Kanjani ukuthuthukisa inkulumo kwengane. Amathiphu abazali abasha

Injabulo enkulu ekukhuleni kwengane zonke umzali uyazicabangela okwamanje lapho umntwana uqala ukukhuluma. Yiqiniso, zonke iqala imisindo elula amaqoqo ezinhlamvu. Lokhu kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ingane endleleni inkositini inkulumo. Le nqubo kakhulu isikhathi esiningi futhi kudinga imizamo hhayi kuphela wengane kodwa futhi nabazali - ngoba udinga omningi Emizamweni yakhe yokuqhwaga isithakazelo ingane ukuba inkulumo. Kukhona izimiso ezimbalwa ezilula, indlela ukuthuthukisa ke kule ngane.

Umthetho wokuqala: akufanele neze ukuqagela imicabango ingane. isimo ngasinye kwenzeka: encane yobudala kusukela unyaka nesigamu kuya eminyakeni emibili ibonisa, isibonelo, kwi cat futhi uthi, "Kisya". ngokushesha umama ucosha umqondo wengane, futhi uqala ukulandisa ukuthi: "Yebo, kungcono ikati. Nanguya enhle kakhulu. Uyabona, ehamba uhambo. " Umama wathi konke ngoba lembuzi, kungani namanje into ukwengeza? Njengoba uke wazibuza lo mbuzo, indlela ukuthuthukisa kuyo ingane ke, okokuqala kunakho konke, hhayi ukuqagela imicabango yakhe. Kungcono ukubuza yakho imibuzo ingane bese ulinda impendulo, ngisho uma wazi kusengaphambili ukuthi uyosabela.

umthetho wesibili: Gcina uxoxa nengane yakho. Yebo, kuba-ke umntwana, singagcini nje ngokumlingisa ngesikushoyo khona kuye nomunye umuntu. Ukufunda izindaba izingane, ume ucele ukuthi, ngokombono wakhe, kutsi kutakwentekani, ukuthi iqhawe we indaba uzophendula. Ungacabangi ukuthi uma ingane ithule ithe cwaka, bese akanalutho ukusho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi wayedinga isikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho okufundayo, kanjalo cha sukela ukuwuphendula, ulindele. Inkinga ebaluleke kakhulu indlela ukuthuthukisa kuyo ingane, kuba ukuze sikhuthaze ukuba inkulumo. Buza imibuzo eminingi. Lezi zingane eminyakeni 2 - lokhu wacabanga ngokuzwakalayo.

Umthetho wesithathu: kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukukhuluma sipho kwesokudla. Kufanele ibe indlela obuphelele ngezindaba umbuzo kanjani ukuthuthukisa kuyo ingane iminyaka engu-2 ubudala ngendlela efanele. ingane eba amazwi lokuqala elula ke imishwana bese idluliselwe isiphakamiso. Futhi nangu umsebenzi abazali - ukusiza ingane yakho ifunde ukuba nekhono lokukhuluma eligcwele. Mbuze ehola imibuzo, umcele ukukutshela ngendaba itholakala endleleni yakho sishaywe, izilwane, izinyoni.

Umthetho wesine: ujuluke njalo ebusuku nengane yakho ngalolo suku futhi. Ngaphambi kokulala , ukhulume nabo mayelana lokho enikubonile, mhlalokho. Mbuze ukuthi yini ayefuna ukukwenza kusasa, ukwakha izinhlelo ndawonye. Uma wena ube nosuku ndawonye, bese ukuvumela ingane ukukutshela lokho ayekwenza futhi nobani, yini entsha, wabona futhi wafunda. Kulezi zikhathi, izinyane is hhayi kuphela ezikhulayo, kodwa futhi bafunde ukulalela abanye. Izingxoxo ezinjalo zisiza kakhulu kubazali zikhule kahle inkulumo ezinganeni ezineminyaka engu-2 futhi babafundise ukucabanga ngokunengqondo futhi kancane kancane.

Umthetho wesihlanu: Buza ingane yakho ukuchaza into ngayinye. Nakani ke zonke izinto elikhanyayo, umtshele ukuthi ubona ndawonye. Ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho ubona isihlahla esisha, ifu noma isilwane esifuywayo, cela ingane yena ukuchaza ngamazwi akho. Ungaphinde ucele kuye kutakhela indzaba ezihambisana nalokho ayekubonile. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuba ungagcini nje ukuphendula umbuzo kanjani ukuthuthukisa kuyo ingane, kodwa futhi umbuzo kanjani ukuthuthukisa emcabangweni wakhe.

Umthetho wesithupha: kuyinto yokugcina futhi ebaluleke kakhulu kuyi-indlela ukuthuthukisa kuyo ingane iminyaka engu-2 - njalo ukukhuluma ngendlela efanele. Akubalulekile ukuba ukufefeza nengane, baphendukezele amazwi ngendlela yalo. Musa ukuphinda amagama angafanele kukhulunywa izinyane, njalo ilungisa kuye futhi utshela inguqulo yohlelo, kungase kudingeke uphinde leli zwi elifanayo izikhathi 10 ilandelana, kodwa ingane uzokhumbula kahle. Ungakhohlwa, kulonyaka umntwana - esibukweni yakho usuke elingisa ngokuphelele kuwe, njengoba wena uthi ukhona, futhi uzozama ukukhuluma encane yakho.

Sithemba ukuthi lezi ziphakamiso uzokusiza afundise ingane kunokuba zikhulumisane nje kuphela bese ukhuluma kahle, kucabanga lokuhlelekile kanye ukuthuthukisa umcabango wabo. Wena nje kufanele azame futhi senze umzamo.