Indlela yokuthola ingane evela kwindlu yezingane: imibhalo edingekayo

Ubuntwana yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwabantu bonke. Kwakukhona ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi izisekelo zobuntu bakhe, isimo sengqondo kwabanye, ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amaningi, nokuqonda kwezwe kwabekwa. Kuncike ekutheni ingane ihamba kanjani, ingakanani izobe ihambele uthando nokunakekelwa kwabazali, induduzo ekhaya kanye nokufudumala. Izingane ezilahliwe zilahlwe zonke lezi zinzuzo.

Njalo ngonyaka inani lezokutholwa ezweni lethu likhula kancane. Ababelethi ababeletha kakhulu bawuthatha imvuthuluka ezinyangeni eziningana. Kungani kunjalo lokhu? Iziphi izisusa zabazali zokutholwa? Indlela yokwamukela ingane evela endlini yabantwana nokuthi yimiphi imibhalo edingekayo kulokhu? Yini ongayilindela esikhathini esizayo?

Izizathu zokuthola izingane

Izizathu eziyinhloko zokwamukelwa yizinto ezimbili kuphela: ukungakwazi ukuzitholela izingane kanye nesifiso esiqotho sokunakekela ingane ehluphekile.

Esimweni sokuqala, umqashi uvame ukulingana nowesifazane. Ufuna ukuzibonela ngokugcwele, azungezwe ukunakekelwa komuntu omncane, ukukhula kuye ilungu eligcwele lomphakathi, ukumnika ingxenye yomphefumulo, ukumnika i-caress. Uma kukhona ukuqonda okuvumelanayo kanye nesivumelwano emndenini, umyeni usekela ngokugcwele umkakhe, futhi ekugcineni bahlangana ngokunquma ukwemukelwa kwengane kwintandane.

Kodwa-ke, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ingane iphinde ithole umama noma ubaba emndenini ongaphelele. Kusukela kumbono wezomthetho, lokhu akuvunyelwe, kodwa lezi zimo zakha ubunzima obengeziwe uma kudlula yonke inqubo.

Icala lokuqala lihle kakhulu, lihlulele izinyathelo zengqondo. Ngokuvamile izingane ezikhulayo ziwela emindenini lapho sezivele zinezingane zazo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi eziningana. Izimbangela eziyinhloko ezishukumisayo lapha ziyisifiso sangempela sokusiza ingane, imsindise ekubeni nesizungu nokwesaba impilo, unikeze ukuvikelwa nokusekela okugcwele.

Izinkinga zokutholwa

Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe ingane evela endlini yezingane, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi yonke inqubo izothatha isikhathi eside kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma isifiso siqotho ngempela, khona-ke imigomo ende, ukubamba iqhaza kanye nokulibaziseka okukhulu ngeke neze kube yisithintelo kubazali besikhathi esizayo. Konke okungenhla ukuhlolwa kwangempela kokuzimisela ukuthanda nokwamukela indodana noma indodakazi njengoba kunjalo, hhayi noma yiziphi izimfanelo.

Into ebalulekile ikhono lokusekela ingane. Uhlangothi lwezezimali lwendaba luyithinta kakhulu indlela amakhaya abantwana abheka ngayo abazali abasha . Ukwamukela ingane kusho futhi ukuthi umuntu omncane, ngaphandle kothando nokukhathalela, kufanele ajabulele izinzuzo ezibonakalayo ngokugcwele, ngaphandle kokuhlangabezana nesidingo.

Ukwamukelwa kwezingane kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu

Ungakwazi ukuthatha cishe njengokungathi usana. Yile ndlela abazali abaningi abamukelayo abenza ngayo. Ingane iphile kancane futhi, omunye angasho, akaqapheli konke ukungabi nalutho kwesimo esidalwe, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo esingamvumeli ukuba adalule kuye imfihlo yokwamukelwa futhi ngokuyinhloko ihlanganyele ekukhuliseni ilungu lomphakathi, kanye nokubunjwa kobuciko bakhe. Kuneminyaka engu-0 kuya kweyengu-3-4 ubudala ukuthi izingane zihlala e-Baby House.

Noma kunjalo, ukutholwa okunjalo kunamaphutha. Ezimweni eziningi, ulwazi ngabazali bangempela, idatha yabo yezinto eziphilayo, ubudala, isimo senhlalo asitholakali, kanye nemibandela lapho ingane izalwa khona. Kunoma yikuphi, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ingane evela ekhaya, kuhle ukuba ufunde yonke imininingwane ephelele evela odokotela nabasebenzi beziko. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi banikeze ulwazi mayelana nokuqukethwe kwengane kanye nesimo sempilo yakhe engokomzimba nengokwengqondo.

Ubani ongamukela ingane?

Ngemuva kokuba isisindo sezo zonke izinzuzo nezindleko sekuphelile, umzuzwana ufika lapho abazali besikhathi esizayo benemibuzo elandelayo: "Ukuphi lapho uthola ingane nokuthi ungayenza kanjani?"

Njengoba izingane zingenye yezintambo ezingenakuvikelwa umphakathi, akuwona wonke umuntu ongazamukela. Imikhawulo kanye nezidingo kunzima kakhulu, kodwa kubangelwa yisifiso sezwe ukugcina impilo nempilo yengane.

Ngaphambi kokuba ubelethe ingane evela eNdlini Yomntwana, thola ukuthi ngabe umfakisicelo ufanelekile yini kulezi zimo ezilandelayo:

- unamandla ngokugcwele;

- awunazo izinkolelo ezedlule ngenxa yobugebengu obunzima;

- unayo imali engenayo, uqinisekisa umholo ophilayo welungu ngalinye lomndeni wesikhathi esizayo;

- unendawo yokuhlala yokuhlala ehlala njalo ehlangabezana nezindinganiso zangasese;

- Azikho izifo ezingathí sina eziphazamisa ukusetshenziswa kwezibopho zabazali.

Inqubo yokutholwa

Okokuqala, kunconywa ukuba uxhumane neziphathimandla zesigodi noma zomasipala. Abasebenzi bazonikeza idatha ngezigaba zenqubo yokwamukelwa, uhlu lwamadokhumenti adingekayo, kanye nokunikeza ulwazi ezindlini zengane. Ngokuyinhloko, ungakwazi ukuphatha into yokugcina ngokwakho, ubhekisela emaqondeni.

Iphuzu lokuzikhethela, kodwa iphuzu elifiselekayo ukuqeqeshwa esikoleni esikhethekile sabazali ababelethi. Lapho, lo mbhangqwana uzotshelwa ngazo zonke izinto eziyisisekelo kanye nama-nuances wokwamukelwa kanye nokukhulisa ingane-refuseni, okuzoba ukulungiswa okuhle.

Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuhambisa amaphepha kumagunya okugcinwa endaweni yokuhlala. Lapho sekuqedile ukuhanjiswa kwamadokhumenti kungakapheli izinsuku ezingu-15, ummeleli weziphathimandla zokugcina uzofika ekhaya lomshado. Uzohlola izimo zezindlu, futhi abambe ingxoxo mayelana nezizathu zabazali abazoba nesifiso sokwamukelwa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, iziphathimandla zokunakekela ziveza imibono ngokugunyazwa kokutholwa. Emva kwalokho, ungaqala ukufuna ingane futhi uvakashele amaHhovisi Ezingane. Lapho umntwana ekhethiwe, amadokhumenti adingekayo athunyelwa kwintandane, futhi abaphathi banikezwa ngolwazi mayelana nengane. Umhlangano wabazali besikhathi esizayo nomntwana uhlelelwe.

Ngenxa yomhlangano, abashadile banquma ukutholwa, bese babhala isicelo esifanayo (ngokufakwa kwamaphepha) enkantolo. Kungakapheli izinyanga ezimbili, iziphathimandla kumele zithathe isinqumo ngokuvunyelwa kokwamukelwa. Noma kusuka kokwenqaba.

Ngemva kokuthola imvume, lo mbhangqwana uya endlini yomntwana, unikeza isinqumo senkantolo futhi uthatha ingane ekhaya. Isigaba sokugcina ukubhaliswa kweqiniso lokutholwa kwehhovisi ehhovisi lokubhalisa.

Amadokhumenti adingekayo

Ukuqoqa ulwazi oludingekile yisigaba lapho wonke umuntu ozimisele ukutholwa kwengane kufanele aphumelele. Kungcono ukulungisa amadokhumenti kusengaphambili:

1. Amakhophi ama-passports omshado.
2. Isitifiketi somshado.
3. Izivivinyo zezokwelapha ngempilo.
4. Isitifikedi sesempesheni.
5. Izikhombo ezisuka emisebenzini ngenani lemali engenayo.
6. Isitifiketi somnikazi wezindlu noma ukuqashisa.
7. Isitifiketi sokuhlala.
8. Ukulandelana kwabantu bomshado, ngokuphathelene nazo zonke izici zokuphila, kuhlanganise nokuzilibazisa, imfundo, umsebenzi, imikhuba emibi, njll.
9. Ulwazi mayelana nezinkolelo noma ukungabi khona kwabo.

Izinzuzo zezingane ezamukelwe

Abazali ababelethi kukhona izinkokhelo ezikhethekile zombuso, okuthi, kuye ngezimo ezahlukene, kungaba nobukhulu nobukhulu babo:

1. Inzuzo yokubeletha kusukela ngosuku lokutholwa kwaze kwaba sekupheleni kwezinsuku ezingu-70 (ngaphezu kwengane eyodwa - izinsuku ezingu-110). Kubukhulu bemali etholakalayo yonyaka odlule, kodwa hhayi ama-ruble angaphezu kuka-52,000.
2. Inzuzo yesikhathi esisodwa ngesikhathi sokutholwa. Kuyi-ruble engu-8000. Uma ingane ikhutshaziwe, inani likhuphukela kuma-ruble angu-100,000.
3. Isibonelelo sokunakekela ingane njalo ngenyanga kuze kube ngu-1.5 iminyaka. Ingu-40% yengeniso ejwayelekile yonyaka odlule.
4. Omama abamukelwa izingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu kuze kube ngumhla ka-31.12.2016 banikezwa ngemali yokubeletha. Ingxenye eyisisekelo yi-ruble 250 000.
5. Izinsizakalo ezengeziwe kanye nezinkokhelo ezisungulwe ngumthetho wesifunda lapho kuhlala khona umndeni osondelene nabo.

Izinkanyezi

Inqubo yokwamukela ingane evela kwindlu yezingane yinkqubo ende kakhulu, engadlulela izinyanga ezinhlanu kuya ku-5-6. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile abazali abamukelayo banesithakazelo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthatha ingane ngokushesha? Ochwepheshe baphendula ukuthi kuyinto engokoqobo ukusheshisa inqubo uma ulungisa wonke amadokhumenti adingekayo kusengaphambili futhi udlule ezinyathelweni eziningana zenqubo ngokufanayo. Ungakwazi futhi ukujwayelana nemigomo nemigomo yombuso yesigaba ngasinye futhi ulandelele ngesikhathi esifanele.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi zonke izihlobo zomndeni okhulisayo kufanele zihambisane kahle nomuntu ongenaye ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Uma kungenjalo, inqubo yokuzivumelanisa ingavinjelwa kakhulu.

Enye inkinga ukutholwa kwengane ephilile ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izici. Izingane ezinjalo ziyingcosana, ngakho umgca wabo, ngokulandelana, ukhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akekho onokuqiniseka ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ngisho nengane enempilo enhle esikhathini esizayo ngeke ihlupheke ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuphutha.

Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi lapho kukhona izimo eziphikisanayo zokutholwa, ungahlala ufaka isikhalazo enkantolo. Ngokuvamile, izikhalazo ezinjalo zihlobene nezimo zokuphila ezingafanelekile zomshado (ngokwemibono yabaphathi bokugcinwa).

Ekuphethweni

Ukwamukelwa usana kuyisinyathelo esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Ingane ayiyona ithoyizi engasikhiyelwa kude noma ihanjiswe lapho iqala ukukhathala. Abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo ophelele wekusasa lomuntu omncane, bamfundise futhi basize ekwakheni nasekubunzeni ubuntu. Isinqumo sokwamukelwa samukelwa kanye naso sonke, njengokungathi ngumntwana owazalwa wena ngokwakho.