Iba kangcono njengoba stop umona

Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi umona - okubi. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu bangakwazi ukulawula lo muzwa okubhubhisa ngokuzethemba. Isikhathi esining impela, futhi abaningi kuthatha ingqondo, yibona abanqoba zonke imizwa emihle. Kukhona ngisho abanye abantu umona - sidalwe yesibili, ngakho has a amandla eqinile phezu izinzwa. Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu uyabona ukuthi umonakala umphumela umona, izikhathi bangabi khona. Ngomqondo othile, laba bantu ongenafu, ngoba angikuboni futhi abaqapheli ngokwazo ukuba khona lezo zimfanelo ezimbi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi awufuni ukushintsha, ziphenduke futhi ukhule njengomuntu. Zonke ukuphumula - a nengqondo ezanele abantu - sifuna ukwazi ukuthi ayeke umona ukunqoba "udrako" yakhe aphinde athole inkululeko kwangaphakathi. Lokhu akwenziwa ngezinkulumo nje kuphela ngenxa yokuthi sesaba nezinye emhlabeni (umona - isono), kodwa futhi ukuba ngcono izinga lempilo.

Negative izici zobuntu ubuthi khona yomuntu ngokwakhe: ungavumeli ukuba siqhubekele phambili, ukubhubhisa ngaphakathi, izimbangela zokucindezeleka, nezifo zengqondo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngokomzimba isifo umzimba.

Kanjani ukuyeka ukuba nomona: ukuqala lapho

Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kunabantu abangenayo umuzwa umona nhlobo. Abaningi babo Uma ungakaze uzwe ubuhlungu kusuka zalesi "sifo" futhi umuntu nje ephethwe ukuyinqoba. Kungase kubonakale sengathi lokhu Nokho akunakwenzeka, ochwepheshe abasebenza emkhakheni yentuthuko kanye nenguquko lomuntu, bathi, ukuthi umuntu zingenza nomona, nayo yonke eminye ugly ubuntu. Udinga isifiso kuphela ukuphikelela nokuthembela isu elithile.

Kanjani ukuyeka ukuba nomona? Uma uya sina bahlukane nakho umkhuba (ngokwezinga umona ezithile - imikhuba efanayo ekubhemeni, ekuphuzeni utshwala, ukudla, njll), khona-ke udinga ukuqala ukuhlala phansi ucabange ngalokho ncamashi nomona. Kunabantu abangazange umona wonke irowu nje ngoba abanayo ukuthi abanye. Futhi esinye futhi isici umona entweni eyodwa (impahla inhlalakahle noma enhle umzimba, umsebenzi, indawo yokuhlala, impilo yangasese). Uma uqonde ukuthi yini umona gnaws - womhlaba noma ethize, - kuzoba ngendlela isigamu kanjani ukuyeka umona. Uyobona ukuthi uzizwa ungakhululekile ekuphileni kwakho, nokuthi lokhu kungenziwa.

Kanjani ukuba kuphele umona abanye: amathiphu encane

Uma, ukwenza isibonelo, kunqunywa ukuthi ushwabadela umona at the emehlweni yomunye impahla, imoto, noma ikhabethe, benza konke abangakwenza ukuze uthole efanayo noma kangcono ngisho. Qondisa amandla ngendlela eyakhayo, ukuze ekugcineni ngcono izimpilo zabo. Uma ungenalo ngisho avele like ezinhle, kulandela lokhu endleleni, uzokwazi ukuthenga izakhiwo ezifana ukuphikelela, nokukhuthazela, ukukhuthazela nokubamba. Wena ukuyenga inqubo, okuyinto nomona isikhathi nomzamo is neze ukuhlala. Indlela ayeke abe nomhawu abanye ngezinye izindlela? Ungakhetha indlela zefilosofi ekuphileni. Ngokuzayo ozokuhlanganisa omunye okwaziyo wesikhwele, bacabanga ukuthi yonke into kuleli zwe ezigugayo, ehlala hhayi kuze kube phakade. Yini leyo ukukhanya nomunye oyedwa wathatha lutho, futhi kule impilo, into esemqoka - ukuvumelana nezwe elizungezile. Lelisu ayilingani konke, ngoba ingcebo yomuntu zanamuhla kuqala.

Enye indlela ayeka ukuba khona nomhawu abantu, kumelwe ufunde ukusilawula mizwelo futhi uqaphele wabo. nje abone ukuthi "kuhlasela" iqala, ungavali ke, musa ukubaleka, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo akasivumeli ukuba balukhulume ngokugcwele kubo. Kufanele siphile ngayo, ukuzizwa, ubuka thina. Lokhu lamabutho ikuvumela ukulawula umuzwa umona eminye ukunciphisa jikelele "cha".