Yokutakula abebeziphilisa ngako. Yini odinga ukuyazi?

Ngokwezibalo, kusukela isigamu kwekhulu elidlule yesibili inani labantu abahlukanisayo ngonyaka eRussia idlula isibalo obuyizinkulungwane 140. Nokho, isehlukaniso, ngezinye izikhathi kuvela - hhayi inkinga enkulu. Isehlukaniso futhi ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso kumlingani kuyahambisana. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka sibe nolwazi ngalo ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso - inani lemali, ngokuvumelana enkantolo, kumele akhokhe ngemva kokwehlukana omunye komunye - lowo kwaba eyingane (noma izingane ezingaphezu). Okusho ukuthi, uma umndeni sinqamukile ngesikhathi lapho izingane iminyaka engu-18 ubudala, ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso - umbuzo engesiyo ekubuyekezweni.

Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi imali senzelwe izingane, hhayi abazali, nabo bahlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane omdala enamandla kuyodingeka ukwenza izinkokhelo noyise ekhubazekile nonina.

Yokutakula yesondlo ezinkantolo

Ngokuvamile, zezimali ukunikeza zabo izingane ngemva kokwehlukana kungaba ngokuzithandela. Kulokhu, ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso kungenziwa kubekiwe ingxoxo siqu. Nokho, uma omunye waives umthwalo wakhe oqondile, lo mbuzo ungabuzwa futhi kufanele zixazululwe ezinkantolo. Yini okufanele ngiyazi? Nanka amaphuzu ambalwa abalulekile:

• isicelo ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso uzakuba nelungelo omunye abashadayo, kanye namanye amalungu omkhaya ucingo (abantu ezisohlwini Ikhodi Family);
• begceke nokucabangela zonke izinto ezihilelekile (enyangeni eyodwa kusukela ngosuku lokufakwa kwesicelo) futhi uzisebenzisela wenze isinqumo;
• ingane eyodwa inikeza inani elilingana ingxenye yesine ka engenayo ummangalelwa. Kwaphela amakhulu amabili - kwezintathu, ezintathu noma ngaphezulu - isigamu. Uma lokhu kunakwe hhayi kuphela imali ngqo lokukhokha komunye oyedwa, kodwa futhi nezinye imali yayo;
• kulelo cala, uma imali ummangalelwa sika ingaphansi Ummangali inkantolo anganquma kunjalo esivuna kuqala, noma ukwabela isabelo, mancane kakhulu kunalawo okufanele ezimweni ezijwayelekile;
• kangangokuthi ummangali noma ummangalelwa (noma kokubili) kukhona izingane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, e umangalelwa nofana umangali ziyadingeka iqhaza abameleli esisemthethweni abashadayo;
• ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso yisimiso ukulinganiselwa abuzange. Lokho, kungase kuthathe isikhathi esiningi kusukela isehlukaniso ngaphambi kokufaka omunye abashadayo ukuba inkantolo (Yiqiniso, lokhu kufanele kwenzeke kuze izingane zibe abantu abadala abakwaziyo);
• ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso kukhona abantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 ubudala. Nokho, umthetho sihlinzekela inkokhelo abadala abangakwazi ukusebenza;
• izindleko ezihlobene ukwenza ibhizinisi, kanye nokukhokhwa Imali yokubhalisa ngokugcwele athweswe emahlombe ummangalelwa sika. Ummangali engakhokhi lutho;
• uma inkinga ka nokuvulwa alementov ummangali wazama ukuxazulula by izindlela ezinokuthula, futhi ummangalelwa alizange, ngemva kokuya enkantolo angacela isamba iminyaka emithathu esandulele;
• kulelo cala, uma ungazi ukuthi ukephi ummangalelwa (nedatha ezidingekayo isicelo), idokhumenti kufanele bakhombise kuwe ikheli yokugcina eyaziwayo, wahlala khona njengomfokazi.

Yazi amalungelo akho kanye namalungelo izingane zabo futhi ungesabi ukuvikela kubo!