Kanjani ukukhokha ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso nobe sinciphise ubukhulu babo?

Ngo isahlukaniso, ingane ngokuvamile uhlala nomama futhi nowayengunkosikazi oda enkantolo ukuze uthumele ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso bakhe - ingxenye ethile emholweni wakhe.

Kodwa ekuphileni zikhona izikhathi lapho ubaba nje abakwazi ngokwenyama akhokhe isamba icaciswe ukuze inkantolo. Kulokhu kungcono ukuxoxa nowayeshade-unkosikazi ngendlela enokuthula yokuchaza ngesimo futhi ucele ukuba lihlehle icala noma ukwehla usayizi izinkokhelo. Kodwa-ke ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi ubudlelwano phakathi abashadayo zangaphambili ngakho buhle ukuthi ukuqashelwa hamba akekho ohambayo. Khona-ke kufanele ufune nangezinye izindlela zokuxazulula indlela ukuze sigweme ukukhokha nesondlo.

Ngezinye izikhathi ingatholakala bobaba, okuyinto umane edabukisayo ukuthi ngikhiphe inkongozelo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokugcina, ucabangele ukuthi uqiniseka ngezinhloso zabo. Phela, udinga ukuba baqikelele ingane yabo. Futhi nje, ukuphambuka ezinjalo kuzovumela intuthu lapho zikhula, ukuyeka izinzuzo kokuqukethwe kwakho lapho sebegugile.

Uma sinawo isimo ukuthi umbuzo kanjani ukuze sigweme ukukhokha nesondlo, isixazululekile ngendlela enhle, khona-ke kukhona ezinye izindlela ngempela esisemthethweni ukugwema imali nyangazonke. Ezinye zazo kungukuthi ukuxazulula ngokuphelele inkinga yakho, kodwa kungasiza ukunciphisa wenkokhelo ehloniphekile.

Inketho yokuqala - kubonakala impendulo kulungile futhi kufaneleka kuphela umbuzo kanjani ukuze sigweme ukukhokha nesondlo. Uma impahla yakho kuyinto efulethini, endlini, izwe, ngokuvumelana nakho nemithetho yezwe lethu, unelungelo ukuze uthumele impahla ezinganeni futhi ecela ukuqedwa kwemali ekhokhiwe. Into eyinhloko ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuthengiselana okunjalo kufanele kwenziwe nge kwemvume sivikelwe, ukubhaliswa isimo nemizimba ummeli olungisa izivumelwano.

Samuntu yesibili kanje. Kuleso simo, uma ucabanga ukuthi kufanele udlulisele imali hhayi esetshenziselwe ukukhokhela ingane, ungaxhumana isitatimende sivikelwe ukuhlola ukusebenzisa kwabo ohlosiwe. Uma izibikezelo zakho kuqinisekisiwe, enkantolo, unelungelo ukuba zitshele nokwehlisa inani ukwesekwa noma ikhono ukudlulisa isizumbulu semali ukuze akhawunti ye ingane kunoma iyiphi ebhange lezwe lethu.

Ungase futhi zibophe kukamama kanye nengane ukwenza ngendlela akhuliswa ngayo siqu. Kodwa ngisho lapha, ungakhohlwa mayelana izithakazelo kanye nezidingo umuntu encane. Cabanga ukuthi lo mntwana uyoba nawe nje kanye nomama lokuzalwa.

Isizathu sokuba nokuncipha izinzuzo zingakhiqiza yokwemukela imfundo ephakeme.

Kuyi-Internet, obaba abangafuni ukukhokhela nesondlo, ngokuvamile belulekwa okulandelayo: kufanele noma uye ku ikhefu nanini kusukela umsebenzi oyinhloko, noma utawufika unofficially. Qaphela ukuthi lezi amathiphu ayilungile. Ngisho noma uthola isimo ezisemthethweni abangasebenzi, namanje kuyodingeka bakhokhe ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso. Kulokhu, lemali kulokhu ibalwa isihlobo usayizi we ubuncane ukudla.

Mhlawumbe amathiphu lokuphekiwe indlela ukuze sigweme ukukhokha nesondlo - kuphela elungile futhi okungangqubuzani nomthetho. Nokho, khumbula ukuthi uma ungenawo uhlu icala isikhathi eside (izinyanga ezingaphezu kweziyisithupha), noma bailiffs uzokwazi ukufakazela ukuthi anqikaze ngamabomu, ubhekene necala lobugebengu. Futhi izikweletu zanqwabelana ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso ngeke kusadingeka ukhokhe.