Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Operation "ukuhlelwa kabusha": kanjani ukushintsha wena?
Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu ngakho ukhathele isigqi noma izinga lokuphila kwakhe, uqala ufuna ukushintsha konke okukuwo. A olukha phezulu yokusondela inkinga, konke kuhlale ezindaweni ezifanayo, nokuthuthukisa imizamo Imiphumela ingekho. Yona kanye ukuphila ukushintsha nzima. Nge lendlela inkinga, umuntu uzobhekana enye inkinga, futhi umbuzo olandelayo kuyoba: "kanjani ukushintsha izwe emhlabeni?". Ngokusobala, lokhu ngeke kwenziwe.
Yinye kuphela indlela eholela umuntu kuso uzoya ushintsho qualitative zokuphila. Litjho umbuzo onjalo: kanjani ukushintsha wena?
Umbuzo enzima kunazo: kungani?
Came ukushintsha, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi yini abakudingayo. Ngaphandle ngendlela enengqondo, akunankinga ayikwazi ixazululwe at 100%. Ngakho, wena kufanele uzibuze: kungani ngidinga ushintsho? Kungase okwengeziwe ilandelwe ukudluliselwa imikhuba emibi, kumemori iflothi emkhuza ukuthi uye wathola kwabanye abantu, noma mhlawumbe ukhumbula izimo lapho ulahlekelwe okuthile ngenxa yezimfanelo zabo siqu.
Ukunganeliseki - hhayi kuphela umthombo izakhiwo, kodwa futhi indlela yokuxazulula le nkinga. Ukwesaba ukuphinda amaphutha ngeke akunike emuva kusimo sangaphambilini, futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuyoba isisekelo izinguquko qualitative. Khumbula ukuhluleka wakho ukuba uqaphele sikufisela inhlanhla esigabeni esilandelayo zokuphila.
ukubonakaliswa intando
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ukushintsha ngokwabo zibe ngcono, bese uku cishe kakade ujwayelene yokuthi lokhu "isiyalo". Akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwemvume yalowo muntu ebonisa ukwenza isenzo.
Hhayi okuzibamba - ke kusho ukuthi bakwazi ukulungisa uqobo. Lena osemqoka kakhulu kabusha ubuntu, ngoba, bengazamukeliswanga bahlakulele isifiso ukuba nethemba ushintsho lutho ngaphandle kwalokhu nezimfanelo ukushintsha ngokwakho - nje iphupho.
Ukuthuthukisa intando, ungazama okulandelayo:
- Dala bona imithetho embalwa nsuku zonke (ukuyolala ngesikhathi esithile ukulala, ukuba asebenze isikhathi esengeziwe ukwenza umzimba). Yiziphi imithetho - akunandaba, uma nje ngokuvumelana umnqamulajuqu.
- Ukuze sifinyelele into: kumele kube target kufinyeleleke, kodwa kudinga bachitha amandla.
Uma umkhuba izindlela ezinjalo ngeke ke ukushintsha ngokwalo kuyoba lula kakhulu.
Ukususa imikhuba
Into efika kuqala engqondweni yakho lapho ucabanga mayelana nendlela ukushintsha - imikhuba. Sidinga ukuqeda cishe yonke imikhuba except for labo abehlela esivuna yakho. Ngokwesibonelo, kungani uhambe ngendlela efanayo nsuku zonke? Shintsha izindlela zakho, imizila, nabantu Cabanga nsuku zonke. Nqaba zonke unlockable abadala nabasha.
Nalokhu remade uqobo kwenye imodeli yokuziphatha, okuzokwenza dlulelani esinyathelweni esilandelayo.
Ukushintsha imigomo
Uma une eyodwa umgomo omkhulu empilweni - ukuyishintsha noma kancane Lungisa. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuba sijwayele izimo ezintsha (izindlela ukufinyelela imigomo abadala nabasha kuzohluka), futhi kusho ukuthi ubuwena uzophinde kushintshwe.
Ukushintsha emhlabeni
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuvuselelwa ungubani ithinta wonke umhlaba. Uma usuqede zonke amaphuzu ngaphezulu, bese, ukulungele ukuze ufunde ukuthi ukushintsha ngokwabo ngokusebenzisa ezishintshayo emhlabeni.
Ukuze wenze lokhu revolution, sidinga i-umfutho kwangaphandle: injabulo enkulu noma usizi. Thanda umuntu: a, into eyinhloko elilodwa noma cha - ukuthi umuzwa Kwakuwukudabuka kwangempela futhi eqinile.
Ungakhetha wena lokho ukuba babe: ungumuntu othanda izinto ezibonakalayo, romantic, i idealist, indoda bayithanda kakhulu inkolo, nginqume ngokoqobo, isazi sefilosofi noma Obheka izinto njengoba zinjalo. Kuningi okungenziwa ngazo ungakwazi "sculpt 'uphawu lwakhe.
Ukubalekela wena
Indlela ukushintsha ngaphandle kokushintsha ngokwakho? Lo mbuzo ekupheleni isihloko akuyona ngephutha. Lose ngokwakho - induku yakho ubuntu - lula. Futhi lena nobunzima lomcoka ukuvuselelwa ngabanye. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ngaphambi sifinyelele izinguquko ufuna ukhethe okukodwa endaweni yomuntu (maqondana omunye umuntu, isifiso okuthile), okuyinto ngeke lishintshe futhi izohlala linje phakade.
Ngakho, siye ohlwini izindlela eyinhloko kabusha ukuphila kwakhe. Noma kunjalo, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi impendulo engcono umbuzo "kanjani ukushintsha ngokwabo?" Ukucasha wena.
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