Uyini kukhathazeka

Ngamunye wethu okungenani kanye kodwa wazithola ubuswa obsessions. Umqondo, okuyinto njalo ukuphotha in ekhanda lami, akuncikile futhi ungafuni ukuya noma kuphi, kwezinye izimo, kungase kubonakale kumnandi, kuyilapho abanye iyoba umthombo izinkinga ezinkulu kalula. Njengoba isibonelo, cabanga ukuthi uvale okugeza amanzi endlini, cisha igesi lapho ekhishini. Imicabango enjalo ngaphandle kwezinkinga kungabangela neurosis yangempela abayimilutha.

Abanye abantu abakwazi ukusiza kodwa cabanga ukuthi yonke indawo asengozini. Lokhu akukona mayelana uhlanyiswa futhi mayelana uma umuntu udonsa ngokuphelele isimo sibonakala yingozi kuye. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu angayiphishekela Yazi exhumene yokuthi uma iphume kusanda kushaya ihora leshumi ebusuku, khona-ke ziyohlasela isigebengu ngesikhathu kunempi jacket black ngommese esandleni sakhe kanye bandanna entanyeni yakhe. Iphuzu eliyinhloko ukuthi lezi imibono zingathola izithombe ezinemininingwane kakhulu. Kuvele Eqinisweni ezithakazelisayo wukuthi umuntu uhlushwa kukhathazeka ezichazwe ngenhla angeke ngisho ukuphendula uma yayo emgwaqweni yokweba indoda ogqoke ijazi elimnyama ngommese, kodwa ngaphandle bandanas. UJesu uyobuya ekhaya futhi kuyoba kabusha imijikelezo esithombeni othinta inhliziyo, kodwa ukuphanga kwenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu ukukhohlwa.

Ngokuvamile ukuthatheka ikhula aphume umuntu ufuna ukwenza okuthile. Akubalulekile kulesi sigaba ucabanga iholide, ubuka amabhayisikobho nokunye, njengoba lena isifiso evamile, nemvelo lapho lutho lapho. Obsessions avame ukuba engavamile, kube yinqaba, kuvuse engamukeleki - ngamanye amazwi, kufanele ziyaphikisana ubunjalo le ndoda, wayevakashele. Ngokuvamile ngalinye lala masonto imibono eziwubuwula kakhulu. Ngokwesibonelo: uvuke induna itafula phambi kwakhe, ukunikeza umthengisi wesifazane kusukela esitolo sendawo isixubho, ukweba noma yini kusukela efulethini komngane wakhe. Konke lokhu umsindo ezihlekisayo, kodwa abantu abane-le akumnandi lapha ungaziboni. Imicabango enjalo angenza umuntu twitches sezinzwa, efuna ukuba yedwa, yebo, ithinta kakhulu psyche yakhe.

Yiqiniso, i- kukhathazeka kungenzeka ezinhle: ukuze uthole imali eningi, ondle umkhaya wakhe, ukuhamba emhlabeni. Lezi imibono kubonakale ngempela eyanele, futhi kusukela evamile izifiso komuntu kuhluke kuphela amandla abo. Le catch wukuthi umuntu nomuntu kukhathazeka mayelana imali uzokwenza konke ukuphila kwawo ngaphandle ngisho ukucabanga ukuthi kungani ayefuna. Kodwa indoda ngokweqile mayelana enjabulweni yomshado uzobe ngifuna konke ukuphila kwakhe, kodwa uzofa yedwa, hhayi okuthola umuntu ngawo ukuqala umndeni.

Obsessions: kanjani ukubhekana nazo

Eyokuqala ukuqonda isizathu sokuthi kungani kwakukhona lesi neurosis: ukukhathala, ukudla okungenamsoco, nokungalali, izakhiwo kufihlwe nokunye. Ngaphandle ukuqonda nokuqaphela inkinga ngeke ukulwa naso.

Ukuvuma ukuthi akukuniki ukuthula kukhathazeka kuyinkinga, bese uzama ngokwami sikholelwe ukuthi yena uyisiphukuphuku, wenze okungaphezu kwamandla. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuzokusiza.

Obsessions, abahlangene ukwesaba, ukwelashwa okungcono kule "endle." Ucabanga ukuthi black cat - a Umthombo wabo bonke ububi emhlabeni, uthole le isilwane ekhaya; Ngicabanga elisophahleni lwendlu ophilayo indoda engenakhaya ufuna efile - yiya lapho futhi uqinisekise ukuthi yonke into ethule nokuzola.

izindlela eziqondile umzukuzuku kanye nemibono ehambisana ne-oda kanye nokuhlanzeka. Ngicabanga ukuyichaza kakade, kanjani, khona-ke, qhubeka kuyize.

Kuyinto ngokuvamile kungenzeka bagcine neurosis ukunyakaza obsessional ezinganeni. Ukwelapha it is arcade kwenziwa ngokusekelwa uchwepheshe, njengoba isifo izingane hhayi trifled.

Ngokuvamile, Ngifuna ukwengeza ukuthi akukephuzi kakhulu ukuze ujike kudokotela wengqondo ngiyofuna lochwepheshe ukusiza ukuqeda ngisho kukhathazeka eziphikelelayo kakhulu kanye qha kwenela.