Izivakashi Yethula emshadweni: isiko, emisha, kudingeka ngenjabulo?

Imibhangqwana kabani emshadweni iminyaka 20-40, uyoba umangale, kanye phezu lomshado yesimanje: amasiko amaningi aye ashintsha. Uma indodakazi yakho neminyaka engamashumi amabili wathi ukuthi izipho emcimbini ukwenza ngamunye amakhulukhulu izivakashi, musa ukusheshe ubambe ikhanda lakhe futhi uthi, "Cha!" Eqinisweni, cishe zonke izinto ishintshile ezimpilweni zethu. Kunganjani uthuthukise lomshado amasiko? Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi ubani, yini nokuthi yini okudingeka abaphe izipho lomshado yesimanje.

umakoti Soviet lakwazi kahle: izivakashi ngesikhathi beshada kuyadingeka, kodwa hhayi kuphela, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kweshumi. Circle pha iyonke wawucacile: eduze izihlobo yomkhwenyana (umama, ubaba, nabafowabo, nawodadewabo, ogogo nomkhulu, obabekazi, omalume, ngezinye izikhathi - esiphambanweni). Izipho akhethiwe izinga. Banikezwe nokushoda jikelele cishe kunoma iyiphi izivakashi isipho at the wedding , ekugcineni kwahlaluka ukuthi kunesidingo. Phela, wayehawukela yathengwa isigqebhezana (isimemo kuphela) e suite gumbi. Nikelani abashadayo kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi amanzi okugeza amathawula, zokudla kuhlanzekile yini, bathrobes, amahembe, scarves, indwangu Indwangu, izitsha, elinemishwe kungenzeka untula, kodwa ngoba kwaba, kwaba. Lawa eziyisisekelo kakhulu izinto zasekhaya kanye izingubo ngathenga samanje izivakashi umakoti nomkhwenyana laba abamukele ukufinyelela athandwayo ukuze ezingavamile emashalofini esiku esitolo izimpahla. Umakoti nomkhwenyana izipho kuvame ningakaze nishintshane.

Imincintiswano emishadweni kwamaSoviet, yebo, zenziwe. eziyizikhumbuzo ngabo, futhi, wathembela ikakhulukazi ezihlekisayo. Thenga okuthile kuyilabo ababesanda kushada, into wafakaza. Ngokuqinisekile kwakungeyona inkinga enkulu, ngoba zonke lezi Souvenir kubiza ngisho nesenti. Futhi okubaluleke - akekho okuyofanele isipho sina, kwanele esikhashana amakhadibhodi izindondo noma amadiploma "Izivakashi eziningi ezisebenzayo."

It kuvela ukuthi isiko okunikeza izivakashi emshadweni lapho futhi kokhokho bethu, kodwa lo mkhosi kwaba incazelo engcwele. Njengomthetho, umakoti wethulwa izinto ezilukiwe, ezihlobene, umsebenzi womfekethisi ngesandla. Ubaba yomkhwenyana ibhande, unina - a zikanokusho itshali umakoti - ihembe efekethisiwe, izihlobo - zokudla kuhlanzekile yini, amathawula, napkins. Umakoti wabonisa ngaleyo ndlela ikhono lazo, Thrift, nezipho Bagcwala lapho amandla akhethekile. Umkhwenyana naye wabonisa ukubaluleka kwayo impahla, ngoba zizama ukuthenga kumama ocebile ingubo yakhe, ukuhlolwa - amabhuzu ezintsha, umakoti - ubucwebe kanye izingubo eziwubukhazikhazi.

Eminyakeni yamuva, kwakukhona isiko ukusinikela yona njalo guest emshadweni isikhumbuzo encane candy amabhokisi. Izimpande isiko okutholakala France ephakathi. «Bonbon» - «candy" ngesiFulentshi, futhi Bonbonniere - «candy." Ngakho, i-candy-ibhokisi - ibhokisi elihle ushokoledi. Ngezinye imikhosi ehlukahlukene eFrance, izivakashi banikwa amaswidi ukubonga kubo ngokuba khona kwabo emshadweni, ubhapathizo noma isidlo. Yayisekelwe Kuyinkolelo-ze ngokuphepha ngasinda la makhulu eminyaka futhi bafudukela kwamanye amazwe aseYurophu, futhi eminyakeni yamuva e-Russia kanye CIS amazwe.

E-Fulansi, ukubeka candy ngokuvamile alimondi ezicwebezelisiwe, kodwa namuhla kungaba candies ushokoledi kancane in ucwecwe noma izithelo candied. Candy amabhokisi ibukeke anezikhwama, izikhwama, ezimvilophini, amabhokisi. Abakwazi ukulungiselela izandla zabo futhi acoshe ithoni indaba ephathwayo lwakho lomshado. By the way, ngokwesiko in the candy kumele kube 5 amaphilisi: lokuzala, injabulo, ukuchuma, impilo kanye nokuphila isikhathi eside. Namuhla, leli nani ongavamile ihlonishwe, amahemuhemu ethandwa kumane nje kuthi inani amaswidi kumele kube aphambene.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusebenziseka lanqoba futhi ku ezinomoya amnandi izinyo French. Namuhla, imibhangqwana more and more ecabanga eziyisikhumbuzo eyoshiya inkumbulo ka ngokunqoba isikhathi eside. Ngokwesibonelo, uzibuthe wesiqandisi nge wedding usuku nesithombe abasanda kushada kungasiza izivakashi ukukhumbula usuku lwakho lomshado, futhi ungakwazi ukubala ngisho izipho zomshado sokhuni (iminyaka engu yesihlanu ye ukuphila ngokuhlanganyela).

Eminye imibhangqwana beveza ngaphezulu imibono yasekuqaleni eziyisikhumbuzo izivakashi: bangaba nobuhlobo naye babe amakhalenda, izibuko kanye umklamo ekhethekile iphephandaba, ngezinto ezingelutho, isitsha sezimbali, izimbiza encane ujamu ... izivakashi Yethula emshadweni kungaba ukudlala. Kulokhu sikhuluma eziyisikhumbuzo ngabanye, okuyinto nakanjani inkimbinkimbi izimpilo ezinzima kakade ka abasanda kushada esizayo.

Sibukeze izinketho main izipho for the wedding, kodwa akazange phenduli umbuzo othi: "? Yini okufanele yenziwe etiquette lomshado 'Kule nkathi kwembulunga yonke, ukukhuluma mayelana nokuba khona kwamakamu imithetho ezimisiwe kunzima, eqinisweni, etiquette lomshado ezivamile a engekho. Yiqiniso, i-candy amabhokisi - isiko hhayi Slavic, kodwa wabanjwa, futhi abantu abaningi enjengayo.

Namuhla, kuphela umbhangqwana unquma ubani okufanele ukunikeza izinto eziyizikhumbuzo futhi yini isipho izivakashi at the wedding ngeke kufaneleke. Awukwazi pha ubani. emcimbini Bright idili, bonisa hlelo - isipho esikhulu sokuba izilaleli. Unganikeza izipho ukuvala izihlobo, njengoba kwenza omama yakho futhi ogogo. Futhi ungakwazi lungiselela eziyisikhumbuzo French-yesitayela bonke abahlanganyeli emcimbini (noma zonke 1 umndeni ngamunye). Isinqumo isesikhathini umakoti nomkhwenyana. Believe me, akukho imithetho kungacacile. Ngokusho oyiphawulile ehola imishado, amadili namuhla cishe ingxenye yesithathu uya ngaphandle izipho izivakashi, kodwa leli holide akubi iyiphi gay kancane noma abajabule.

Nokho, uma izimali uvumele, kungani ungenzi lokhu isenzo esihle - Bonbonniere isipho - ukubonga izivakashi ukuthi ayini wabe nawe ngalolu suku. Ngokuqinisekile Jabula futhi wena, futhi bonke ababekhona. I Bonbonniere ungafaka ikhadi ukubonga. Mhlawumbe, akufanele sikhohlwe Nokho ukuthi ungatholi izipho lomshado segolide, futhi izinto ezimnandi ukuthi akufanele kube ebiza kakhulu. Souvenirs banikwa ekupheleni ukugujwa noma ngesikhathi somkhosi we umnikelo njengempendulo "siyabonga".

Kunoma ikuphi, ungakhohlwa ukubonga izivakashi ngamazwi.