhi obufushane bodybuilders e sifihle lesbian akabonisi ukuthambekela okungalungile.

Umqondo yobulili ngokuyinhloko ngenxa yokuziphatha futhi indima yomphakathi, ngokungaqondile kuphela esekelwe nezocansi. Ngakho, imizamo yokuvimbela "okungalungile ubulili" ingcindezi indlela okubonakalayo ingxenye lobulili engalethi noma yimuphi umphumela. Akufanele sikuthathe kalula ukuthi kungenzeka umphumela elihlangene izici zangaphandle on ukuthuthukisa nezocansi. Sexologists zithi ukuma we acacisa kancane kancane, umuntu ngamunye egcina ngendlela eyingqayizivele kumiswa umuntu, kuhlanganise izintandokazi obuseduze.

Ngobani bigendery futhi kobakhe

Bigender angabhekwa okuhlukile okukodwa the yokuwina ubulili toleratnosti ekhanda umuntu othile. Uma umuntu ethatha umsebenzi ezinye kwezenhlalo, ngaphandle edabula ekuhlaziyweni kwenkolelo engaguqukiyo, sithola umuntu sasivumela obunobunye futhi siyaludinga. Ngokumelene nobulili identity / ubunikazi kwezenhlalo e bigenderov uwina abheke ukuthi kungenzeka afundiswe isicelo yamakhono nokuthambekela. Umuntu uyakwazi ukuba nendima yabesifazane kwezenhlalo, ngaphandle Kulokhu yisisulu sezimo, naye unesifo sokuzizwa ngendlela indima yowesilisa. Kuleli zwe lanamuhla, kwenkululeko ubulili eziningana kusulwe emabhukwinitifundvo "ukuzingela mammoth" maqembu abaningi ngokwengeziwe umsebenzi ngokomzimba emshikashikeni engokwengqondo Umholi onekhono iba umnikazi kwemisipha testosterone ngokweqile, njengoba umuntu ngezinga eliphezulu of intelligence. Ngokocansi identity kule ndaba asihlobene.

Omunye umbuzo uwukuthi, uma kukhona kobakhe - kuyinto ukungafani begazi nobulili self-bezibona. Lapho ecabanga nje, kungashiwo wabiza amadoda kobakhe abakhetha nendima yabesifazane yezenhlalakahle, kufaka ezinye izimfanelo ezibukwayo. Uma azizwa ngayo ngempela like owesifazane 'ithambo ", futhi umzimba wenyama ayihambisani lokuzibusa ke sikhuluma transsexuality. Ngamagama ubulili, lena akuyona indoda. Indoda ecabanga njengomuntu wesifazane azizwa futhi ubona izwe futhi yena kuphela izinto isifazane. ubulili Ukungafani begazi kunconywa ukulungisa by transitioning. Nokho, akubona bonke abantu ukushintsha ubulili begazi, okungukuthi kobakhe uzizwe. Lena isimo kunalokho kudida izinqumo lapho abaningi kangako.

Ngokobulili dysphoria kulethe ubulili

Uma kumiswa ubunikazi bobulili kwaba ukungafani imingcele yezinto eziphilayo, ibizwa ngokuthi dysphoria ubulili. Lo mqondo kuhlanganisa wonke ngokuphathelene nezobulili disorder, lokhu ku International Ukwahlukanisa Diseases, cishe ngo-2018 (i-ICD 11) babesuke kwesigaba zengqondo esigabeni kwezocansi. Lesi simo kungaba olukha phezulu futhi ijulile, kuye ngezinga of nokwenqatshwa ucansi yabo yemvelo.

Izazi zezokuhlalisana kwabantu futhi sexologists bathi babhebhethekise okuncane ubulili dysphoria may ngokobulili, ikakhulu uma bengakaze behlelwe siwela phezu kwanoma iyiphi ingane noma osemusha. Ngokwesibonelo, machismo, njengoba ifomu ezinkulu futhi nolaka onobuhle wesilisa kungaba abonise misogyny nezisobala - ezizungeze ukusakaza umbono wokuthi yonke into ehambisana abesifazane, ayiphelele. Ashamed ungowesifazane futhi ungowesifazane - nakakhulu. izitatimende nangokobulili kungaholela ingane neketango esinengqondo: "Angifuni ukuba into odelelekile, ungumuntu kahle, namahloni ungowesifazane." Isimiso esifanayo usebenza reverse: uma endaweni ubuswa umfana characterizations wokwedelela zabantu, yena ngokungazi isiqala ukufisa babebomuntu "nelungelo" isigaba lwesintu. ubulili eziphilayo iyaluvimba, ukuthuthukisa ubunikazi bobulili sifo.

Ngokuphambene izibhelu nabalandela uyisibonelo yendabuko emphakathini wezinzalamizi, ukubekezelelana ubulili aliholeli isiphithiphithi ukulahlekelwa sezakhiwo ezenhlalo nezamasiko. Kunalokho, ukungabikho ngokobulili ezinkulu futhi ubudlova kunciphisa amaphaphu emphakathini, kunciphisa amathuba dysphoria futhi ikhuthaza ukukhula komuntu ngamunye.