Constructive, acute, elimazayo - kumayelana? Yiqiniso, izingxabano!

Bemanga nokudelela, ekuthotshisweni futhi intukuthelo, ukukhungatheka nentukuthelo - mizwelo elimazayo zikhona izimo ingxabano. Ukuziphatha ngesikhathi Ukungqubuzana imicabango yabantu nezenzo zombili - ukunyundela, inhlamba isandla ukuqhakaza, ukunganakwa, intukuthelo - umphumela le ngxabano kuncike.

Izizathu umehluko

Umbango - ukungqubuzana elimazayo. inkhulumomphendvulwano Constructive singenzeka kuphela ngesikhathi evamile ukuxhumana nomphakathi. Umfutho ngxabano ingavuthi izisusa ehluke kakhulu futhi izizathu:

• kwezomnotho;
• Inani;
• kazwelonke-yobuhlanga;
• inqubomgomo;
• yenkolo;
• ubuntu;
• abanye.

Omunye party yabo uhlushwa izenzo engenabulungisa - ke uyinto. Olunye uhlangothi - isihloko - owenza izinto ezibangela isimo ingxabano. Ngokuvamile, imbangela ukungqubuzana isihloko owenza izenzo ezahlukene maqondana "nokuhlupheka" okungapheli side, ekhishwe ekuphenduleni impendulo okungalungile.

Izinhlobo umehluko futhi izingxabano

Odokotela bengqondo ahlukanise phakathi ezimbili izinhlobo izingxabano:

• ezakhayo;
• ukungqubuzana elimazayo.

Indlelanchubo ezakhayo njalo ukuthola indlela yokuphuma ezokwenza ukwanelisa zombili. Ngenxa indlela yokudala ekuxazululeni inkinga yokuthuthukisa ekuqondisisaneni kanye nobuhlobo obuhle nabanye phakathi kwabantu.

Okulimazayo - ke wukuphambana ukuthi aliholeli ikhambi inkinga yokuqala. Ukungakwazi futhi zokungazimiseli ukulalela abaphikisi, ahlaziye amaphuzu akhe, ukufakwa nesimo - konke lokhu kuholela ekubhujisweni zobuhlobo.

Isici nobuntu isiko post-Soviet kuyinto umkhuba wokushaya "ulahla" Ukunganeliseki zabo ezizungeze ngokushesha. Ukuvela "ukungqubuzana uchungechunge" ungaqala ekuseni kwezokuthutha noma emgwaqeni, bayaqhubeka besebenza bese zigcina ekhaya. Minor quibbles, ingezwa ukumemeza komshayeli nokumangalelwa kuholele ukusabela ezifanele: abantu abaseduze uzizwe engajabule sezinzwa. Omunye isimo esibuhlungu asegelezela neminye imizwelo "qhumisa" like mlilo, ukudabuka of ubudlelwano akunakugwenywa ... futhi kwadingeka nje ukuhambisa kude ezimbi hhayi hudula "udoti" nathi.

Kungani izingxabano ngezinye izikhathi ewusizo

Yengxabano kunoma iyiphi iqembu, ekhaya noma emsebenzini lembula kuwukuphikisana futhi ukungqubuzana zangaphandle, uphuphuma izinto, futhi ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka, ulwazi oluyimfihlo. Nazi izimo ezimbalwa lapho lokhu kungenzeka:

• imfundo noma umholi ukuphila nakho ithimba ngaphansana abasebenzi;
• ezingeni kwezobuhlakani iqembu siyahluka kakhulu;
• zokungazi indlela yokuxhumana ibhizinisi;
• ukufakwa ku ukuphikiswa yangasese;
• isifiso sokuba izindlela amandla zokuxhumana;
• imigomo mismatching.

izinqubo Okulimazayo akulethi injabulo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ewusizo: esimweni ukungqubuzana phezu kuwukuphikisana yangaphakathi eqenjini bhukuda, ukungezwani kufihlwe nokunganeliseki. Uma ukusebenzisa amasu yokuxhumana ibhizinisi, noma iyiphi elimazayo ubuhlobo isimo ingxabano lapha lingase lihunyushwe ngazo engxoxweni eyakhayo. Umbango elimazayo - kuwumshikashika for amandla, kuba intukuthelo, ukulahlekelwa ubuso, ukucindezeleka, ukungabi izixazululo inkinga.

izingxabano Mayelana ezakhayo

Iwusizo nokuphikiswa nabaphikisi isikhundla acaciswa ngawo Yiqiniso kwengxoxo, kunokuba emzabalazweni kanye ukumelana. Abantu baya bazi agumenti yabo ngesikhathi ukuchaza abalingani babo. Azikho wokumemeza, recriminations nokululazeka mutual. Njengoba ingxenye enkulu yomsebenzi ukunakwa kubahlanganyeli ngxabano kuhloswe ngazo ukuthi kutholakale izindlela zokuxazulula inkinga, kunokuba nokucindezela abaphikisi ngabanye. Ukubhekana nezimbangela eziyisisekelo zezimpi phakathi kubahlanganyeli izibhelu kwemibono ukwakha evamile, isikhundla zawo ezilinganiselwe komunye nomunye kwashintsha.

Izimbangela zokungezwani kubantu besilisa nakubantu besifazane awafani. Ukuze abesifazane kubalulekile ukwanelisa izidingo zomuntu siqu, ezifana iholo, izinzuzo, amabhonasi kanye iholide. Ithimba emkhathini ezicindezelayo noma nomthwalo okusezingeni eliphezulu omele "qhumisa" wobulili buthaka kuqala, kodwa ngokushesha futhi kulula ukuba kwehle uvalo.

Engxenyeni besilisa inenani ngawo isimo, ukuhambisana amalungelo zabasebenzi kanye nemisebenzi, khona uhlobo oluthile kwakuwukuthi. Endabeni ngokweqile futhi nokwephulwa kwamalungelo, amadoda hoard eside igqubu, hhayi ashaya kube iqembu.

Indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo ibhizinisi ezakhayo

Ukusebenzisa imithetho ethile nezindlela zokuxhumana ibhizinisi, amalungu eqembu uxhumana njengoba umzimba owodwa. Esikhathini esidlule eshiya Ukungqubuzana ukubukwa futhi ukushayisana ezifana elimazayo - indlela "ithangi", indlela impi, aqothule ezingqondweni umndeni futhi ibhizinisi. Ukuze ngokuthula ukuthola isisombululo elikhiqizayo ukuthi zombili kufanele uqhubeke ngendlela elandelayo:

• nixoxe ngale ndaba, hhayi izici ngamunye ubuntu kuphela;
• khumbula ukuthi abalingani nomunye akuzona kwesitha;
• sibambekile ukubonakaliswa intukuthelo, nokufutheka ngokuphahluka, izifiso ngiphindisele jezisa;
• izindlela ukulawula amandla ungenza umonakalo;
• sivikele iphuzu zabo umbono, kubalulekile ukuba acabangele timfuno abaphikisi;
• ukuxhumana kufanele sokuba nobungane futhi ube evulekile;
• izimbangi kudingeka Tune kuya ukuqonda nokubambisana.

Strictly kulandela imithetho nokunamathela nohlaka zokuxhumana ibhizinisi, ungahlala ukuthola indlela ukuphuma isimo. Uma omunye amaqembu aphikisayo wabhodloza ethuneni, yonke le nqubo angaya ingalawuleki futhi abe elimazayo. Ngeke uzuze yimiphi amaqembu, futhi aliziphikisi ungakwazi kuphela izoba namandla.