Yikuphi ukugcoba okusondelene okungcono: ukubuyekezwa, amanani

Izithasiselo ezithandanayo zaziwa ngothando ngeminyaka eyizinkulungwane eziningana, kuvela ukuthi abathandi baye bawasebenzisa kusukela ezinsukwini zaseGibhithe lasendulo. Ngaleso sikhathi izithako zokufakelwa zenziwa ngamafutha wezilwane nezimila, ezihlotshiswe nge-ethers ezimbali. Akungabazeki ukuthi ngalezo zinsuku, abalingani bezocansi bazibuza ukuthi ukugcoba okungcono kunjani, ngoba kwakungekho lutho ongakukhetha.

Ukuncintisana kokuzikhethela

Ngokuthuthukiswa kwesiko socansi, abakwa-sexologists kanye nababelethi baqala ukunikeza abathanda izindlela ezingcono kakhulu nezindlela eziphephile. Ngakho-ke, eSoviet Union, kuleso sikhundla, i-petrolatum yendawo yonke yayisetshenziselwa wonke amacala, i-silicone greases eyayiyingxenye ethile. Izitolo zocansi zesikhathi sethu zinikeza abathandi ukukhethwa okukhulu kwama- gel kanye nama-creams asondelene nawo, ahluke ngamanani nangenhloso. Abangenalwazi kulezi zithandani abathintekayo bakuthola kunzima ukunquma ukuthi yikuphi ukugcoba obuseduze okungcono kubo. Izinhlobo eziyinhloko zamafutha, izinzuzo nezinhloso zazo zichazwe kulesi sihloko.

Ukuhlukaniswa No. 1. Indlela yokusebenzisa

Noma iyiphi i-lubricant iklanyelwe ukuthola injabulo xaxa ngesikhathi sokusondelana. Kuye ngenhloso yokusebenzisa, i-lubricant esondelene nayo ikhethiwe. Izinhlobo zamatshe okugcoba ngokwendlela yokusetshenziswa yilezi:

• I-vaginal;
• I-Oral;
• Anal.

Ukugcoba kwamagagasi

Kufunwa ngabesifazane kaningi. Izizathu zihlukile: ubulili obude isikhathi eside, ukwephulwa kwemfihlo ngenxa yezizathu zomzimba (ukukhipha isisu, i-amenorrhea), ubulili ngaphandle kwe-foreplay, ukushaya indlwabu.

Amafutha omlomo

Kanti futhi ehambisana kakhulu nobulili obude bomlomo - inikeza induduzo eyengeziwe kulabo abalingani bobabili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zikhiqizwa ngephunga ehlukene nokuthandayo: ushukelabhisi, ushokoledi, i-vanilla. Kukhona ngisho namafutha omlomo ngephunga lebhethoni, athi bayathandwa ikakhulukazi e-USA.

Amafutha anesibhakabhaka

Lawa angamafutha afinyelela kakhulu, ngaphezu kokusebenza kwawo okuqondile, anezinzuzo eziningana ezengeziwe: aphumule imisipha ye-sphincter, ahlaziye ama-ally amakhemikhali futhi agcobe isikhumba esizungeze i-anus.

Umehluko # 2. Izinzuzo ezengeziwe

Izitsha zokugcoba zanamuhla azikwazi kuphela ukuhlinzeka nge-slip ekhululekile ngesikhathi sokungqubuzana, kodwa futhi ziletha abathandi imizwa ekhethekile, eneminye imisebenzi. Qonda ukuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokubilisa okungcono kakhulu, kuzokusiza ukuqonda ukuthi yikuphi okushiwo lokhu noma lokho okukhethile. Izinhlobo ezinjalo zokugcoba ziyaziwa:

• Amafutha okugcoba nge-spermicide;
• Gcoba nge-anesthetic;
• Gcoba iphunga elimnandi;
• Amafutha okugcoba;
• Amakhemikhali anomphumela ohlukile.

Izigulisi ze-Spermicidal

Ukugcoba obuseduze kwabesifazane kusetshenziswa njengesivikelo esengeziwe ngokukhulelwa okungadingeki. Kucatshangwa ukuthi izinto ezakha lezi gel kufanele zivimbele umsebenzi we-spermatozoa, uzivimbele ukuba zingangeni esibelethweni. Eqinisweni, ikhono le-spermicidal lamafutha anjalo alinalo ukuvikeleka okungu-100% ngokukhulelwa okungafuneki futhi kuvame ukusetshenziswa njengesivikelo esengeziwe kumakhondomu.

Ama-lubricants ane-anesthetic

Uthandwa kakhulu. Ukwandisa ubude bobulili, uqhubekele inqubo yokwaziswa kwamadoda. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi emibhangqwaneni elala nobulili ngemuva kokuphumula isikhathi eside noma okokuqala kuqala. Futhi kusiza amadoda athambekele kwi-orgasms esheshayo. Umphumela wokugcoba utholakala ngokunciphisa ukuzwela kwe-receptors ye-penis.

Ama-lubricants, afunyiwe

Bakhethwa yizibhangqwana ezifuna ukugcizelela umzuzu wokusondelana.

Amafutha okugcoba

Benza isifiso esikhulu, banikele ukuthanda imidlalo yama-sex. Zisebenza ngenxa yokuthi ziqukethe izinto ezikhethekile zokwandisa ama-capillary ezithombeni zobulili, okwenza igazi ligele futhi likhulise ukuzwela.

Amakhemikhali anomphumela ohlukile

I-gel-grease esondelene ifaka amanothi okuhlukahluka emidlalweni yezocansi. Ingaba nomthelela wokufudumala noma umphumela weqhwa, futhi ingabangela ukulinganisa.

Umehluko nguNo. 3. Ukubunjwa

Zonke izithako ezitholakalayo ziyatholakala emafutheni, noma emanzini, noma kuma-silicone substrates. Ukungezwani okubalulekile kanye nezici kunomshini ngamunye obuseduze . Izinhlobo zamafutha ezakhiwe zihlukaniswe ngamaqembu ukuthi:

• Isizinda samafutha . Zinezinkinga eziningi eziphawulekayo: izimbisi ezinjalo zinesilinganiso esincane kakhulu futhi zishiya amanothi ezembatho. Izinzuzo nazo zikhona. Lezi zimboni zinezici eziningana, ngakho-ke zihle kakhulu ekuzihlaleni okusondelene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukugcoba kwamafutha ngokuvamile kuyabiza.
• Isisekelo samanzi . Ama-gel anjalo ayadingeka kakhulu ngenxa yokukwazi ukudala i-glide enhle kakhulu. Amakhemikhali emanzini awashiyi amathrekhi ezembatho nezingubo zangaphansi, ashibhile ngokwanele. Phakathi kwama-minuses kusho ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwabo kudinga ukuvuselelwa ngesikhathi sokulala ngokobulili, ngoba lawo majeli anomhlaba wokuma.
• Isisekelo se-abicah . I-gel-grease esondelene yalolu hlobo ihlinzeka nge-glide ehlakaniphile ngaphandle kokubuyekeza ngisho nangomuntu ocansini obude futhi obuhlukahlukene. Kunemiphumela eminingana: izindleko eziphezulu kanye nezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi lapho zisuswe emzimbeni (kudinga ukusebenzisa isepha). Ngaphezu kwalokho, abicah abashiya amathrekhi kwezinye izinhlobo zendwangu.

Umehluko No. 4. Izindleko

Izindleko zokugcoba okusondelene nazo zithinta ivolumu ye-tube, ukuvumelana, i-absorbency, ukwakheka kwe-gel, ubuchwepheshe bokukhiqiza nokukhuthazwa kwegama lomenzi.

Ngakho-ke, ukusetshenziswa kwama-spermicides nama-flavour kuholela ekutheni intengo ephakeme ine-lubricant elimnandi esondelene nayo. Intengo yamafutha afanele ama-50 ml ayi-rubleki ka-200-1500, futhi izindleko eziphakeme yizici zamatshe okugcoba ngomlomo anezimfanelo zokunambitheka.

I-silicone grease idayiswa ezitolo zobulili ngentengo yama-ruble angu-300 for the 50 ml efanayo. Amakhemikhali anomphumela wokupholisa anezindleko ezijwayelekile zama-ruble angu-250, futhi ama-gel anesifo sokubulala umzimba athengiswa ngenani lama-ruble angu-200. 50 ml of lubricant anal nge effect analgesic kuyobiza ngothando nge rubles 800-1500.

Izinketho zokukhethwa kwe-lubricant

Ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo eziyinhloko zamakhemikhali ezithengiswa ezitolo zobulili, kulula kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi yikuphi ukugcoba okusondelene okungcono.

Uma ukhetha i-lubricant, kubalulekile ukucabangela amaphuzu ambalwa abalulekile:

1. Uma uhlela ukusebenzisa amathoyizi ama-sexy avela ku-latex, ungasebenzisa amakhemikhali abisiliconsi kuphela noma esekelwe ngamanzi. Amakhemikhali anomzimba weoli angaphazamisa ubuqotho bobubili amathoyizi obulili kanye nekhondomu.
2. Lapho ukhetha ithuluzi, kunengqondo ukutadisha ukwakheka kwayo. Abantu abavame ukwelashwa ngokweqile basabela kakhulu kuma-dyes athile, ama-parabens nama-preservatives. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokukhethekile uma kwenzeka ukusetshenziswa kwamafutha asondelene, ngoba ahlangene nezindawo zamanzi. Abantu abanesifo sofuzo kufanele bagweme ama-gel enemibala ekhanyayo, ehogela futhi ethanda.
3. Ukusetshenziswa okungahambisani nokugcoba ngokubhekene nezifo zesimo esithathelwanayo noma se-bacterial ohlelweni lwe-genitourinary.
4. Ama-sexologists ancoma ukuthi uthenge amathobhu amaningi wokugcoba ngesikhathi esifanayo ukukhetha i-lubricant efanele. Ngakho-ke ezitolo zezocansi, izinguqulo zokulinga ezinomthamo ophansi wejel futhi ngezindleko eziphansi zithengiswa.

Ukubuyekeza mayelana nama-gels aseduze

Uma abalingani basebenzisa i-lubricant efanelekile kokubili, impendulo ngaleli thuluzi ihlale ihle. Abesifazane bathanda ukuthi abazwa ukuzwa okungajabulisi ngenxa yokungqubuzana ngokungabikho kwamanzi anele. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane esikhathini sokubeletha kanye nesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izithako ezithakazelisayo zingandisa ama-libido kwezinye izintombi "zeqhwa".

Amadoda abhala injabulo ekhethekile uma usebenzisa i-lubricant. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-lubricant iyakwazi ukuba umsizi wamadoda aphuthuma ngokushesha ngenxa yezimo ezithile.

Ngomdlandla uphendule mayelana nabathandi bokugcoba bezocansi, ngoba isondo sangasese ngaphandle kokugcoba okungcono akunakwenzeka. Ikhambi elihle aligcini nje ngokucwilisa ama-membrane amancane, kodwa futhi kunganciphisa ukucindezeleka kwe-sphincter, ngaleyo ndlela unikeze inqubo ekhululekile yabalingani bobabili.

Futhi ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi, ngaphambi kokuya esitolo, kunconywa ukuba uxoxe ngezinkundla zezocansi mayelana ne-grease ethandiwe. Ngezinye izikhathi emashalofini athola ukugcoba okusondelene, ukubuyekezwa okuyizikhathi eziningi ezingalungile. Ezingxenyeni ezikhethekile zezinkundla zezocansi kunezihloko lapho kuxoxwa khona ngemikhakha engafinyeleleki embonini yezocansi.

Ekuphethweni

Ukukhethwa kokugcoba - into enomthwalo wemfanelo kakhulu, ngenxa yekhwalithi yayo kuxhomeke ekuphileni kocansi kwabalingani. I-Psychotherapists bakholelwa ukuthi isisekelo sobuhlobo bomshado esithandweni sithandana komunye nomunye, futhi isisekelo sobuhlobo bomndeni sisondelene. Kubuhlobo obuseduze bokuthandana nokwethemba.

Kodwa kwezinye izigaba zokuphila, indawo yokusondelana ihlala ngokuphila kwansuku zonke, izingane kanye nomsebenzi. Ukubambisana kuyindlela elula yokuhlukanisa ubudlelwane bobulili ezimweni ezinjalo. Abe-sexologists bafaka amathoyizi e-sex and play-play games endaweni yesibili.