Komphakathi lomuntu: izigaba zokuphila

Ngaphansi inqubo komphakathi bengqondo ubuntu ukuqonda nokwenziwa nokuqonda zokuphila kwabantu kwezenhlalo, ukuziphatha ezivamile, imithetho yokuziphatha, kwamasiko nendlela yasekhaya. Kulokhu, ngamunye wenza yakhe umphefumulo ehlola, nokwamukela noma ukwenqaba sipho ezithile noma abeke nemithetho yomphakathi. Kuyinto enqubeni yalesi Ukukhetha yinqubo kwetinhlavu kanye self-ungubani.

Yabo "indawo ilanga" Umuntu obuka kusukela ekuzalweni, wedlula inqubo eyinhloko okuzivumelanisa kwezenhlalo, kuqala emndenini wakubo, bese ekunakekelweni kwengane nesikole.

Esigabeni sokuqala libhekene kunesimo sengqondo uncritical yomuntu ukuba amazinga ajwayelekile. Izingane kanye intsha eyinqaba ngokwengeziwe ekulingiseni iqembu, ukuzivumelanisa. Uma iminyaka yobudala ingane enkulisa kuthatha imodeli nesimilo nomndeni wakho, esikoleni samabanga aphansi abantwana kakade begxile kakhulu iqembu. Ivame ukuba azihlukanise ontanga yabo ngokubonakala yabo. A lokuma kuye abangane bakhe, ofunda nabo. Kusukela kubo ingane usebenzisa imikhuba, isitayela yokugqoka, ngisho ukuzilibazisa izithakazelo.

Lapho sengineminyaka engu-eziyisikhombisa umntwana uqala ukubona ukuthi abazali bakhe ungeyena oyisibonelo kuphela. Futhi iminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye nabo bonke abafundi bathola ukubukeka elalibaluleke izinto. Omama kanye obaba Akasekho ngabo igunya okunjalo. Nokho, inhlonipho ngalokho okwenzeka kumuntu omdala ingane isesekhona, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi eduze kwayo, ekugcineni kwahlaluka ukuthi uthisha ophumelelayo noma umqeqeshi.

On engqondweni yengane bathonywe izinto ezihlukahlukene zangaphandle. Kuyinto abezindaba (umsakazo, i-TV, i-inthanethi), abazali nothisha. Kodwa komphakathi kuthomba kakhulu ukukholelwa ngaphandle ekukhulumisaneni nontanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nezintombi kanye nabangane, esikhathini esithile ekuphileni komntwana ezihilelekile baningi ngisho nangaphezu kwezinwele umama nobaba. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abazali kufanele bavikele ngentshiseko intombazane ukukhulumisana okunjalo, bawasebenzisa ukugxambukela ekuphileni kwakhe siqu.
Lokhu ukuziphatha kuvimbela ekukhuleni kwengane omdala sika ukuzinyeza, ukwakheka kuwo wemfanelo ukuziphatha kwabo siqu nezenzo.

Komphakathi lomuntu - ukuthola indawo yabo emphakathini, ngoba umfundi indima umphakathi zinjalo ofunda nabo, abazali, othisha. Kungenxa inqubo ukuxhumana nengane yabo hones amakhono abalulekile yokuxhumana, ukwamukela kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha kanye namasiko. Kulesi sigaba kunzima ukwenza ngaphandle ingxabano, kodwa ukufuna amakhambi ngempumelelo sizozinqoba has a elikhulu kumiswa yonke umuntu.

Esikhathini esizayo, i-komphakathi yomuntu sihamba esiteji individualization, esibonakala by isifiso somuntu abe yehlukile kulaba abanye, ukugqama esixukwini. Phakathi nale nkathi, osemusha usuvele unayo ezinye nakho kokuphila, ngesisekelo lapho overestimate zokuziphatha ezibucayi - kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha bamukeleke umphakathi. Ngokusho odokotela bengqondo, kuba kweminyaka emibili nengu-18 kuya ku-25 kukhona ukuthuthukiswa esitebeleni zobuntu, ukwakheka kwezimiso nesimo sengqondo.

Komphakathi lomuntu kuphumelela uma abantu inqubo nokuxhumana elikhiqizayo nomphakathi, kuyilapho kulondolozwa ehlukile yayo siqu.

individualization isesikhathini sezinguquko kuya esigabeni ukuhlanganiswa, lapho umuntu efuna ukuthatha indawo yayo emphakathini, okuyinto noma amukela bhunkula it. Kulo mBhalo, kukhona ezimbili ezahlukeneyo yokuziphatha: muntu azigcina Otherness yayo, engena ezindlini ngezindlu ezingqubuzana umphakathi, noma, kunalokho, ezama ukusabela nalobo ukuyekethisa kanye nokufuna ukuhambisana nesikhathi.

Singasho ukuthi komphakathi yomuntu - kuyinqubo ukuthi siyinguganaboya. Le ndoda akazange nje athole yinto entsha, kodwa futhi kwakucebisa enqubeni umsebenzi kanye nemisebenzi sezenhlalo. Esimweni lapho izimfanelo siqu futhi ezingaba okudala ummeleli ngamunye yafuna ngokuphelele emphakathini, singasho ukuthi komphakathi yomuntu siphumelele.