Izimpawu zokuba umlutha wento

Ukuluthwa yizidakamizwa - sinzima kakhulu futhi kunzima ukuyelapha isifo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi kusenesikhathi ukuthatha kodwa kungenzeka izinyathelo ukwelashwa.

Abazali Dear, zama ukulalela, ukuba sigxilise amehlo ukuze ukuziphatha indodana noma indodakazi. Labo abasinda kulolu usizi osindayo ukulahlekelwa ingane yabo, uthi, "lokumba kubo izinto, hlola emaphaketheni, wakuva ingxoxo." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuba - izifundo ezimbi ezingase izingane zakho zizizwe zilahliwe. Kodwa ngakolunye - ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe abanye abazali abangethembi izingane zabo ngakho zifa, omama kanye obaba engasindisa izimpilo zabo ...

Akunakusetshenziswa ungasilulazi ingozi oqhubeka umlutha. Ungazami nokujaha "yesimanjemanje" zamanga futhi 'eziphambili "ukuthatha kwesiqubulo esithi" empilweni udinga ukuzama konke. " Ukuba qotho kwabo, ungakha abe nombono oyiphutha ezinganeni ukuthi kungenzeka futhi yini akuyona.

Ngeshwa, umphumela oyifunayo ekwelapheni ukuluthwa i kufinyelelwa amaphesenti 5-10 kuphela amacala.

A ukubhekisisa kahle izimpawu zokuqala zokuba umlutha wento ngesikhathi esifanele ukuthola isifo. Khumbula ukuthi kungcono ukuthatha isinyathelo ukuze uphephe futhi ngezinye izikhathi abonise ngokweqile izinsolo, kuka ukubheka okwenzekayo, "amehlo" futhi bacabanga ukuthi yonke into ezophatha ngandlela-thile.

Musa bambalala lezi zimpawu kungenzeka zokuba imilutha yezidakamizwa, efana ukushintshashintsha kwemizwelo, amehlo ukucindezeleka ngokwenama okungenasisekelo noma ngokweqile, ngoba ukuthi asikho isizathu esithile. Qapha izimfihlo uma nje into ingane ngomdlandla wakhuluma, wabelane, wasiza endlini - futhi isikhashana kamuva, "eqolo", baba nomzwangedwa, engazimisele ukuchaza ukuziphatha sakhe esimangalisayo. Rapid kwemizwelo kungaba ngempela eyabonisa incipient yizidakamizwa.

Ukushintsha isigqi ubuthongo - liphinde le izimpawu zokuba umlutha wento. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane asicimi egumbini ukulala, noma nje embhedeni, futhi kusihlwa, ngemva kokubuya ukuhamba nabangani, bakhuthale lisebenza usuku lonke. Uma imbangela ukwephulwa umbuso kosuku - yizidakamizwa ke konke kuyaqondakala: i-abatjha bafumana ingxenye "okusezingeni eliphezulu" umuzwa kwesasa futhi bacabanga ukuthi ngangokuba ngingagudluza izintaba. Kwenzeka kusihlwa futhi ebusuku - ngemva kokuthatha umthamo. Ekuseni ngo-ukukhathala anqwabelene kwenza ngokwayo wazizwa, kanye nentsha angalali kuze kuhlwe.

Ungaphuthelwa esidlule futhi izinguquko ekudleni. Lokhu - hhayi ejwayelekile, uma izingane zakho ungafuni ukudla usuku lonke, futhi ngemva komhlangano neqembu labangane noma ukuchitha isikhathi egumbini avaliwe kalula "umolot" servings eziningana.

Yebo, lezi zimpawu zingase zibe ejwayelekile ukuba nomntwana ophile kahle, kodwa uma kuphela enye ibonakala iphethe, kahle, noma ezimbili - hhayi libizwa. Uma okwesikhathi esithile uyoba njalo ukuthola zonke izici ezintathu indodana noma indodakazi - ngokuphuthuma ukuthatha izinyathelo ngaphandle elinde ukuthi "self-pass" noma ucabangeni.

Zikhona nezinye izimpawu zokuba umlutha wento. Ngokwesibonelo, ingane ngokushesha phathelana uyazithulela buthule, it is ukuyiveza Ezingalapheki. Wathola abangane abasha, lapho cishe akukho, eyaziwa noma cha eyaziwa kahle kakhulu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo it is ingasaphathwa ukuxhumana nabangane bakudala nomndeni. Ngezinye izikhathi akusona isono ukulalela bese ukhuluma nabangani bakho (ngisho noma labo abangane baziwa kuwe, kodwa wena manje bese ukubamba imishwana ongaziwa okungokomfanekiso kuphuma emilonyeni yabo). Ezinye abayimilutha imfundamakhwela ngemfihlo izingxoxo zakho, ngakho abangele izinsolo ezingadingekile. Nqaba e ukusebenza academic e yokufunda, ukungasathandi ezintweni ozithandayo yamuva, ukuthuthukiswa yokushayela budedengu, lokukhohlwa - konke lokhu kuyizinto izimpawu zokuba umlutha wento.

Ungashiyi ngaphandle ukunakekela izinguquko ezithile ngokubukeka: imibuthano, ngezikhathi kokuvela gleam ongaziwa emehlweni akhe, yebo, iminonjana imijovo.

Ukwesaba anda izidingo zezimali kwezingane zabo. Ungase uthole ngisho nokulahlekelwa imali noma yini eyigugu kusuka endlini. Uma ngokungazelelwe ukuthola umsuka engaziwa utshani omisiwe, powder ongaziwa okungukuthi - liwubufakazi cishe oqondile. Sidinga ukuthatha isinyathelo esiphuthumayo futhi ezinqala.

Ngo esigabeni sokuqala ekubeni umlutha wezithombe umuntu ngiqinisekise ukuyeka nganoma isiphi isikhathi, ngenxa yokuthi akaqondi ukuthi okwamanje ubuhlungu ngokomzimba - sekungaphezu kwamandla ethu, lapho umane nje ujabulela. Ngesikhathi sigaba esilandelayo zomuthi ithathe isikhathi eside ukuthi silondoloze "ukubekezela isithwathwa" isimo - kungenjalo kuyoba oqinile ikhefu-up. Ukuthatha izidakamizwa, umuntu uba amandla nomdlandla - asalijabulela namanje umthamo. Kodwa-ke kufanele okungenani banciphise, uhamba isifo esigabeni sesithathu. Manje umgomo reception izidakamizwa - zingakutholi okusezingeni eliphezulu, futhi kuvimbele ukuphulwa. Umzimba ugcwele ubuthi, umuntu elilulaza, ubhubhisa ubuchopho. Konke lokhu siholela ekufeni.

Umlutha, wathola isikhathi, esilaphekayo, futhi ngolunye usuku waphaphama mahhala lokhu kwencika esindayo, ingane yakho ngizoqiniseka ukuthi ngiyakutshela "siyabonga".