I izingcaphuno best ngamadodana. abantu Omkhulu futhi abakusho ngendodana yakhe

Njalo umama uguqulwa abe isilaleli abanokwazisa, uma isihloko ingxoxo - izitatimende mayelana indodana yakhe, ebiyenza uthuthuka. Wena ukugembula! Uchithe okuningi yamabutho akhe kwezemfundo noqeqesho, futhi kungakanani uhlala ukuba ...

ingane yethu. Izilinganiso mayelana indodana ozithandayo

ngonyaka kweNdodana yokuqala yokuphila - albhamu amaningi. Lena ukumamatheka kwakhe kuqala, lokho isinyathelo sokuqala. Futhi indlela funny izithombe! Ubaba kokuya emsebenzini, wathatha esandleni sendodana yakhe. Indodana ukumanzisa isudi yakhe. Isithombe ingane ujabule futhi ngadideka nsizwa. Kodwa babeyizinceku sishaywe. Umakhelwane ekushintsheni isondo imoto. Esikhathini isithombe Ubaba belunguza kumngane wakhe nendodana ngesithakazelo ibukeka lapho, behlezi ngesihlalo sabakhubazekile.
Ukuze amasignisha esetshenziswa izingcaphuno mayelana amadodana iculo:
• umnsalo Cupid sika, endlini emaphethelweni.
• Phezulu, ngaphezulu, stomping ingane.
• Oh, ungumuntu ezingcolile, ingulube ezingahlanjiwe!
• Indodana yami uqobo.

izincwadi zezingane

Abalobi abaningi babe izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo ngamadodana. Robert Schumann yayikholelwa ukuthi ukuze izingane zikhule kubo siphilile ngokomoya, sidinga ukudla okungokomoya elula okunomsoco. Ezingokomoya namaswidi candy ngeke balimaze kuphela.

Yini enye engcono kunalokhu izifundo sikababa nendodana yakhe! Ayikho umphathi ngeke ukwazi ukunikeza njengezindaba ezinhle. Masha Traub encwadini "Kubi Umama" uchaza ngokweqile, ubaba ujabule. Siyabahlonipha indodana yakhe: "He is enhle kakhulu. Iyoba abahlakaniphe kakhulu. Ngiyasibona lokho! "- wathi injabulo, futhi wahlanganyela naye. Mina ukushintsha amanabukeni, Fussing ingane ukudla, ukufunda izincwadi.

Preschool yobudala - isikhathi esingcono nokugxilisa izimfanelo zokuziphatha. Beethoven wathi: "Ukukhulisa izingane ngokulunga: kuphela lokhu kuzokunika injabulo." Incwadi yokuqala - Nosov. "Ukhukhamba" indaba. Izingane avinjwe ukhukhamba epulazini ensimini collective, futhi umfana waziletha ekhaya. Ngokuba ukuphila kwakhe ngikhumbula amazwi kunina:

• Kungcono yini ukuthi ube indodana kuka indodana - isela.

Umyalo "Awuyikupheka ebe." Ngo "I Iphupho" izingane asungula izindaba, futhi omunye umfana isifuba ethi: ". I balale abazuzisa" Watshela entshontsha kanjani le jam wanikela udadewabo omncane. "Yebo, you are hubu" - kwenziwe isinqumo. "Ungalali" umyalo.

nokuthuthukisa amathalente

Umama nobaba leaf ngokusebenzisa entabeni izincwadi, ekutholeni efanelekayo izindlela imfundo. Ziyakwazi phezu izindebe yokubhalwa abantu ezinkulu. Famous uthisha Yan Komensky wathi abayijabulelayo uthanda ukwenza okuthile. Weluleka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zingabantu ematasa wokuzilibazisa yabo. Yiqiniso, wonke umzali ufuna indodana yakhe komculo ebuntwaneni iphupho lakhe siqu. Kodwa ndoda omncane angathola amanye. Thuthukisa ke nokusekelwa - umsebenzi abazali.

Sebekubeke waveza lo mbono LN Ukuqina. Wathi owesifazane akazange ukuqagela inhliziyo, kukhona injabulo indodana ebe engenayo inhliziyo. Futhi umama wathenga ibhulashi futhi upende, i-violin futhi upiyano kuholela dance kanye pool. Pope presents ibhola kanye nenduku yokudoba, ibhayisikili futhi ikhamera.
Abazali abanothando Akungabazeki ukuthi indodana yabo konke ayengakwenza. Edgar A. Guest, yamkhuza:

Ndodana yami, ekuphileni, khumbula ukuthi

Lokho njengomkhulu, uzalwa.

Baqala out njengawe.

Ungakwazi sifinyelele kufezeka iphupho.

School, emgwaqweni, abangane

Lokhu triad kunomthelela omkhulu, kungayilulaza izisekelo sibekwa ebuntwaneni. Abazali kubalulekile singalahlekelwa uxhumano nendodana yakhe. Ezingokomzwelo, ezingokomoya, ephathekayo. Ocingweni ubaba nomama - izingcaphuno mayelana amadodana bakaConfucius, uSeneca futhi Burton:

• UMaye alethe indodana ezinhle: iyagula.
• Ukuba umkhulu, uyazi uyise.
• UDiogenes wamshaya uyise lapho indodana wafunga-ke.

Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila iba ukuhlolwa langempela. Ukufundisa ngesibonelo, kumele nesisindo wonke amazwi, konke okwenzayo ukubala. INdodana uyaphawula bese udvweba iziphetho. Izilinganiso wabantu omkhulu ngale ndaba:

• Long indlela netinkhomba, indlela emfushane okuhlakanipha isibonelo (Seneca).
• wokungabongi fb - bugebengu, kanye nabantu abangasinaki unina (Maupassant)
• Lapho uqaphela iqiniso kayise, indodana yakho isivele zingaqiniseki ukuthi akuzona ngakwesokudla (Peter).

INdodana ingenze buthule ukulalela ukulaywa, kodwa njengobaba. kufanele kube kangakanani kahle uthisha ukuziphatha.

zohambo

Izingane zikhula futhi fly liphuma esidlekeni. Khona-ke zonke esivela ingane, okuyinto ababebafundisé ukuthi sakwazi ukuchaza - kuyinto wemithwalo ngalo oqhubeka ephila. inhliziyo kababa uyohlale uzizwa ngentambo engabonakali yokuxhuma nendodana yakhe. Ngoba indodana - indalo yakhe. Lolo thando ubaba nendodana yakhe ngaphezu indodana kuyise. Lokhu-Aristotle wathi.

Le nsizwa, engena ezindlini ngezindlu isikhulile, uyakhumbula sokuvalelisa amazwi kayise. Isikhathi siyofika lapho wayethi ukuba indodana yakhe. Kuyoba ngiyethemba ukuthi uzoqhubeka ukhule ube uliqhawe, umesabe ukuthi akunakuba kufundiswe kahle. Ingabe zinakekele, ukubeka isibonelo esihle. Futhi ngokuvamile khumbula engumfana.

Lapho kukhona umama kuphela

Kwenzeka ukuthi umndeni uhlala ezingenaye ubaba. Khona-ke unina ithwala umthwalo double. ukukhathazeka Permanent ngendvodzana yakhe alusoze lwaphela nanini. Futhi uma ayiphethe singalahlekelwa uxhumano ezingokomoya nendodana yakhe, eliqinile le akwenzekanga. INdodana ke wathi unina owesifazane ovelele. Yena nomkakhe okwamanje uthola efanayo.

Kusukela cishe ingxenye eyodwa izingcaphuno amadodana landa lisuka kumama isiphetho esingalindelekile elandelayo:
• Indoda owanyusa ongayedwa lokuzalwa washada (Palahniuk).

Omunye Indodana encane uphoqelekile has ukuze ibe umuntu omdala ezincane. Ukukhulela, uyaqaphela umndeni wakhe usizi bewazisa umhlatshelo kamama. Amazwi akhe, yena uzahlangana esaphila. Kwangimangaza ukuthola ukuhlangabezana encwadini, ungahlosile ukuzwa emsakazweni.

Ngoba ukuhlakanipha komama - lokhu lesisho ngendodana yakhe, okufutshane ibinzana ohlakaniphile, okuyinto yena wathatha ngokwayo siphuma olwandle amazwi abantu. Ngenxa baveza ukuthi inhliziyo yakhe azizwa. Ngenxa bawayisa sisonke izimiso zokuphila wahlala ethembekile kubo.