Kanjani ukubuyela othandekayo umthandazo? ugobe Ngempumelelo ukubuyela ethandekayo. Amathiphu, ku-

Ukwahlukana ngokwayo kubuhlungu. Futhi lapho okuvalelisa izinhliziyo kuze kube phakade ngothando, alukho usizi umkhawulo futhi bephelelwe ithemba. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi izwe mnyama, ukusa akasoze kukhanyisa umkhathizwe ukukhanya kwenjabulo. Ngaphandle ikhambi umbuzo kanjani ukubuyela othandekayo (imithandazo, isibonelo), ukuphila ngeke liqhubeke likhona. Izohlala ezineqhwa, ehlane ezingenathemba. Ingabe likhona ikhambi? Ake siphenye.

Ngingaba ubuyele uthando?

Ekusebenteni, abantu ngokuvamile bedidekile ngokuthi imiqondo. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngosizo izindlela ezikhethekile akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubuyela injabulo lulahlekile. Ngokwesibonelo, baxoxa kanjani ukubuyela kothandekayo umthandazo ukuthini lokho? Ukunikeza kanye nokugxilisa kuyo umuzwa? Phoqa kutsi bachubeke nebuhlobo? Mhlawumbe bonke ndawonye? Kubalulekile ngokuphelele ukuqonda ukuthi yini umgomo wakho. Ngenxa yokuthi ezinye yezinkonzo nemithandazo ukuphuma kuze kubuye izinzwa, sokuvuselelwa uthando, abanye - ukuyihlenga ubudlelwane. Kuphela esimweni sesibili, isisa nokwethembeka ungalindeli khona ngeke yini we sublime. Ngakho-ke, ukukhetha indlela ukubuyela othandekayo umthandazo, qiniseka zivule emphefumulweni wami, ukucacisa amaphuzu abalulekile ubuhlobo bakho esizayo. Ningangabazi, aniyikwenza okomkhiwane impumelelo. Akhe bambiso - inhloso yakho ezifihliwe futhi icacile. Uma ngokuphuthumayo ufuna ukubuyela uthando, kepha ngaphakathi ukungabaza, akwenzeki lutho.

Ukuthandaza ibuyise sithandwa

Kuvame. Lapha umuntu lanquma ukwenza okuthile ukubuyisela izinzwa. Mina weza ethempelini, futhi kungani kufanele senze, ubani ukuba uxhumane, awazi kulahleka, tushuetsya. Ucabangani, kuyoba ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe sekuqediwe? Amathemba ezimbalwa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngizitshela ukuthi ukubuyela othandekayo umthandazo, kubalulekile ukwazi yonke into kusengaphambili. Phela, ziningi Saints abakghona futhi bezimisele ukukusiza abasezimweni ezingezinhle. Lapha, ngokwesibonelo, umthandazo omncane, zazo zingafundwa ethempelini ekhaya, ngisho emsebenzini, noma ayeke. "Isichotho oNgcwele Matrona! Ukhokha umthandazo wakho! Uthando lwami, ngiyakuncenga ukuba ahlale, iRaba (igama) Buyani! Ngesibusiso SeNkosi ukubuza kimi! Ngikhulekela amazwi umphefumulo wakho! Nge kunikina eSt Matrona! Amen! "Basho Lo mbhalo elula ukufunda nokufunda kuye, njengoba nje ubuhlungu iqala ibhoboze umphefumulo.

Umkhuleko wocela umfazi ishiywe

Esimweni lapho phakathi kwabantu wayesondelene kakhulu, okuyinto kafushane libhekene igama elithi "umshado" kufanele sibhekiswe UnguNina KaNkulunkulu. Ukubuya lover umthandazo kungaba esimweni uma umbhangqwana eqamba Amandla Ephakeme. Ngezinye izikhathi thina ungacabangi mayelana nokuthi iyiphi inqubo okuvela ubudlelwane. Njengoba abantu abahlangana khona futhi ukuthandana? Kukhona ubudlelwano eziye predetermined kwaphezulu. Zibizwa ngokuthi "uthando olukhulu." Ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi ziklebhukile, ubhujiswe. Labo besifazane abaye kakade wakwazi ukwakha uhlobo (umntwana ekuqaleni), kunconywa ukubhekana eNkosini. Musa ngisho bacabange ukuthi abuyise umthandazo othandekayo. umgwaqo lakho esontweni amanga ngqo. Awunayo ukufunda noma iyiphi imibhalo ekhethekile. Lord futhi kanjalo uzozwa kanye nokuzwisisa. Yena alamukeli izwi, futhi ukuhamba komphefumulo. Kunconywe kuphela ukufunda uMthandazo WeNkosi. Kungenxa ngokwami bashune. Khona babeka inkinga ngamazwi azo ngaphambi kokuthi uphawu the Virgin. Thenga amakhandlela qiniseka olulodwa ukukhanya ekhaya, eqinisekisa salawo kwabo usizo.

Kanjani ukubuyela imithandazo yakhe ayithandayo

Esimweni nzima ngezinye izikhathi abe amadoda. Uma intombazane bungasekho, ayisekho efisa ukulondoloza ubuhlobo, kutuswa ukuba bagcizelele. Makungaphumi pobudet kancane kuphela bese ucabanga. Uthando lweqiniso esiyitholayo buqamama. Futhi okwamanje uya esigodlweni sezindela. Ukuze sithandaze ukubuya abafana abathanda ukuba lapho. Bheka isithonjana St. Panteleimon. Kathathu ukuza, yitshele usizi ayebhekene nalo, icala. Uyabona, kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuthobeka phambi kukaJehova. Isikhathi ozithandayo isiphepho, kwesokunxele, bazi ukuthi bahluleka yena indaba ukuthi wajabula futhi evikelekile. Ezikabani iphutha ingabe? Banesibopho. Funda "Baba wethu" ke amazwi ezivame kakhulu bathi okufunayo, cela iseluleko. Kuthiwa kuziwa endleleni esiyinqaba. Ezinye ngosuku olufanayo izindela amagama ambalwa Akhombisa ubuyisele intombazane, kungenjalo amaphupho engavamile zibonakala, nokunye.

Nomthandazo noma lelo cebo. Uyini umehluko?

Ngokwemvelo, umuntu ibhajwe yosizi lwayo, ephethe ngasiphi utshani, ngisho ebolile. Ngeshwa, iphutha le ndlela akunakugwenywa. Nokho-ke kumele aqondwe, ngisho nangemva kokuba Eqinisweni, umehluko phakathi umthandazo kulolo zungu. Iqiniso lokuthi isikhalazo eNkosini kusho kuye ngokuphelele. Lapha sinikeze ukhanda yakho ezandleni zakhe. Okunye okumelwe ukucabangele - uzungu. Ethula yakhe noma kokwenza isiko, nimane kokwakhe, kuzanywa ukuvula izenzakalo ngeke kusaba khona. Lena ubuhlakani ezibalulekile. Nakuba abantu bengeke akwazi ukubuyela uzungu othandekayo. Nothing enzeka ngaphandle ukubandakanywa emandleni aphakeme. Futhi kungenzeka babe namanye amapulani. Kodwa ukuphimisela igama elithi 'enyathi, wena inhlobo "ngesikhathi ebizela othile" ngentando yayo, futhi ungaceli usizo. Kodwa isinqumo usazothatha amabutho ukuthi sisho uNkulunkulu izwi.

iziza ezahlukene

Manje okuncane mayelana ohlangothini esisebenzayo mayelana nodaba. Iqiniso lokuthi wesakhiwo ngokwabo zihluke kakhulu, kwezinye izimo, okuphambene senzo. Ezinye ngokoqobo Brainwash umuntu, okuyinto baqondiswa, aphike nentando yakhe. Okunye ngobumnene guided isiqondiso esidingekayo, ngokuthinta thinnest kuzithinta umphefumulo. Lo mqeqeshi owake wapheka ngokuvamile ezihlobene iziza eqinile. , Ukubuyela Nokho lowo omthandayo, lowo ungakwazi futhi ibuthakathaka. Akufanele yini "hang" imigomo. Iphuzu liwukuthi alikho kubo. Amandla yimuphi ngesakhiwo unika ubumsulwa kanjani izinhloso zakho. Ukuze wenze okungcono kakhulu noma iyiphi enamandla, kuba ukuba zifunde leli qiniso silula.

Imithetho ukufinyelela injongo imilingo

Yilokho it is indlela Kunconywa ukucabanga. Uthanda ke nisangulukile into enhle, okufanelekelayo ukuba konke okuhle. Ufuna lokhu indoda ukuba ujabule. Kuphela lokhu kungenzeka ngaphandle kwakho iqhaza. Kwesokudla? Ngakho ngobuqotho ngobuqotho ufisa omthandayo nje ukuthi. Beka iyahola akuyona injabulo yakhe, futhi yakhe. Ukufunda ngesakhiwo, cabanga ngalokho into ngeke nje uthole okungcono kakhulu ekuphileni. Injabulo liyoba esigcwele futhi acebile. Wena uthi, "Kuthiwani ngami? Ngithola ukuthi? "Yilokho okushiwo indlela. Uma zonke izifiso zakho zihloselwe ukuba ngiphane ngakho, hhayi ukuze asuse "injabulo", into noma kunjalo, kuyothiwa wadonsa kuwe. Ngakho uthola i uzungu ngempumelelo. Ungabuyisa umuntu esimthandayo ngomusa, ngothando induduzo. Ngeshwa, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kungcono amandla (ngengqondo). Futhi ephuma "njalo" behluleka.

Izifundo

Abantu abanengi abangakholelwa ohlangabezane nazo ngazo zonke hlobo lothando magic, khuluma ngezinto ukusebenza cishe ngokuphelele lo mkhosi. Uzodinga amakhandlela ezimbili kusukela Temple (mawuthanda). Lapho inyanga ezikhulayo ukusonta kubo nomunye futhi ukukhanya. Nakuba bayoba bakhazimula wayetekula nomunye ngezilimi ashisayo, funda amagama alandelayo: "iisus hristos wafika lapha emhlabeni evela ezulwini izingalo engu- ngokuyisimangaliso. Waphulukisa abagulayo, abampofu wasiza inkazimulo abaswele bazakha. Nkulunkulu thethelela me ukungisiza, futhi. Buyela inhliziyo yenceku yakho (igama), yothando neyobuqotho. Lolo hlobo labantu abajabulayo, nenjabulo eyathatha isikhathi eside! Amen! "Kukhona inkolelo ukuthi lo mkhosi, aphethwe nemicabango kwesokudla, into akabashiyi nethuba okunye ukuphila. Ikakhulukazi uma uke waba uthando lwangempela phakathi kwakho, futhi ngeke ezinye wafana yayo, liphefumulelwe isithukuthezi noma ezinye izinhloso hhayi ejwayelekile.

Kungenzeka yini ukwenza ngaphandle isiko?

Abaningi baphikisa ngokuthi thina basebenzisane, hhayi nje ngamazwi nangezenzo ukuthi angakanani amandla. Abanye baze bagomele ngokuthi imicabango yethu sakha izwe esiphila bese sihlupheka. Uma ukholwa ukuthi leli ke udinga hhayi gobe ukufunda, futhi inhloko 'okuhlanzekile'. Yini kahle hle Ucabanga ukuthi waphonsa intandokazi yakho? Phela wena ngokwakho "Nkulunkulu" lezwe lakhe. Ngakho ngokushesha baqala ukwakha ezahlukene, ujabule, lapho yonke into ihamba ngokuvumelana nezifiso zakho. Kanjani? Lapha belulekwa ukuzijayeza stop ukuhlupheka. Kuze kube yimanje, cishe kanye nazo zonke kunconywa ukuba wathumba abanye ibhizinisi. Omunye ucezu ukuphelela, nezinye izincwadi ukufunda, umuntu ekhanda efekethisiwe uya, kungilapho abanye bakhetha nokuhlaselwa nemvelo. Yiqiniso, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuze ucoshe okuthile wusizo kwezempilo. Kodwa lapha futhi unquma. Kubalulekile ukuthi lolu daba kangaka ugxile ukuthi ukudabuka babengeke kusukela ensimini yakho futhi sizibona ngokucacile. Ngaphezu isidingo wokuzilibazisa anakekele ngothando ngesisa, ukuba agqoke up, ukumamatheka, umusa akhipha. Uyazi, bathi uma kuvela ukuthi isimangaliso kwenzeka. Angiyithandi, "inhlekelele" eshiya lomuntu njalonjalob, ngifuna omunye isisulu. Futhi lo muntu futhi uhlala ujabule kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku (ne "intandokazi" noma enye, ngakho-ke kubalulekile?).