Self ukususwa umonakalo kungenzeka?

Ingabe ikhona umonakalo? Namuhla, kuyinto umqondo ezingaqondakali, ososayensi bayaqaphela ukuthi ngisho bengqondo. Inkohlakalo - okungukuthi, ngokuya Izanusi nabathakathi, nomthelela ongemuhle umuntu usebenzisa izindlela imilingo. Ososayensi futhi baqonde leli gama kokulimaza imithelela ukwaziswa okungekuhle. Kazi umonakalo kungaba "ukubuyisela" akuyona kuphela ukhishwa inyumbazane. izizindlo ezimbi, ukuzenyeza kokulutheka futhi yokuzingabaza ziyakwazi impela 'bonakalise "u-Adamu ukuphila kwakhe. Indlela ukusindisa ukuthula kwakho kwengqondo? Ingabe kufanele ngingene ukususa umonakalo ukuxhumana abelaphi noma esinikezwa? Lutho neze. Self ukususwa umonakalo kungenzeka, ngisho noma kunguwena wedwa engakholwayo, kodwa ungaweli ithonya yomunye. Ngibapha ongakhetha eziningana ngalesi senzo. Omunye wabo kuyinto ekahle labo abakholelwa kuNkulunkulu. Enye abantu abakholelwa ngokwabo futhi ungayazi namathonya ezingaqondakali.

Self ukususwa umonakalo

Kuthiwa izenzo ezimbi prying amehlo sichayeka njalo. Inkohlakalo kungenziwa esibangelwa ithuba: ngamafuphi, loko lokushiwo nakwetfulwa ezinhliziyweni zabo, nomona injabulo yabanye. Ngezinye izikhathi izenzo ezinjalo zenziwa ngenhloso. Ngaphambi siphendukela abathakathi odokotela, kudingeka uzame self-ukususwa umonakalo. Okungcono nakakhulu, yenza "zokuvimbela" unomphela, okungukuthi liziphathe ukuze neso elibi ayikwazanga balimaze. Uma ukholwa kuNkulunkulu, khona-ke ukususwa umonakalo futhi neso elibi bebodwa ngawe kwasekuqaleni uvakashelwa njalo ethempelini. Kunconywa ukuyovuma izono okungenani kanye emasontweni amabili, ukudla ngoLwezithathu nangoLwezihlanu, ukuze bagcine ngamaholide enkolo. Uma wazizwa umphumela neso elibi, thatha umshanelo, ufafaza it ne iziwasho bese umaka embundwini udoti zanqwabelana. Ungakwazi ufafaze amanzi angcwele ku efulethini, ugeze, bese esula umphetho ubuso abangaphansi. Ungakwazi fumigate egumbini futhi embhedeni impepho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi lezi zinyathelo abanamandla, ozama ukuwufeza ukususwa umonakalo iqanda yabo. Thatha iqanda abavamile, kahle uhlale zibheke enyakatho bese uqale egeleza ukunyakaza "ukhiphe" neso elibi, ufunda umthandazo odumile noma imilolozelo. Isenzo ngokuvamile okuthatha cishe ikota yebahlali ihora. Kodwa mages kanye nezinyanga baxwayisa ngokuthi nge iqanda elilodwa ukususa umonakalo bengayi ngisho nakwesisodwa isanusi enamandla. Self ukususwa umonakalo - kungcono nje isiphakamiso, okuyinto ku sihlolisisa kuvela ukuthi abelaphi noma umsebenzi engalungile noma engaphelele. Ngakho-ke, uma uqiniseka ukuthi une umonakalo, ungenzi amateur bese uya umthandazi.

Futhi kuthiwani ngalabo abangakholelwa?

Kukhona indlela enhle kakhulu ukuqeda engemihle. Okokuqala, wena ukuxosha zonke ezimbi. Ngaso sonke isikhathi khumbula izwi "abakwazi", "Angikungabazi lokho," "ngeke isebenze" kanye nezinye ethwele isetshenziswe ngomqondo ongathandeki. Yamukela wena ungubani. Gwema zokudumazeka basebenze kanzima ngokwakho. Psychiatrists abaphambili baye bazibonakalisa ukuthi uma ikhanda lomuntu kuhlala imicabango eyakhayo yokudala, ukwaziswa okungekuhle alithintwa ke neso elibi futhi spoilage asesabi umuntu onjalo.