Human ubudlova: Psychology luyangenela

Isintu kufanele kuzibiza esigabeni esiphezulu ukuvela izidalwa, kodwa hhayi kuphela ngenxa engqondweni, ukwazi, ukukhalipha kwengqondo, kodwa futhi ngenxa imizwa. Imizwelo ukuthi ngeke zihlukaniswe, ukwehlisa uhlu ethile eyinhloko ukusabela komzimba nalokho okwenzeka emhlabeni futhi ngaphakathi kuye. Ziyakwazi esiyingqayizivele, amazing. Ngamunye wabo akukwazi kubhekwe esingajabulisi, ngisho noma kuziwa ubudlova. Ngezinye izikhathi futhi ewusizo. Kwezinye izimo, le nokuhlaselwa, Psychology yomsuka wawo, kuyingozi futhi edinga ukulungiswa? Zama ukuqonda.

Umqondo ubudlova ayikwazi ukwenziwa kwencazelo ke njengoba ukusabela okungekuhle. Ulaka (Sekuyisikhathi eside Psychology lafinyelela kulesi siphetho) - iqoqo ukusabela, ngezinye izikhathi yekwatisa wenze umzimba womuntu wakwazi bathathe izinyathelo eziwujuqu (okuyinto enhle kwezinye izimo futhi ezimbi kwabanye, akakwamukeli inkampani). Akusona imizwelo eziyisisekelo ngefomu oluhlanzekile, ubudlova kuhlanganisa eziningi isizinda: intukuthelo, ukwesaba, ukwenyanya. Ngezinye izikhathi nge touch of ukumangala, ngisho injabulo.

Asikwazi ukuhlukanisa ubudlova njengendlela mkhuba yesikhashana, eyinqaba bonke abantu, futhi kungenzeka nolaka, ke lesi sijame njengebhoksi trait uhlamvu. Ngejubane futhi imisebenzi engamukelekile eseduze. Yilokho lapho kuba yingozi nabanolaka nalezi zimpawu okudingeka usebenzele: lesifanele, zihambise kwenye indawo, abushelelezi, ushintsho ekugcineni.

Shono kuzo zonke enkulisa, kuzo zonke izikole, ngisho kwezinye izinhlangano ezinkulu wengqondo. Ukuziphatha nobunzima ezingavela ngasiphi isigaba sokuphila kwethu, futhi kudingeka zifunde yokubhekana nazo ngokuphumelelayo. Ngaphandle zokusebenza kwengqondo ngezinye izikhathi kuba impela eziyinkinga, ikakhulukazi endabeni ubudlova. Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu akanakho phawula indlela nolaka.

Umsebenzi ukulungisa ubudlova iqala ngokuthola izizathu ivela khona. Umuntu Ungakopisha ukuziphatha abazali babo (ikakhulukazi kweqiniso kule ingxabano maqondana inkulumo sonya ezinganeni), izihlobo, abangane, esisebenza nabo, ontanga. Futhi ungathola nolaka ngenxa ezinye izehlakalo ezesabekayo ekuphileni kwakhe. Izizathu abonakala ukuze ukhethe izinyathelo ezifanele psycho.

Ulaka Uphinde abhekwe njengempendulo sibhekiswe umzimba noma abanye (zonke ngokungakhethi, noma amalungu kwezakhi ethile womphakathi). Esimweni sokuqala ngenxa ulaka of ukuzenyeza, uhlu lwabantu abalandelanayo ukwehluleka, ukwehluleka, ukucindezeleka. Kungase kuhambisane ukucindezeleka. Izenzo zobudlova futhi isisindo: ekukhulumeni, ngobudlova ngokumelene nabanye noma yena, e ukubonakaliswa kwentukuthelo e ukubaniza intukuthelo (umuntu bungadida lutho, ukwesabisa, kodwa hhayi hit, bang ngenqindi yakhe, ukukhulisa umsindo ngenye indlela). Ngezinye izikhathi ubudlova, Psychology uchaza izimo ezinjalo futhi zingase lubonakale kwabanye, zingase zifane neminye imizwelo.

Thola ubudlova, siqonde umnyombo futhi ukunquma ukuthi isimo idinga ukungenela wengqondo, kuzosiza ukukhomba izindlela zobudlova. Ngempela, ngokwengqondo, sina, ezesayensi, amasu ezinengqondo ngeke ukuthole, abatholakali ngokukhululekile. Kodwa wonke umuntu wezengqondo. Nokho, ake sibize kubo, konke kusenjalo akwazi ukuthola: inqubo Bass-Darky, le-Hand-test Wagner, lwemibuzo ekhethekile Lavrentieva GP (Asetshenziswa ngodokotela e izinkulisa). Siza ukuxilonga nolaka "Figure isilwane nhlobo" (izingane), kanye Luscher test umbala, olunothile Rosenzweig test, isivivinyo "imisho akuphelele". Ezinye zazo zifana novivinyo sivamile wazibona omagazini namaphephandaba. Zakhiwa uchungechunge lwemibuzo, impendulo futhi ubale amaphuzu impendulo ngayinye. Ezinye kunalokho eyinqaba, futhi kubonakala endaweni ethandwa Rorschach (usula, ngoba okufanele kusebenze kiyo ijaji mayelana fantasies zakho, isimo ngokomzwelo, ngisho intelligence). Uma kuqala wenza kanjalo uyokuqonda kalula, bese engozini yesibili (ubudlova, Psychology lwesintu lulonke - ulula kakhulu "daba"), kungcono badlule kanye isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, Uyothunqisa kufinyelelwe iziphetho ezinembile, ukuze uqonde ukuthi ukuba ahumushe imiphumela. kubalulekile ikakhulukazi Ihlahlubo observation indlela (umuntu kumele kube umgomo kakhulu, kuba efiselekayo ukusebenzisa imishini ekhethekile, futhi kungaba kuphela ukwenza pro), ucwaningo kanye nokuhlaziywa ukuziphatha wezengqondo okhokhelwayo.

Uma ubudlova nephazamisa ukuphila okuvamile, ukuthuthukisa bonakalise ubuhlobo bethu nabanye, uma wesaba ingane yakho, ngokuvamile bembonisa negative, nochwepheshe. Isazi uyofunda sinqobe imizwa engakhi futhi abaqondise endleleni efanele.