Ekuqaleni kokuphila kwengane, ubuthongo bakhe buhlala cishe amahora angu-16 ngosuku. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi uzohlala engenzi lutho ngaso leso sikhathi. Ukulala kwezingane kule nkathi akukona isikhathi eside kakhulu, ngokwesilinganiso, kuhlala cishe amahora amathathu. I-karapuz ayinjengokulala njengomuntu omdala. Mhlawumbe-ke, omama abaningi abasha bayakhathazeka kakhulu ngokuthi kungani izingane zingalali kahle ebusuku. Ake sibone izizathu ezingenzeka. Futhi sizozama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukwenza ukulala kwamaphuphu akho kukhululeke kakhulu.
Okokuqala, ingane eneminyaka eyisikhombisa ayilali kahle ebusuku ngenxa yokuqala kokulamba, okuyinto engokwemvelo. Isizathu singase sibe yiqiniso lokuthi abazali abasha banesimo sengqondo esibi sokuthi bahlanganyela nabo embhedeni womshado, ngakho bazama ukubeka eceleni. Abaningi baye bazwa ukuthi iphunga lomama nobisi lwebele, elijwayele kusukela ezikhathini zokuqala zokuphila, lisebenza ngokuqhamuka. Kodwa akudingekile ukuthi umbeke embhedeni womzali, ungamane uhambise isitela kuye, futhi omncane ojabule uyobe ekubonga kuphela.
Kodwa kunezinye izizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani izingane zingalali kahle ebusuku. Ingane ingahle ihlukunyezwe yizinyosi kanye ne-colic emzimbeni. Zama ukuya embhedeni ngaphambi kokuya e-massage ekukhanyeni, ukuvocavoca okukhethekile. Ibhuku lokushisa lizoletha nomphumela omuhle. Ungakhohlwa ukuqapha ukudla kwakho, ngoba ezinye izitsha nokudla okwenziwa nguMama, kungabangela ukunganaki kwengane.
Ngezinye izikhathi isizathu esincane kakhulu sokuthi kungani izingane zingalali kahle ebusuku zingaba izindiza ezingakhethi kahle - zingase zicasule. Kungase kube khona ukudonsa emzimbeni wezinhlanzi, ngenxa yokuthi kushisa kakhulu egumbini lapho litholakala khona. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukushisa okwamukelekile kakhulu ukulala okuthule kungaba yizigaba ezingamashumi amabili nambili. Ukuvuselela njalo igumbi nakho kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukisweni kwengane.
Ezinye izingane zingase zidideke usuku nobusuku, ngoba nje abanayo isimiso somsebenzi sosuku. Lokhu, futhi, kungaba isizathu esenza izingane zingalali kahle ebusuku. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka nangenxa yokuthi ingane emini yayingaphephile futhi ingadli amandla. Zama ukuba nesikhathi esanele sokuhamba emoyeni omusha, ikakhulukazi kuyasiza ngaphambi kokulala.
Kukhona namacala lapho ingane ingalali kahle ebusuku, ijika. Lokhu kungaba umphumela wokwenza izinto. Mhlawumbe ungabheka umntanakho ehlezi ebuthongweni bakhe, mhlawumbe ngalesosikhathi wabona into enhle kakhulu. Futhi uma kuyesabeka, ngokuzenzakalelayo uzama ukufihla. Kodwa akuyona nje imibukiso ebusayo eyenza isimo esinjalo esibuhlungu. Izingane ekuqaleni kokuphila kwazo zithinta kakhulu isimo sengqondo somama, ngakho-ke uma kwenzeka abazali abasha behlambalazwa, kukhonjiswa kabi. Futhi, yiqiniso, ungakhohlwa izingubo ezikhululekile ezingeke zithinte ukunyakaza kwengane yakho ngesikhathi sokulala, okubaluleke kakhulu.