Indlela ukulondoloza impilo ingane noma lokho okungafanele ukwenze abakhulelwe

Abanye besifazane abangamaRom babesizakala uthole ukuthi ukukhulelwa - kungcono cishe isifo, kungcono esibudisi empilweni yanoma yimuphi owesifazane, kodwa akunjalo. Lena inkathi egqamile futhi ujabule ilindele isimangaliso. Kodwa ukuze balindele ukuba nomntwana ophile kahle uzophule, kumelwe wazi ukuthi yini ongayenza abakhulelwe.

Uma ulalele ogogo, omama, omakhelwane, ukujwayelana obabekazi ehlukahlukene, kungenzeka ukuthola enjalo izinto eziyinqaba ngokukhulelwa: Yini futhi akakwazi ukwenza umama okhulelwe. It kuvela, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukuba benze izinto eziyisisekelo ezifana ekhulelwe, kuyangabazeka. Ngokwesibonelo, nibbling imbewu, wangiphica noma embroider, ukubukela umngcwabo, ngagunda izinwele zabo, hang izingubo futhi, yebo, owaziyo. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi yonke le akunangqondo , futhi abanye umbhedo.

Kodwa lutho ukuthi abantu bahloniphe ngobudala ngokungagodli ukuhlakanipha okuthole ngokukhula abanolwazi ubudala. Ngokwesibonelo, muva nje, ososayensi kungase kutholakale ukuthi imbewu okugazingiwe babe ikhemikhali ebangela ithoni kwesibeletho, ngakho abesifazane abanhliziyo sokukhulelwa isengozini, kungcono ngokwami kule bethanda senqabe. Ngokuqondene izingubo, owesifazane hung phambi kwakhe emasimini ku izindophi ephakemeyo, ngokuba lokhu kwakudingeka afinyelela. It kuvela ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukukwenza ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngakho-ke kuba eside emi izandla zakhe phezulu, ikakhulu uma nisanda zokuqala zokukhulelwa ngoba kungaholela emazombezombe umbungu ngu umzanyana.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bakholwe lonke izimpawu, okuyinto neze kuqinisekisiwe, ukunquma ngamunye ku nonina. Kodwa lapha, ngeshwa, abanye zonke izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni ezingenalutho bazitike ephoqelela ingane isipho, noma ezinyangeni zokugcina ukuze Thenga kakhulu konke okudingayo. Bese kuthi-ke obaba abasebasha ngokuxhamazela ukusheshe izitolo kuze womshado nge rebonochkom amanga esibhedlela futhi uthenge zonke ezidingekayo futhi okungadingekile. Kodwa kanye ukuthengwa ezinamasondo womshado, cribs, raspashonok futhi zokubhukuda nethonya elihle ku isimo umama okhulelwe.

Kodwa kukhona ezinye izinto ezisebusweni uhlu lokho asikwazi ukwenziwa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe.

Okokuqala, kudingeka ayeke ukubhema. Futhi asikho isidingo bathethelele ngokwayo ngazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto absurdities mayelana lokuthi lena ukucindezeleka omkhulu emzimbeni. Okusho ukuthi, njengoba uqhubeka ubhema - lokhu kubangela ukucindezeleka ngempela imvuthuluka ezingeke ukuthi kungani umama ngakho esicasula kuye. Akubalulekile futhi emakamelweni egcwele intuthu-, bese uvumele abangane, izihlobo kanye nozakwabo ukuba bangabhemi uma ukhona yakho.

Okwesibili, yebo, udinga ukungena Taboo ku yiluphi uhlobo utshwala noma izidakamizwa. Iqiniso lokuthi kukhona umthamo ephephile, kubalulekile ukuba singakhohlwa. Lena zonke izinganekwane abantu ababuthakathaka abangakwazi lotidzelako injabulo. Futhi yezandla of labo abazuza azalelwa isizukulwane ababuthakathaka futhi ezibalulwa kanjena ngokufanele. Akubalulekile ukuthi liholwe Ongoti ezifana ukusetshenziswa kotshwala, asikho isidingo zichithe wena nengane yakho.

Okwesithathu, kubalulekile ukuba bangayeki caffeine, ngisho noma ngaphambili ayikwazanga ukucabanga ukuphila ngaphandle ambalwa izinkomishi ikhofi ngosuku. Sekuyisikhathi eside ososayensi bathole ukuthi ukusetshenziswa okweqile caffeine kuholela ingozi kwesisu, kanye nokuzalwa komntwana ne isisindo sokuzalwa.

Okwesine, kubalulekile ukuba uhlaziye zabo imikhuba yokudla ngokucophelela. Ngaphansi kokuvinjelwa kukhona zonke izinhlobo sushi kanye imiqulu, inyama ebomvu, ubisi. Zonke izithelo nemifino kufanele kahle wageza. Musa ahileleke amnandi futhi ezisawolintshi.

Okwesihlanu, kufanele sizame ukuba ahambe ne High Heels ku ematheni ephansi, zama ukungazivezi lokudlela nanoma iyiphi i-chemistry (hhayi yokudaya izinwele, izinzipho), musa overheat. Ukugoma iyona ndlela futhi angizisoli nakancane.

Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi yini ongayenza ukhulelwe, wakhulelwa futhi yini usengakwazi ukwenza?

Futhi ungenza konke kuletha injabulo hhayi ezilimazayo empilweni. Abaningi uhambo, umoya fresh, ujabulele ubuhle bemvelo kanye ubuciko, ubuke ama-movie okuhle, ukufunda izincwadi. Ungakwazi bathande nxazonke wokuthi umhlaba wonke uyakuthanda. Ungakwazi bagcine sebeyimilutha ngendlela enempilo futhi ukuthatha ke njengesisekelo esizayo. Ungaba enhle kakhulu, ujabule futhi elikhanyayo, ngoba owesifazane okhulelweyo - kungcono isimangaliso okungenakulinganiswa imfihlakalo enkulu.